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RE: Unrealistic expectations - 1/20/2007 12:44:07 PM

dawntreader

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

As someone who has played widely in the SF bay area and who has a very deep interest in the dynamics of power I would like to add a few thoughts.

So, bottom line (no pun intended) parties are sometimes just as stupid as you imagine but if you don't know what to look for it is amazing what you can miss and sometimes you see some amazing things. I look back at many parties and only in retrospect can I really "see" what was going on.

You cannot "look" and judge the level of power exchange going on.

Now this was fascinating to me. How i would love to be a fly on the wall at times...

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RE: Unrealistic expectations - 1/20/2007 1:28:37 PM

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fast reply...

i read the first couple pages of the thread, got bored and skipped to the last page of posted replies. Upon realizing at this point that the thread has evolved into the topic of "RATE YOURSELF", my interest in reading further, and adding my own reply, was renewed.

When i was about 20 years younger, i thought i was a 3 or a 4 and sometimes tried to pass as a 5 (edited to add: was difficult to even find a 3 back then... i don't think 2's existed, nevermind 1's or 0's..... so i suffered with being a 5 if need be). i am now a definite 2. i was an absolute perfect 0 about 6 weeks ago, but then i quit smoking because my left lung collapsed for no reason at all except that i smoked about a pack and a half of the cheapest cigarettes i could find for the past 25 years..... gained about 9 pounds since (i'm not posting on that smoking thread by the way... nothing like a chest tube or three poking out of the chest for three weeks to help bolster the claim to how unhealthy smoking turned out to be for me... though i'm certain some idiot out there will claim to know or prove better... heh).

So, yeah ... i'm a 2... have ALL my teeth even (but they are no longer yellow).

< Message edited by thisishis -- 1/20/2007 1:33:36 PM >

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