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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/20/2007 11:58:39 AM

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jezzabelle - It is going on ten days now and the lazy twit still hasn't made that simple change. It's nice of you to try but she ain't listening.

edited to add: Damn, now I have made this a six page thread. Sorry about that folks.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/20/2007 12:38:08 PM

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OMG, you bumped it to six pages?!? Shame on you!!! LOL

She's just showing her immaturity anyhow with bitching and whining yet not actually doing anything about her profile to fix the problem. If she can't read, why should she expect others to?

Personally, I don't know what her beef is with older dominants. To me, age doesn't make a difference. It's all about the personalilty.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/20/2007 7:07:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: RobertCloud

From another of the OLD Doms, though I personally in no way consider 45 as old, and find it an insult that some young immature child who has little business being out of her diapers should even think of calling me old. She is probably looking for someone to please her that has no experience and will wind up hurt because of the lack of knowledge, like another I knew wanting to get into asphyxiation and had no clue what she was doing, just asked questions online and did no other research, she nearly died.

And the (Koukei) hair comment, (dancingjade) trailer trash comment, and more. These children need more than ass spankings, they need placed in stocks and good floggings and taught the true meaning of the lifestyle because their profiles show no submission what-so-ever.

Little girls (Koukei and dancingjade), I am one Dominant that will pass you by, will not speak to you, will block you, will think I am lucky that two pieces of TRASH like you did not come my way because it is obvious you have more concern about yourself than the lifestyle or the weak dominants that you supposedly serve because they will most assuredly allow you to top them with your attitudes.

Good day,

i happen to agree with this. For those of us that feel "called" to submission, these girls cheapen it with their immature attitudes and their better than thou demeanor. i don't consider them submissives at all, just people looking for kink...

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/20/2007 8:03:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: RobertCloud
Little girls (Koukei and dancingjade), I am one Dominant that will pass you by, will not speak to you, will block you, will think I am lucky that two pieces of TRASH like you did not come my way because it is obvious you have more concern about yourself than the lifestyle or the weak dominants that you supposedly serve because they will most assuredly allow you to top them with your attitudes.

Good day,

So you find the best thing to do is respond with EXACTLY the inappropriate and immature behavior you place upon them?

I will never understand doms who feel it's somehow appropriate to suggest they spank/beat subs just because they dislike them or find them immature. I can only think it's because they have no other method of coping or working out their issues except direct physical violence and somehow feel more dominant by making such statements.

I remember I was once told I needed a harsh spanking because I wouldn't call a dom sir in a chat room.

Okay, maybe you missed my point..
I have no problem with submissives or slaves of any nature. The problem I have is that the profiles of these two and the attitude that they have shown is that they show themselves to be neither. They are in the lifestyle for the kink as someone else has stated and that I do not mind, but I hate it when they claim to be something they are not. That is when I go into the mode I have demonstrated. Show them what submission can be like, teach them the depth of the deepest submission and either let them decide it is for them and they are submissive or that it is not for them and let them call themselves what they truly are, kinksters. Which is fine, but don't pretend.

I have no problem with someone not calling me Sir, or anything because they do not know me and I have yet to earn their respect. I do not believe respect is given, it is earned. You can show courtesy, you earn respect. It does not bother me, and I accept that from those that feel that Sir and Ma'am are part of respect to be earned, others feel that it is part of a courtesy to be given, I accept that as well, whatever is the way you feel about it that is fine, I am not your Dominant or Master to determine how you should address others. My little one will show courtesy when I have a little one.

Now on that topic a moment.... lol.... I have always found it rude and annoying when people put the title in their name. I know it is their right to choose whatever name they wish. However, it is rude to expect someone such as a slave to call them by their full name if their Master has ruled that the only person they call Master is their own Master. So if someone has Master or Mistress in their name, and a slave's Master has ruled she can only call her Master "Master" then she would be breaking his command if she were to address this other person by their full name. She has no choice but to drop the title and call them Sir or Ma'am and then that person gets mad because she is obeying her Master. It is the same thing with all Titles in Names, I just don't see the point.. lol.. but then again, I am not the person doing it, and I did do it at one time, but later dropped it when I realized it was kind of super arrogant of me.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/20/2007 8:05:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

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ORIGINAL: RobertCloud

From another of the OLD Doms, though I personally in no way consider 45 as old, and find it an insult that some young immature child who has little business being out of her diapers should even think of calling me old. She is probably looking for someone to please her that has no experience and will wind up hurt because of the lack of knowledge, like another I knew wanting to get into asphyxiation and had no clue what she was doing, just asked questions online and did no other research, she nearly died.

And the (Koukei) hair comment, (dancingjade) trailer trash comment, and more. These children need more than ass spankings, they need placed in stocks and good floggings and taught the true meaning of the lifestyle because their profiles show no submission what-so-ever.

Little girls (Koukei and dancingjade), I am one Dominant that will pass you by, will not speak to you, will block you, will think I am lucky that two pieces of TRASH like you did not come my way because it is obvious you have more concern about yourself than the lifestyle or the weak dominants that you supposedly serve because they will most assuredly allow you to top them with your attitudes.

Good day,

i happen to agree with this. For those of us that feel "called" to submission, these girls cheapen it with their immature attitudes and their better than thou demeanor. i don't consider them submissives at all, just people looking for kink...

Thank you... You got what I was trying to show and say.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/20/2007 8:20:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: TrueCalling

I can't see how any sincere RT Dominant of ANY age would want to deal with her childish and bratty antics..Sweetie, when you grow up you'll learn it's not all about you..I get a feeling you're getting exactly what you deserve.....

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AMEN, sister!!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/20/2007 8:57:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

LOL, some pudgy girl and someone who only has looks (wait on that one kid, and study and understand phyics) your life will come to both you are worth 5 pages?

Jesus, I write a fuckin joke and gotta beg people to come lookie see?

Throw me in a frame of reference guys.

Ron

LOL, someone pass me a Ron decoder ring please, mine isn't working.......

***edited cause I can't type***

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/20/2007 9:39:33 PM

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Koukei:
There is STOP signs all over in Miami, yet people just drive past them. Why don't they respect them, you wonder?

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/20/2007 11:19:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: cjenny

Older men are yummy. Yummy I say.

Erm, did I say that out loud?

Well, that alone will get you 200 extra mail... LOL

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/21/2007 8:05:31 AM

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Do you actually belive that the CHRONOLOGICAL measurment of age is critical?? Unless you plan to make babies, there are many Doms who are AGED TO PERFECTION, and better than newer models ... LOL

Good luck

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/21/2007 1:57:04 PM

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I AGREE WITH SETTING YOUR FILTER AT THE CUTOFF AGE OF 35.THEN YOU WON'T HAVE THIS PROBLEM SMILES.HOWEVER YOU MAY BE PASSING UP A DIAMOND FOR A CHUNK OF COAL..SMILES..WILLIAM

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/21/2007 2:02:36 PM

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I WANT TO RESPOND TO THE YOUNG LADY THATS A DANCER SHE SAID"who do you think is stuffing my gstring with 10 dollar bills"...it must be those young guys for us mature doms would be stuffing it full of 100 dollar bills.That is if you are on top of the food chain smiles..WILLIAM

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/21/2007 2:02:50 PM

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Dont be scared of the mail controls and block buttons.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/21/2007 4:09:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: Koukei

See... doms make the mistake of thinking im new to this lifestyle. I may have been a virgin up until a year ago... but this lifestyle has been with me since like 15? And I made an exception ONCE. He was 40 and looked 25. And its really not about them being older... its about how they read my profile and completely ignore it and mail me. Currently the profile says "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" which should be clear that IM NOT LOOKING. Why do I get no respect?

~Koukei MonStar~

On your profile it says actively seeking Dominant and submissve men. So maybe thats why you keep getting emails from Doms. So many even the older ones may think you are looking.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/21/2007 5:36:04 PM

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So, I actually sat here and read through all six pages of this monstrosity. (I do hope I spelled that right. Spelling Nazi's feel free to ream me a new one. Just use a little lube, eh?) In the original context, yes I understand where she's coming from. We all have standards, and they're there for a reason. When I went to read this young womans profile, I was less then impressed. As was I when I read the second females profile. Neither are polite nor nice, but they are to the point. Alas, that point has become dull. My profile is specific because I know that people WANT and NEED specifics. I actually have a list of standard responses I send to each person that messages me, and thus far I've written back EVERY SINGLE PERSON. With some measure of politeness to boot.

So: My fellow younger subs sisters I know from where you come. However I must agree with my peers that this has become a horrible attempt at self promotion.

-Wyld

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/21/2007 6:29:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

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I did ! That's how I got sneezed on by the sloth bear...either front of behind, if an animal want's to getcha messy they'll find a way.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/21/2007 6:31:51 PM

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Wow..i have the opposite thing always happening..men being too young contacting me and actually young women like You contacting me too...wierd! i think men my age or older are the best!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/21/2007 6:33:26 PM

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men over 35 unwelcome and exceptions rarely made?

I think the underlined word pretty much explains it....duh

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/22/2007 7:15:51 AM

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I just think it's amusing that after now 6 pages of posts Koukei still has not changed her profile to state what she does and does not want. The fact that she has not replied to posts with critisism, and only to the ones giving her praise is also amusing.
Personally I think she thrives by all this attention, post after post about her her her. And her stripper friend sidekick.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/22/2007 7:21:01 AM

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I'm confused- people are saying that some random cyber youngsters on this board are somehow weakening their relationships and the values they choose to live by?

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