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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 2:17:01 PM

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The most severe case of chronic cranial rectal inversion i have encountered in some time.........

Took me awhile but I got it!!!
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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 2:28:28 PM

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OK I am a bit mystified by this post......Are you saying that older people shouldn't look for younger partners/those to play with? I hope not, I mean I may prefer those who are close to my age, but I certainly will not sit in judgement of someone who dates/plays with another who is older/younger. If someone out of my age range does write to me( or out of area,etc.) I simply write a polite responce saying I am not interested. Though cannot help getting alittle perturbed when it is OBVIOUS that they have not read my profile!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 2:48:43 PM

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LOL, mnottertail!!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 2:54:20 PM

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Hmmm... the profile translates as "Look at what you're never going to get"...

... the OP comes across as "I need more cheese to go with all this whine"...

... and the follow-up posts refuse to acknowledge any room for error on her part.

I'm sorry but, to me, this just screams ASWS... Attention Seeking Whore Syndrome... and the garish post font does nothing to alter that impression.

As earlier posters have pointed out, if you're not looking you edit your profile to reflect that. To do otherwise just invites men to mail in. To then complain about those people whose only fault is that they're not mind readers, strikes me as not just unfair, but "asking for it"... it just makes me think of driving along the highway in a clunker of a station wagon, and seeing a cop at the roadside writing a speeding ticket for some flash guy driving an expensive sports car, that they're getting what they deserve.

And what's wrong with 190lbs and only 5' 2"? Grab her by the ears and ride her like a Space Hopper!!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 4:18:41 PM

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I'm in the "old" dom group *lol* and I have not messaged you. It may seem that every dom here has rudely messaged you, but I suspect it's just a rude fraction.

I can't imagine why anyone over 35 would write to you if that is made clear in your profile. If so they are rude. I recommend hitting the block button, but others suggest mail parameters and if the parameters are listed in the profile such as 'not interested if over 35" I wouldn't consider that insensitive or rude. I think that an upper limit of 2x your age is quite rational and a good upper limit.

As an afterthought "old" is quite variable these days. In my practice I see 25 year old men and women who have 8 times the risk of a cardio-vascular incident (heart attack) and 12 times the risk of a cerebrovascular incident (stroke) than I do. In short I see 25 year old men and women whose bodies are in far worse shape than what I would expect from the average 50 year old person. Just an afterthought, not criticism...

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 4:50:42 PM

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WHEN WILL THEY UNDERSTAND THE HAIR DOESNT GET TOUCHED.

~Koukei MonStar~

Holy crap! I have seen it all now. Touching hair as a hard limit!!

I just have to say that if the hair doesn't get messed up; it is likely that you are not doing it right.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 5:04:21 PM

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That's just like the two or three e-mails i get askng if i'd consder a sub and i'm submissive. <rolles eyes> Just ingore the e-mails.

i much prefer older Dom's. Most of them are more mature and know what the heck their doing. i think most of my Dom's that i've have been at least 10 years older then me.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 5:34:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: BrutalDemon

Hmmm... the profile translates as "Look at what you're never going to get"...

... the OP comes across as "I need more cheese to go with all this whine"...

... and the follow-up posts refuse to acknowledge any room for error on her part.

I'm sorry but, to me, this just screams ASWS... Attention Seeking Whore Syndrome... and the garish post font does nothing to alter that impression.

i so agree...

And what's wrong with 190lbs and only 5' 2"? Grab her by the ears and ride her like a Space Hopper!!

the imagery of this!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 5:48:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: NightWindWhisper

As an afterthought "old" is quite variable these days. In my practice I see 25 year old men and women who have 8 times the risk of a cardio-vascular incident (heart attack) and 12 times the risk of a cerebrovascular incident (stroke) than I do. In short I see 25 year old men and women whose bodies are in far worse shape than what I would expect from the average 50 year old person. Just an afterthought, not criticism...

So very true...

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 5:48:36 PM

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I just have to say that if the hair doesn't get messed up; it is likely that you are not doing it right.

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Okay, can I get this printed on a t-shirt?

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 5:52:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: Koukei

WHEN WILL THEY UNDERSTAND THE HAIR DOESNT GET TOUCHED.

~Koukei MonStar~

Holy crap! I have seen it all now. Touching hair as a hard limit!!

I just have to say that if the hair doesn't get messed up; it is likely that you are not doing it right.

Knight's kyra

LMAO!!! i was just thinking...my hair better get touched, pulled, messed up a bit, or i am going to start thinking "vanilla"!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 6:00:44 PM

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And if it's a bit sticky, trust me it washes out!

then again, the 4 of us who seem to think this way are all over 35.
maybe were all wrong............. LOL

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: Koukei

WHEN WILL THEY UNDERSTAND THE HAIR DOESNT GET TOUCHED.

~Koukei MonStar~

Holy crap! I have seen it all now. Touching hair as a hard limit!!

I just have to say that if the hair doesn't get messed up; it is likely that you are not doing it right.

Knight's kyra

LMAO!!! i was just thinking...my hair better get touched, pulled, messed up a bit, or i am going to start thinking "vanilla"!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 6:03:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists
I just have to say that if the hair doesn't get messed up; it is likely that you are not doing it right.

Knight's kyra

OMG thank you kyra

OP consider yourself well and truly spanked and please try to retain the lessons of the wise people here for your next foray into adulthood.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 6:12:58 PM

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I concur......I certainly do not want to end a session looking the same way i did when it started!!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 9:09:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists
I just have to say that if the hair doesn't get messed up; it is likely that you are not doing it right.

Knight's kyra

OMG thank you kyra

OP consider yourself well and truly spanked and please try to retain the lessons of the wise people here for your next foray into adulthood.

LMAO

Thank you, Kyra & crouchingtigress!!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 9:14:36 PM

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LMAO!!! i was just thinking...my hair better get touched, pulled, messed up a bit, or i am going to start thinking "vanilla"!

Hey hey, no vanilla bashing. I've had tons of vanilla sex that was far more satisfying than with a lot of dominants or submissives.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 9:16:40 PM

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LOL....too funny.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/17/2007 11:09:14 PM

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nope, it's not just you over 35ers :P my hair is really short, but if it isn't tangled from being pulled so much, or sticky from cum, i have to stop and wonder if i've actually even been having sex at all, hehehe! and i want kyra's quote on a shirt as well, rofl.

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ORIGINAL: Quivver

And if it's a bit sticky, trust me it washes out!

then again, the 4 of us who seem to think this way are all over 35.
maybe were all wrong............. LOL

but back to the issue of dating older...from the comments made by koukei and jadedancer on this thread, i'm almost scared to think what opinions are being formed about people in my age range. rest assured, older dominants, we don't ALL think that way...at least, i don't!

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/18/2007 1:31:50 AM

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I look at 99% of the male profiles onhere and think serial killer. sad but true. Its how they portray themselves and then get upset when they cant get whatthey want.

How many do I actually have to "off" in a given period of time to qualify as a "serial killer", as opposed to say... occasional killler... or serial maimer who occasionally kills by accident... or.... maybe this isn't the right venue to be discussing this. Please strike all that from the record.

John

*Laughs!!* John i think it's only two as long as it's consecutive not concurrent, but all in the same day is called "spree" killer. Wow i watch way too much CourtTV.

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RE: Old Doms.. What is your deal? - 1/18/2007 1:39:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: Koukei

WHEN WILL THEY UNDERSTAND THE HAIR DOESNT GET TOUCHED.

~Koukei MonStar~

Holy crap! I have seen it all now. Touching hair as a hard limit!!

I just have to say that if the hair doesn't get messed up; it is likely that you are not doing it right.

Knight's kyra

LMAO!!! i was just thinking...my hair better get touched, pulled, messed up a bit, or i am going to start thinking "vanilla"!

ROFLMAO Oh i Soooo want that T-shirt!

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