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As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or other... - 1/30/2007 7:23:24 AM

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As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or otherwise?

examples:

* Being tied to a bed spread eagle when your top / dominant has a heart attack.

* Being abandoned

* Being a party favor

* Not telling your dom how you reall cared or thought before they died

* Sufficating or choking during hood, gag or breath play

* your dom finding another submissive withy your help and leaving you

Ross

RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 7:25:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or otherwise?

examples:

* Being tied to a bed spread eagle when your top / dominant has a heart attack.

* Being abandoned

* Being a party favor

* Not telling your dom how you reall cared or thought before they died

* Sufficating or choking during hood, gag or breath play

* your dom finding another submissive withy your help and leaving you

Ross

the fears that I have in life have nothing to do with my being submissive and everything to do with my being human.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 7:29:03 AM

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my biggest fear is being taken advantage of ,made to fall in love with my Dom then being left,and the last one used to bother me finding another and him leaving me ,but I have more confidence ,yet as subs we are required to give ourselves fully to our Masters and not all men are caring enough to deserve that

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 7:30:57 AM

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As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or otherwise?

That I'll reach a point where I can't see new fractals on the path I walk, so I'll just stop walking.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 7:35:32 AM

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Being abandoned. Stems back to childhood but it's something i've never quite learnt to deal with so i just accept now it is a part of me and deal with it best i can.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 7:44:12 AM

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I'm really terrified of camel crickets. Yeah, camel crickets are definitely a hard limit for me.

In a BDSM context, my biggest fear would probably be doing something to jepordize my relationship.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 7:54:54 AM

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My Master has taught me to focus on the positives, and on things going right, versus fearing all that can go wrong. So this thread has a very dark and negative feel to it for me. I think, "Why would I want to contemplate such horrible things?" But I don't fear those things, because I trust he won't kill me, abandon me or dump me. And I express my love for him daily so that's not an issue. I use to be fear-driven. Now such thoughts seem foreign to me. There is so much more that goes RIGHT to focus on and enjoy!

If I have one fear at all, it is the knowledget that with our age difference, he will likely leave this earth before I do. And when he does, he'll take a piece of me with him. All the stuff that happens between now and then is life to be enjoyed.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 7:56:02 AM

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As a submissive, but biggest fear is not finding the perfect Dom.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 7:59:25 AM

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I think I have two biggest fears...

One is on a purely physical level... being really physically hurt, I mean, to the point where I have to go to an emergency room. Which I know my Master won't do to me, but accidents can happen. Luckily, we take things slow and easy, and He's very careful to make sure I'm alright. And of course, I trust Him implicitly and without doubt, so, I tend not to think about this anymore since I met Him.

The second is always the same throughout my life, not necessarily as a submissive, but with everyone. I am always afraid of not letting the people I care for and love (all levels of "love" here) know exactly how much they mean to me before they are gone from my life. This comes from loosing my parents and then my brother at a relatively young age and being so shy and scared to say what was in my heart. I will not do that anymore with anyone, from casual good friends to lovers.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 8:24:12 AM

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a lot ofmy Dom freinds know thand and have a big laugh over it. I am terrorfied of loseing control. not of a situation or anyting like that. but of myself. they and I as well find it an odd fear for a submissive to have

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 8:25:42 AM

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being abandoned by Daddy (which He has re-assurred it would never happen because we are forever) due to His death. i think i would be an emotional wreck since we are very close to each other and leave the lifestyle for good.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 8:30:00 AM

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my biggest fear is hurting someone close to me. i used to have a fear of being attacked (raped or otherwise), but certain circumstances in my life have led to that, well, not being my biggest fear anymore. however, i've always had a fear of disappointing and/or hurting those i love.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 8:35:07 AM

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I think the thing I fear most is discovering my partner is something else than I thought he was. It never ceases to amaze me what people are capable of (think men with multiple families, serial killers/cannibals, child molesters, liars, etc.). Having said that…beyond a simple check that at least he’s using his real name, address, phone number; I try not to let my past color my future. I prefer to ‘act as if’. If one can’t let go and just trust, then…what is there? Still, I'm bright enough; should I have questions...I ask; and...I'm learning how to ask. There's an art to it, I think, that doesn't include either accusation or confrontation.

Past that a serious fear I have is heights. I cannot drive easily over mountain passes (I will drive hundreds of miles to avoid Wolf Creek Pass.) Hell, I have difficulty standing on a chair! I like to cross country ski (no lifts!!!), but I slide down little hills on my butt.) No looking over the rim of the Royal Gorge for me!!! <urp>

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 8:58:08 AM

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I never really thought about it. I guess my biggest fear would be not being allowed to have the opportunity to experience everything I want to.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 9:22:53 AM

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Non-consensual physical abuse of a grave nature (like a terrible beating).
Had it happen, and survived it - wouldn't go there again.

Second in line (and maybe closely related) is someone with an out-of-control temper or "anger issues".

Also - being abandoned by someone I've grown very close to - although I would survive it, it would be heart-breaking for me.

Bearlee: I am scared of heights also - terrified is a better word. A real sadist would take me to the roof of a tall building and make me look over the top. I think I'd faint (and if I fell off in the process, then he'd be in real trouble).

- Susan

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 9:32:33 AM

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I have lots of fears as a human being, but I do not know of any that I can relate to my submissiveness directly.

My biggest fear in this world is of driving, our relationship is helping me deal with that fear, not contributing to it. If I have fears, I tell my Daddy about them though.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 9:34:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

My Master has taught me to focus on the positives, and on things going right, versus fearing all that can go wrong. So this thread has a very dark and negative feel to it for me. I think, "Why would I want to contemplate such horrible things?" But I don't fear those things, because I trust he won't kill me, abandon me or dump me. And I express my love for him daily so that's not an issue. I use to be fear-driven. Now such thoughts seem foreign to me. There is so much more that goes RIGHT to focus on and enjoy!

If I have one fear at all, it is the knowledget that with our age difference, he will likely leave this earth before I do. And when he does, he'll take a piece of me with him. All the stuff that happens between now and then is life to be enjoyed.

You know that was also my first feeling reading it.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 10:48:06 AM

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my biggest fear is of losing my Master...him passing away and me still being here, having to function, exist, without him.

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 11:12:07 AM

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being dismissed of my services

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RE: As a submissive what is your biggest fear real or o... - 1/30/2007 11:39:32 AM

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That my Master will be sick and pass away. I think I would feel that way even if it wasn't an M/s relationship though.

Drea

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