sensualmagirl
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Joined: 7/4/2006 From: Boston, MA Status: offline
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A lot of the advice I read is great, thank you because I too have difficulties at times with the pain... Lots of lube is a tremendous help, I am not a fan of the decensitizing stuff anymore, was great the first few times I did this. But, to me, it gets everywhere and decensitizes everything in it's path... lol... but, I will say, I don't know what I would've done without it at first. Being relaxed: A cocktail or two helps me, not drunk, just a little to relax me. Also, well, not to get too personal, using an enema (for my peace of mind which, in turn, relaxes me) and if I can follow that up by a nice bath with a cocktail... Getting through the initial pain, either by the "warm up" or just dealing with the initial shock... once I get over that, I'm okay... well, more than okay, if you know what I mean. I had someone tell me once that the best position for the first time especially, is the "spoon" position... and I agree personally. Lying on your side your back facing him, and, well, you get the picture. Good luck to you.
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