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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 6:01:02 PM

StellaByStarlite

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Hello. =)

Well! This whole subject has been informative, heheh. And timely, since my owner has been wanting to try this for a while now. I've actually done it before, but not with somebody of his.. girth. ( I apologize for the TMI)

A quick related question: how safe are enemas to use? And... are there any other ways to clean the sphincter, like some kind of anal douche- type thing?

Stella

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 7:28:48 PM

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An enema is an "anal douche," and it is safe as long as you follow the instructions. It is not only beneficial for anal sex, but for your overall health. Here are some sites that helped me...

http://www.enematips.com/

http://ezinearticles.com/?Enema-Tips-And-Tricks-And-What-To-Put-Into-An-Enema-And-Why&id=418209

Also...as for the OP...although many people would discourage anal sex during play, i found that the endorphins released after some rather intense play helped A LOT. With my first time, it barely hurt at all, just some mild, fleeting discomfort. And this was with lots of lube and almost NO preparation or "stretching." So perhaps that is an option to consider?

Best of luck!

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 7:40:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: ScreamerGirl

Something that hasn't been mentioned but was an issue with one of my former dominants....

Does he have any sort of curve to his..uh...what word can I use here that won't get blurred out? Yea, you know what I'm talking about.

My ex had a pretty noticeable curve and anal was nearly impossible with him in any position because of it. If your master has one, and you haven't tried multiple positions, I'd defintely go that route.

If you were asking about me, the name is "Mr. Tiny" and no, he is not curved.

Speaking of which, I ordered one of those "Im With Stupid" T-shirts with the arrow pointing down. I hope Mr. Tiny doesnt mind.

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 7:44:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: ClubMix

"This is done casually about three times a week with no expectations or any kind of seriouse communications about it. I actually dont confront her feeling about it at all as they really are not that important."

Good to know you so value your partners' emotions. Who needs communication? That's not important when trying something new.

While I enjoy anally violating the one I am with, to be honest I dont really like doing it all that often.

(which is not to say I am not normally a "fuck me to death" kind of person)

But there is a sinister aspect to taking her there which makes me enjoy saving it for special occaisions.

Just me, etc.

Sinergy

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 8:28:39 PM

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well, I always though I couldn't do this either.. but then I met a Dom, and I swear to God.. biggest man I'd ever seen!.. anyway.. he got all this advice from a Domme..;) and lo and behold.. after lots of relaxing.. patience.. a little wine.. some um..licking..and other yummy things.. all was well.....sometimes I am still in disbeleif that i was successful with him.. as a first, or at all!

fond memories..
smiles...

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 8:48:16 PM

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Just to update those of you following the continuing Aqua/Valyraen Anal Adventures... trying a different position, as well as both of us relaxing about it and just going slow, seemed to work. We'll skip past the point of TMI and lead into the next question that we have for the community: enemas. Anyone got a handy tip on where to find them?

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 8:54:59 PM

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Premixed Enemas can be found at any drugstore... Fleet is the brand name, but the stores carry generics.

If you want like one you can use over and over, it's a hot water bottle/douche/enema kit... I know this because I like hot water bottles to sleep with when I have a tummy ache and I had to buy the whole kit to get it.

Personally, I prefer the pre-mixed kind. And, to avoid any sort of feeling wierd about it, I buy them on drugstore.com -- they come in a 3-pack (cheap too!)

Glad it worked out for you, thanks for not sharing the "TMI"

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 9:53:18 PM

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As much as having seen his posts proves anything, yes he is real. Still better question: Why does jane, and now you, care so much about discrediting this couple? I still maintain that anyone going back two years in the polls section is insane and then pulling that up to try and prove that Julia is a liar when it doesn't have anything to do with my original post...

It smacks of ulterior motives. Unfortunately these are not tasty with good wine and cheese.

How do you afford good wine and cheese? I can barely pay my tuition... tell me your secrets! All of them! Well except the dirty ones... lol

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 10:33:43 PM

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It smacks of ulterior motives. Unfortunately these are not tasty with good wine and cheese.

How do you afford good wine and cheese? I can barely pay my tuition... tell me your secrets! All of them! Well except the dirty ones... lol

*looks around suspiciously before answering* I skimp on most everything else. I shop at a discount grocery store (never meat or veggies though) for most of our regular food, then at Costco for what I can't get at the discount store and whatever is left over I buy generic at the regular store. Then I get friends to go in with me on good cheese and wine. Sometimes you can get that at Costco too!

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 10:43:01 PM

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I would recommend going to a medical supply place and getting a reusable enema kit. You can use plain water or slightly natural soapy water (I love using peppermint soap for everything bought at Trader Joes). Disposable enemas like Fleet are ok for now and then, but for regular use it would be wise to invest the 15 bucks in a reusable kit. Your body can become dependent on medicated enemas, and natural is better. This is something I am familiar with

Edited to add, I want to try coffee enemas, I hear you can get wired off of them...lol

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:05:40 PM

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...this one can't help but wonder why the great and powerful Sinergy doesn't speak for himeself? Is He real?

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It smacks of ulterior motives. Unfortunately these are not tasty with good wine and cheese.
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this one spends much time reading forums. only asked a question, the motive was truth... anyone can type online.

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:11:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sxyshellysue

this one spends much time reading forums. only asked a question, the motive was truth... anyone can type online.

I've been posting on the forums for awhile now and my owner only just joined. No one ever doubted his existence. Why are they so special?

A point was made. It was proved fake. Why should you question his existence? It doesn't add up to me.

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:26:15 PM

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Because some people are bored aqua....lol. He has been around here 2 years longer than me... so it would be me that was invented

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:34:13 PM

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Ahh! I knew it! You are really a robot! Granted a really cool robot, but still a robot.

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:39:34 PM

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I am a fembot... a sexy fembot, and I have nipples that fire bullets just like in The Spy That Shagged Me!

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:41:36 PM

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But I think my mojo can overpower you Baby!

..... when I think about you I touch myself!

I'm shagtastic baby!

edited because I didn't see my fukup untill it scrolled through the perv bar.

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:42:49 PM

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Yeah Baby Yeah

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:49:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I would recommend going to a medical supply place and getting a reusable enema kit. You can use plain water or slightly natural soapy water (I love using peppermint soap for everything bought at Trader Joes). Disposable enemas like Fleet are ok for now and then, but for regular use it would be wise to invest the 15 bucks in a reusable kit. Your body can become dependent on medicated enemas, and natural is better. This is something I am familiar with

Edited to add, I want to try coffee enemas, I hear you can get wired off of them...lol

Oh, cool... thank you for the information, I have the reusable kit at home, but, was afraid of it

LOL... but, now, I'll think twice of the other ones.

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:52:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I am a fembot... a sexy fembot, and I have nipples that fire bullets just like in The Spy That Shagged Me!

*giggles* Huzzah for Austin Powers!

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RE: Issues of the Behind - 2/18/2007 11:53:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: sensualmagirl

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I would recommend going to a medical supply place and getting a reusable enema kit. You can use plain water or slightly natural soapy water (I love using peppermint soap for everything bought at Trader Joes). Disposable enemas like Fleet are ok for now and then, but for regular use it would be wise to invest the 15 bucks in a reusable kit. Your body can become dependent on medicated enemas, and natural is better. This is something I am familiar with

Edited to add, I want to try coffee enemas, I hear you can get wired off of them...lol

Oh, cool... thank you for the information, I have the reusable kit at home, but, was afraid of it LOL... but, now, I'll think twice of the other ones.

You can boil the parts that might get "dirty"

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