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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/6/2007 8:21:31 PM   
stella40


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Status: offline 		There's more.. the bitchy, insulting and juvenile comment messages that certain UK members seem to go for.

The preoccupation with the negative aspects that some of us have in BDSM.

Those who's approach to BDSM is that of a 13 year old schoolkid.

And something which really peeves me to the core - crossdressers and transvestites who only dress once a month but who demand to be perceived as female.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/6/2007 9:58:13 PM   
Griswold


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

To me, the most irritating things I see in the so called "Online BDSM Community" are what I call, "One True Wayism" and "It's all about MEism."

What are your pet peeves?


The most irritating to me is....

Those that ask;

"What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community".

(But that's just me).

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/7/2007 6:49:51 AM   
MissSCD


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Status: offline 		I find too many critics that want to do but never have.   Too many know it alls, and few that know.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/7/2007 7:34:11 AM   
Padriag


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

What are your pet peeves?

The people

Which ironically is always what amuses me most.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/7/2007 10:37:06 PM   
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1. The use of capitals then a slash followed by a lower case; i.e. W/e, Y/you, U/us, etc.

2. The use of a type of third person speech with anyone other than their owner; i.e. this one, she (when they are referring to themselves), girl (when they are referring to themselves), etc.

3. Supremacy of any form

4. When I invest time talking with someone online, then on the phone and he or she talk the talk as if they are serious and really interested in me then disappear without saying a word.

5. When people are in a chat area that is not geared towards role-play yet they speak to everyone as if they are in some type of character or they do role-play in the room.

6. People that just assume that I will take control of them in any way, shape or form simply because they want me to, as if I owe it to them.

7. People that email me and are all about their kinks and nothing else.

8. People that email me and tell me they want to be my anything without even knowing me at all.

9. People that assume just because I do not agree with them on a particular subject or activity that I am saying they are wrong for thinking the way they do or doing what they want to do. That is where all the "in my opinion" and the like started because people take it more personally than it is actually meant.

10. People that whine for any reason. I just want to pop a thick dried Tabasco covered pacifier in their mouth and send them to the corner way the hell away from me.

There are more but those are my current top ten lol.

Tigress~FL

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/7/2007 11:04:07 PM   
Cascalonginus


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 12:22:44 AM   
boundtolove


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Status: offline 		I think it would have to be being told that I have no idea of what I want or need, or that what I say I want or need are invalid because a Dom hasn't told me it's what I want I or need.

ie.. that I have no opinions or desires of my own outside of what a dom tells me to do.




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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 12:50:33 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		Being told im not a true Domme becasue i like being fisted  That was pretty irritating!!!
Older Doms messaging me telling me to kneel for them or that as a woman my place is by their feet !! Thats irritating too.


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:12:34 AM   
steviemichael


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quote:

To me, the most irritating things I see in the so called "Online BDSM Community" are what I call, "One True Wayism" and "It's all about MEism."
quote:

ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

To me, the most irritating things I see in the so called "Online BDSM Community" are what I call, "One True Wayism" and "It's all about MEism."

What are your pet peeves?

well considering you are the person posting  and another person is replying isint that albout you and also al about them * ?
but in answer to the question  the most irritating  i found on the net is those who say a statement and then say 'well its my view ' ..!!!
my point of course its their view unless they have trainned the pet dog too use the keyboard .



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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:19:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		people who tell the community "they are hunman and have feelings and their is a real person behind this pc "

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:28:32 AM   
nookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

Pet peeve....
 
The people who have a staggering amount of post and feel that gives them right to demean and devalue others.


I knew there was a reason I like you! 

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:32:47 AM   
nookie


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Status: offline 		Pet peeve,

Seeing people tell other people that their response to a question is WRONG.

I'd enjoy seeing open discussion without personal attacks. That can be pretty enlightening sometimes.

nookie

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:35:24 AM   
KatyLied


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quote:

1. The use of capitals then a slash followed by a lower case; i.e. W/e, Y/you, U/us, etc.


This is a big one for me as well.  Most posters who type like this probably have no real time experience and have spent too much time in chat rooms. 



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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:39:45 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Anyone other than benji using a picture similar to benji's......somehow it is just creepy

Whiners and drama queens/kings..........oh wait they bother me off line also............nevermind


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:46:06 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		I would like to see benji get himself some nookie.....I hate people who  have the balls to contradict my/our posts....And that third person bullshit really pisses me off....'Cuz Domiguy don't roll like dat.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:51:06 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

I would like to see benji get himself some nookie.....I hate people who  have the balls to contradict my/our posts....And that third person bullshit really pisses me off....'Cuz Domiguy don't roll like dat.


Maybe THAT is why benji has not been around as much!


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:54:23 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Hoppy Easter domiguy!  And all the rest of you CMers

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 5:59:33 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Happy Easter bandit...And Nookie is "WRONG"  for having an avatar that resembles benji's!....But then again maybe she's from Canada?  They are after all a very odd looking bunch.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 6:00:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		people who plan meets only to suddenly cancel on me at the last minute for whatever reason yet they're logged on CM for most of the day. i don't like being played for a fool.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/8/2007 6:00:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I must say, whenever I see that smiley face, I think of benji and yes, they are.

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