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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/19/2007 7:50:45 PM

whipofdoom

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This is by far the best collection of twisted kink poems I have ever seen. Your Master should be very happy he has one such as you. You bring a whole new meaning to" Mother Goose". And you remember that this sould be fun, that's why we call it play.

Thank you....does this make me a kinky-mother? (grin)...

Stick around the forums...have some fun...

Live, Laugh and Learn.

Hmmm.....are you a kinky-mother........well do you like to be goosed? If so, than yes you are a kinky mother goosed.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/19/2007 8:17:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: whipofdoom

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ORIGINAL: curiouslyseeking

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ORIGINAL: whipofdoom

This is by far the best collection of twisted kink poems I have ever seen. Your Master should be very happy he has one such as you. You bring a whole new meaning to" Mother Goose". And you remember that this sould be fun, that's why we call it play.

Thank you....does this make me a kinky-mother? (grin)...

Stick around the forums...have some fun...

Live, Laugh and Learn.

Hmmm.....are you a kinky-mother........well do you like to be goosed? If so, than yes you are a kinky mother goosed.

(Raises hand)....guilty..

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/19/2007 8:59:25 PM

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I did not mean this as an attack. I wonder why so many took as one.

Come on, your entire post was a giant general malaise. If you spewed your tubes like that at a general meet and greet at which you knew no one, do you honestly believe it would garner friends and admirers? Surely you aren't really taken aback by the responses. Or ... maybe you are. I haven't known you long enough to get a good look at your verbal swagger.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 4:40:30 AM

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Thank you. You can always count on me (when i see the posts) to put some people's face in the poop. I'm bitchy, i'm proud to be but i know most of them can't handle it.
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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 5:05:46 AM

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Hey...I have no clue why you're sill looking. I just love doms that use shit, prick and crap in their profile.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 5:27:55 AM

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OK why wasnt I invited to the snarkfest! This is what happens when I fall asleep on the couch, I miss the good stuff.

Why am I here? Because I like it here. I have been searching, I have found some of what I want in my beautiful Angel, and I am looking for something else. Even after I find what I want, I wil stay and chat.

I'll skip to the important stuff:
Do I have a clue? Oh, yeah, I think theres one in there somewhere. Granted what the lifestyle is about and means to me might not match what it means to you, or anyone else, but I have a clue.
I have known 21-25 year old masters who were very capable of Dominating. They were naturally dominant personalities, and with the right mentoring they did wonderfully. *I* was a Mistress from age 18, and I had more of a clue back then than many of the older Mistresses and Masters I was meeting, becasue unlike some I never thought I was entitled to anything becasue of the title I had chosen. I think its foolish to asume that someone who is older is more capable. Firstly, if they are new they are STILL on the same learning curve as the younger Masters. No points there for age. And often if they are older, they are outside the appeal for some of the younger subs and slaves. Remember, as the Master you arent the only one who has to be happy with the arrangement. So, for a young slave, often a young master is a better fit, and if they are both fairly new, let them learn together.

That doesnt make them clueless about the lifestyle, or fake, or anything else negative. It makes them choosy, and in the end probably far happier.

I am sorry your having such a rough time (which is obvious from the rant) but it is not always the fault of someone else. Maybe its not becasue everyone on here hasnt a clue what they are looking for and what they are doing.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 6:52:29 AM

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i have to agree with slaveish. my response was somewhat acerbic mostly because i don't know anything about you from your posts, and two of the three posts you'd made (this one and your intro) were pretty much along these lines, and i personally find these kinds of posts to be annoying as hell.

anyway, i am glad to see you (hopefully) weren't too serious in some of that. i did quite enjoy reading your second post, and i hope you'll stick around so we can learn more about you. :)

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 7:01:49 AM

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Why I am here is to seek a real Submissive, most that i have found here are fake as the day is long. They all bich about the oneliners in thier mail and when you send them a well thought multi sentence most times complimentary note, Would it be to much to ask for at leest a reply....Even if it is just one word. Real life ,real time I am a sadistfirst and Dom second

If you're a sadist first and a dom second then you shouldn't be looking for someone who is a submissive. Subs may or may not be masochistic and even if they are that doesn't mean they are willing to settle for someone who doesn't fulfill their primary need which is domination.

You set yourself up for rejection by looking only for people whom you know you aren't compatible with.

As far as the op, if I were looking it would be for a dom who would be a lot closer in spelling slightest. The occasional type/grammar error is okay but that's beyond the pale.

Besides I'm not a slave, I'm never going to be a slave. Just like I'm not going to be branded, pierced or tattooed. These are hard limits. They were done to relatives and coreligionists of mine in the Nazi death camps and they are things I cannot nor will not do. I also don't do Nazi play for that same reason.

None of which means that I'm not the perfect partner for him. And quite honestly, he's the only person whose opinions matter to me.

As far as a 23 year old male, he probably is the perfect dom for a 23 year old female. Maybe you would have better luck if you weren't chasing women young enough to be your daughter. And if you had sufficient manners to respect that this is their life and the only one who chooses who they will submit to is the sub in question.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 7:03:41 AM

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Why I am here is to seek a real Submissive, most that i have found here are fake as the day is long. They all bich about the oneliners in thier mail and when you send them a well thought multi sentence most times complimentary note, Would it be to much to ask for at leest a reply....Even if it is just one word. Real life ,real time I am a sadistfirst and Dom second

If you're a sadist first and a dom second then you shouldn't be looking for someone who is a submissive.

thanks celeste...this was something in the op that caught my eye and bugged me a bit. i'm really glad you commented on it.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 8:27:40 AM

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Hey...I have no clue why you're sill looking. I just love doms that use shit, prick and crap in their profile.

I don't know why either. And, if you like what I use in my profile you should see the things I use in a scene.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 8:39:31 AM

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Someone has missed the sarcasm train.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 8:47:05 AM

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Someone has missed the sarcasm train.

And the clue bus.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 9:01:19 AM

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I am here for the fourms to qoute a song "I finally found what i been looking for"
That was my Master.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 12:42:12 PM

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I have a Master so I am not "Looking" for anything other than friends. I come here to visit the forums and talk to others in the lifestyle.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 12:47:43 PM

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Someone has missed the sarcasm train.

And the clue bus.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 2:31:54 PM

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I'm looking for fulfillment on here. I'm 27, in a relationship with a vanilla woman who has NO interest in this lifestyle... so I find myself on here at night after she's gone to bed to explore this side of myself.... In a relationship I'm very loving, supportive and gentle, but NOT someone who will kiss up to his girlfriend when I'm unhappy... I know what I want and I don't take any crap at the same time... if that makes sense.

I've always felt more comfortable in control and in other situations have been told I'm a good leader by others.

I am looking for a submissive, sweet woman who is feminine and won't mind pleasing my fetish of women in pantyhose and heels as often as practically possible. Would love to get to know someone here, even as a friend, to help me explore this side of myself.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 2:54:54 PM

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OK, this is just a simple question to all of the people who say that they are "slaves or submissives". Why are you here? How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck. Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.

Since i have read to the end of this thread and now know where you're coming from i'll answer these questions more sincerely than i might otherwise have done.

Why are you here? To meet other girls in my area that are slaves and o/or submissives to beome friends or friendly with...To learn other's points of view and basically to learn in general from the boards... for entertainment

How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck? This has ZERO to do with why i'm here...granted i did SEE my Master/Daddy on CM first but we never even corresponded until we were both on MySpace. And i wasn't there looking to fuck either. Now i fuck who and when my Daddy says.

Or think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? Positions in sex have nothing to do with being a slave....What makes me a slave is willingness and desire to surrender to my Daddy, to have no limits (other than His), to devote myself to caring for and serving Him, the desire and action of obeying Him, learning from Him and being guided by Him and lots of other things. The positions i am in for sex and any beatings i may incur are just extras.

Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? I mentioned some of it in my above answer but also...When i met my Daddy i though i had some clue...actually thought i knew alot. Now i know how little i did know. i mean i had the gist, and did know alot of stuff but there was waaay more to learn (and to continue to learn)...alot deeper stuff than i ever would've guessed. i'm kinda glad in a way that i didn't have as much of a clue as i thought because now i've been able to learn a whole lot of wonderful stuff from my Daddy.

I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits... i was guilty of being a SAM..not that i wanted to set out to be one, i just was that way...it was a defense mechanism. Also, when i was so naive as to think that some Ms would find it appealing to break me (as MUCH as i felt i needed breaking) my Daddy has accomplished ejecting the SAM out of me without feeding into her..he gave her a place where she doesn't have to be that kind of defensive.

...looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all... This was never ever me...never wanted a younger guy (just isnt my cup o' java) But i did want the 40something HOT guy who knows alot and has alot of experience, in life and the life-style. i dont think it's shallow to want a HOT partner either, just to clarify...if i am going to serve someone i need to be attracted to them completely (mind, body and spirit) i got lucky. (Sorry tht you've come across the SAMs etc.)

When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Ya know, honestly, as a slave in constant training, BDSM Kindergarten might not be such a bad anaolgy...Not sure what grade i'd be in at this point, but the idea there isn't without merit.

Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? Generally speaking, that would really depend on the 23 yr old and their own personal life experience. They may've lived "enough" life and learned "enough" lessons and had "enough" that they might be able to do it. Personally speaking, (meaning for me) no, a 23 yo couldn't compare to my life experience and have anything that i would be able to put aside their age and learn from, but that's just how i'm personally wired. i am attracted to men that are atleast a few yrs older than me so it would be similar to me putting aside my preferences and dating a guy with really blonde hair...just now what i'm attracted to.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 8:14:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: viperess

Greetings,

i will admit to being a little taken back by the original post but at the same time can understand His fustrations. The thing that really surprised me were many of the replies to His post. i must say if i replied to a Master as some have my Master would have me to the point of not being able to sit for a week more less be allowed to post comments on here as the words of a slave reflect the Master she is owned by.
Respectfully,

Really? I'm not allowed to be submissive to anyone but him. I belong only to him and he doesn't share. He'd be furious if I did act as though the op deserved respect for no reason except that he labels himself a master.Different rules I guess.

And he wouldn't like the op either because he disapproves of old know it alls posturing for the sole sake of getting in the pants of some young thing half their age. Being a parent makes you feel protective of young females and at our age, that includes the 25 y.o.'s

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 11:04:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

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ORIGINAL: whipofdoom

OK, this is just a simple question to all of the people who say that they are "slaves or submissives". Why are you here? How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck. Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so.

Since i have read to the end of this thread and now know where you're coming from i'll answer these questions more sincerely than i might otherwise have done.

Why are you here? To meet other girls in my area that are slaves and o/or submissives to beome friends or friendly with...To learn other's points of view and basically to learn in general from the boards... for entertainment

How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck? This has ZERO to do with why i'm here...granted i did SEE my Master/Daddy on CM first but we never even corresponded until we were both on MySpace. And i wasn't there looking to fuck either. Now i fuck who and when my Daddy says.

Or think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? Positions in sex have nothing to do with being a slave....What makes me a slave is willingness and desire to surrender to my Daddy, to have no limits (other than His), to devote myself to caring for and serving Him, the desire and action of obeying Him, learning from Him and being guided by Him and lots of other things. The positions i am in for sex and any beatings i may incur are just extras.

Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? I mentioned some of it in my above answer but also...When i met my Daddy i though i had some clue...actually thought i knew alot. Now i know how little i did know. i mean i had the gist, and did know alot of stuff but there was waaay more to learn (and to continue to learn)...alot deeper stuff than i ever would've guessed. i'm kinda glad in a way that i didn't have as much of a clue as i thought because now i've been able to learn a whole lot of wonderful stuff from my Daddy.

I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits... i was guilty of being a SAM..not that i wanted to set out to be one, i just was that way...it was a defense mechanism. Also, when i was so naive as to think that some Ms would find it appealing to break me (as MUCH as i felt i needed breaking) my Daddy has accomplished ejecting the SAM out of me without feeding into her..he gave her a place where she doesn't have to be that kind of defensive.

...looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all... This was never ever me...never wanted a younger guy (just isnt my cup o' java) But i did want the 40something HOT guy who knows alot and has alot of experience, in life and the life-style. i dont think it's shallow to want a HOT partner either, just to clarify...if i am going to serve someone i need to be attracted to them completely (mind, body and spirit) i got lucky. (Sorry tht you've come across the SAMs etc.)

When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Ya know, honestly, as a slave in constant training, BDSM Kindergarten might not be such a bad anaolgy...Not sure what grade i'd be in at this point, but the idea there isn't without merit.

Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? Generally speaking, that would really depend on the 23 yr old and their own personal life experience. They may've lived "enough" life and learned "enough" lessons and had "enough" that they might be able to do it. Personally speaking, (meaning for me) no, a 23 yo couldn't compare to my life experience and have anything that i would be able to put aside their age and learn from, but that's just how i'm personally wired. i am attracted to men that are atleast a few yrs older than me so it would be similar to me putting aside my preferences and dating a guy with really blonde hair...just now what i'm attracted to.

Thank you very much for not only answering the questions, but also for understanding the reason behind then. I wanted to shock people into thinking about the real reason they want to be here. For the most part, as you can tell, that didn't work. Thank you again, Your Daddy most be very proud of you.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 11:25:20 PM

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Someone has missed the sarcasm train.

And the clue bus.

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