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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/20/2007 11:56:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

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ORIGINAL: viperess

Greetings,

i will admit to being a little taken back by the original post but at the same time can understand His fustrations. The thing that really surprised me were many of the replies to His post. i must say if i replied to a Master as some have my Master would have me to the point of not being able to sit for a week more less be allowed to post comments on here as the words of a slave reflect the Master she is owned by.
Respectfully,

Really? I'm not allowed to be submissive to anyone but him. I belong only to him and he doesn't share. He'd be furious if I did act as though the op deserved respect for no reason except that he labels himself a master.Different rules I guess.

And he wouldn't like the op either because he disapproves of old know it alls posturing for the sole sake of getting in the pants of some young thing half their age. Being a parent makes you feel protective of young females and at our age, that includes the 25 y.o.'s

I understand what viperess means. There is a difference between being polite and respectful, and being submissive. As for being an old know it all posturing for the sole sake of getting in the pants of some young thing half my age. You missed the mark here too. As I stated before, BDSM has very little to do with sex. At this point I have six other girls that sub for me. They range in age from 21 to 44, and at no time have I ever tried to "get into their pants". And the one girl that I do have sex with, really isn't my sub.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 12:44:36 AM

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OK, this is just a simple question to all of the people who say that they are "slaves or submissives". Why are you here?To make online friends, seek intelligent conversations, for comic relief, and offer assitence if i can help someone. How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck. Not i. Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? i have not read that definition, but to each their own. Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? After being in real time service 24/7 for 20+ months to a wise Master, i think i have a few clues. i'm sharing a few with you now, let's see if you can find them... I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. When did the BDSM kindergarden start? i find it hard to believe they are not all flocking to serve a bitter, angry, impatient, arogant, older man who claims he is a Dom but can not even control himself on the boards.... Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? The 23 year old studs are not on here complaining, and neither are their girls... Most of the younger people here are very cool, and you know what they say, "A Dom who can't control himself will never control you". So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so. Believe me, i do.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 12:48:13 AM

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WhipofDoom wrote:At this point I have six other girls that sub for me. They range in age from 21 to 44, and at no time have I ever tried to "get into their pants". And the one girl that I do have sex with, really isn't my sub.
Really? You are pretty cranky for man with all that action.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 12:49:09 AM

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here to find a Master, but im not holding my breath.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 12:58:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

That won't be necessary. After extensive research and testing, the government has concluded you are a weal and twue pervert. Your Certificiate of Authenticity will be mailed within 5 business days and is non-transferable.

*subject to credit approval
**tax, title and license the responsibility of pervert
***not valid in UT, NB, IA, WV, ME and several counties in TN

Soooooooo, why not valid in Iowa?

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 1:00:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei
So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so. Believe me, i do.

...and does that work?

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 1:21:22 AM

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greeting apettiger

you message was good many doms do look for someone like a barbie doll then other look from the inside but is that really your phone number on there? i will call it and if it is i will explain some very important thing about safelty my god that is a number i can not believe it your so so in danger leaving your number out there for what some nut to call honey please take it off if no one has told you yet which many of the older master and mistress someone should had told you please remove it if someone is interested in you they will write ok
mons

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 1:54:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsRose

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ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei
So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so. Believe me, i do.

...and does that work?

It depends on Master's mood. i do not get in trouble for wanting more of Him... so i do ask. :D

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 2:39:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: mons

greeting apettiger

you message was good many doms do look for someone like a barbie doll then other look from the inside but is that really your phone number on there? i will call it and if it is i will explain some very important thing about safelty my god that is a number i can not believe it your so so in danger leaving your number out there for what some nut to call honey please take it off if no one has told you yet which many of the older master and mistress someone should had told you please remove it if someone is interested in you they will write ok
mons

Blimey mons calm down. It is her slave registration number I think you will find, not a telephone number.

Even if it is a telephone number, it is her profile and she can put what she likes on it. Nobody but the site administrators have a right to tell her what she can and can't put on her profile.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 3:43:56 AM

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I see that you have received lots of replies to your original question and you even had the courage to return!! Sometimes people are looking for younger dominants because they want someone close to their age or they prefer younger people. Sometimes a submissive or slave wants to grow and learn with their dominant and a bucketload of life experience is not necessary. Sometimes experience does not make a person any less a smartass little shit. Pass by the profiles of the people who do not want what you are offering and focus on those that do.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 4:03:28 AM

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may i ask....doesnt this work both ways though? ** Why are you here? How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck.** its not just people saying they are slaves & submissives that might just be here for that reason. i have talked to a few Doms that turned out to be nothing more than men just out for a good time& a secretive quickie. *players & wannabes*

i do agree with the young 25 year old thing, older Doms are the best. itsno fun trying tosubmit to a young Dom & then Him pondering about what to do next...most aggrivating, frustrating, & not to mention timewasting! to me if He's not atleast 35, stern, knows what He wants/needs & demands, i'd turn the tables, slap His ass & send Him back to His momma!!

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 6:07:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: whipofdoom

Thank you very much for not only answering the questions, but also for understanding the reason behind then. I wanted to shock people into thinking about the real reason they want to be here. For the most part, as you can tell, that didn't work. Thank you again, Your Daddy most be very proud of you.

If you'd wanted to shock us into that, you used the wrong tactics. It came across, at least to me, like "blah blah, I'm the best, all you are fake, blah blah blah, you just want sex, blah, blah, blah, young masters are worthless, blah, blah, blah." Which is pretty rude in my opinion. It's certainly not something that I would waste time thinking about. I think if you actually just asked us to think about why we are here, you'd get the responses you craved. In my experience, most of the people who just want sex aren't on the message boards anyway.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 3/21/2007 6:09:57 AM >

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 7:17:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: litleone8620

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

That won't be necessary. After extensive research and testing, the government has concluded you are a weal and twue pervert. Your Certificiate of Authenticity will be mailed within 5 business days and is non-transferable.

*subject to credit approval
**tax, title and license the responsibility of pervert
***not valid in UT, NB, IA, WV, ME and several counties in TN

Soooooooo, why not valid in Iowa?

NOW you went and did it!! It's against federal laws to make the fine print large enough to read!

Aaaoooooooooooo you're gonna get in trouble, you're gonna get in trouble!

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 8:29:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

NOW you went and did it!! It's against federal laws to make the fine print large enough to read!

Aaaoooooooooooo you're gonna get in trouble, you're gonna get in trouble!

Is that worse then ripping the tags off mattresses?

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 8:37:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

I see that you have received lots of replies to your original question and you even had the courage to return!! Sometimes people are looking for younger dominants because they want someone close to their age or they prefer younger people. Sometimes a submissive or slave wants to grow and learn with their dominant and a bucketload of life experience is not necessary. Sometimes experience does not make a person any less a smartass little shit. Pass by the profiles of the people who do not want what you are offering and focus on those that do.

Of course I would return. The only reason one would not, would be if one was afraid of the responses that they'd get back. Or so unsure of themselves that they could not handle the firestorm of criticism. I do not have a problem with either. Hell, I thought some of the them were really good. As far as passing people by. It seems that most people here assume that I've been trying to contact hundreds of girls to only get shot down. In reality I've only sent out about five. I realize that I'm not what every sub is looking for, nor is every sub out there what I'm looking for. But I know what I want and need. The question was do they.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 8:46:02 AM

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"YOU asked why are you here"ITS not to find a quick fuck thats for sure ..,its the like minded folks and the banner on the boards and maybe just that special girl..I think most seek out the mature Dom's for this very reason,most are settled in their lives and have a decent lifestyle while for the most part most young ones are still trying to find them selfs.Women seeking the proverbial life mate,white picket fences and children then to seek those closer to their age.Older or younger it doesn't matter as long as he/she has what you need...bounty

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 8:48:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: whipofdoom

Thank you very much for not only answering the questions, but also for understanding the reason behind then. I wanted to shock people into thinking about the real reason they want to be here. For the most part, as you can tell, that didn't work. Thank you again, Your Daddy most be very proud of you.

If you'd wanted to shock us into that, you used the wrong tactics. It came across, at least to me, like "blah blah, I'm the best, all you are fake, blah blah blah, you just want sex, blah, blah, blah, young masters are worthless, blah, blah, blah." Which is pretty rude in my opinion. It's certainly not something that I would waste time thinking about. I think if you actually just asked us to think about why we are here, you'd get the responses you craved. In my experience, most of the people who just want sex aren't on the message boards anyway.

Maybe, but I would not have gotten the emotional responses that I was looking for. Anyway just think of all the fun we would have missed.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 8:52:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

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ORIGINAL: litleone8620

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

That won't be necessary. After extensive research and testing, the government has concluded you are a weal and twue pervert. Your Certificiate of Authenticity will be mailed within 5 business days and is non-transferable.

*subject to credit approval
**tax, title and license the responsibility of pervert
***not valid in UT, NB, IA, WV, ME and several counties in TN

Soooooooo, why not valid in Iowa?

NOW you went and did it!! It's against federal laws to make the fine print large enough to read!

Aaaoooooooooooo you're gonna get in trouble, you're gonna get in trouble!

You forgot Ohio. You can't do anything in Ohio.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 9:01:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei

WhipofDoom wrote:At this point I have six other girls that sub for me. They range in age from 21 to 44, and at no time have I ever tried to "get into their pants". And the one girl that I do have sex with, really isn't my sub.
Really? You are pretty cranky for man with all that action.

I'm not cranky...Well,OK sometimes I am. This was to see what kind of replies I'd get back.

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RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. - 3/21/2007 9:05:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: whipofdoom

Maybe, but I would not have gotten the emotional responses that I was looking for. Anyway just think of all the fun we would have missed.

*grins* I wouldn't call snarky emotional.

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