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ORIGINAL: mythi There are also those who desire to be changed...shaped into someone else's ideal. I have 'things' that I'll call 'preferences'. Arguably you could call them 'fetishes' of sorts. Of course we don't wish to delve too further into the subject of objectification, do we? Regardless, making preferences known with a partner a) who doesn't see the harm, and b) wishes to please, means that there is some form of transformation. I've long since gotten to the point where I don't wish to build the Empire State Building from a lump of clay. But if I can take something I already desire and enhance it's desireability to not only myself but to my partner as well, then I think it's easily worth the effort, for both parties. Jeff
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