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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/4/2007 7:41:20 PM   
hisannabelle


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ORIGINAL: Sweetbluerose

thankyou Annabelle, for the answer, i guess its my age and background in microbiology, that makes me nervous about it, and maybe its just that nerves. i think in a world without aids i would have loved to have been a true slut, but while i like sex almost more than anything else; i will continue to search for someone who won't share me and who will be careful where He plays as well.
i just was wondering how much of what the Doms say about sharing is talk and how much is real.
robyn


greetings robyn,

i think for a lot of people it just has to do with having the kind of relationship you want. there are all kinds of reasons people seek monogamy - or polyamory, or swinging relationships for that matter - and health risks are just one. i know plenty of people of all ages who choose monogamy for health reasons (or don't...He is close to your age, actually) just as much as they do for emotional ones...so you're definitely not alone in that. hell, i get nervous about it, too, and it's something that i'm pretty paranoid about when choosing my own partners. i have to agree with you also on wondering how much is talk and how much is real.

hope you are well.
annabelle.

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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/4/2007 8:23:20 PM   
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What if a Dom uses a sub that doesn't belong to him for that purpose? Does that make her a slut/whore in the true sense of the word?

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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/4/2007 8:33:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

What is the general concensus about a sub being used as a fuck toy or being turned into a slut for the dominant's enjoyment (as well as the submissive's pleasure)

Can it be possible that is a natural thing for a very loving dom to want do this to their submissive?

Shoot

Of course it can.

Some people are REALLY into it, some not so much, just like any kink.

Ask around about femcar :)

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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/4/2007 8:35:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: seekshertrue1
What if a Dom uses a sub that doesn't belong to him for that purpose? Does that make her a slut/whore in the true sense of the word?

Whore would only be if there was money exchanged for the service- that would make him a john/client and her a whore.  If they did it just to embrace sexual fun and debauchery, it would make them both sluts.

If she did it just to please him (though not owned by him) it would make him a slut and her a bottom.

Slut/whore isn't about the action- it's about the motivation.

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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/4/2007 8:38:08 PM   
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I'll go ahead and elaborate- sex to me is my song, my worship, my expression of self.  I am a slut, sexual energy is my wellspring and I drink from it often.  Connecting with others sexually is my way of sharing myself, of allowing myself to be of use to them, to be their priestess- a goddess whore, a sacred slut.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_237078/mpage_1/key_whore/tm.htm#237078

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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/4/2007 8:41:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

What is the general concensus about a sub being used as a fuck toy or being turned into a slut for the dominant's enjoyment (as well as the submissive's pleasure)

Can it be possible that is a natural thing for a very loving dom to want do this to their submissive?

Shoot


Sure. He turns me into his fuckpost whenever he feels like it. Other nights I'm his good little kitten. *Shrug* Whatever gets the juices flowing for both people.

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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 4:07:20 AM   
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Was the she fuckmeat from the begining? I know from experience, the "change " was difficult .. I found that requesting time to adjust and to explore my feelings was all I needed. and found that within me was a change as well whenever it occured, this one became a wanton piece of fuckmeat

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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 4:47:59 AM   
kinkntwist


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Looking good so far... thanks for all the input.

The idea of sharing someone that you love, or being shared by someone that loves you can be rather confusing at times, but hot as hell...from both angles..

as long as there is no guilt involved.


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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:05:48 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

"this" isn't exactly specific.

I can think of a million ways it would be a wonderful experience and about two million ways it wouldn't be.

Imagine being sent the link to an ad on Craigslist with one of your photos and a description of what a fucking greedy whore you that for $5 you will suck down anyone's cum from any hole they shoot it into.  Some might find that hot, others might not.

Or just being tied up ass up to the side of a couch with your face directly under your cunt and having your dominant watch porno's (cause your not hot enough) and just as he is about to cum sliding into your cunt hole and then forcing you to squeeze it out so it drips down into your mouth. Again, some might find that hot, others might not.

I think you get the idea...


(*panting...*)  that was so hot!. Michael, not much leaves me speechless.. But uh, ..please excuse me while I take a second shower this morning..

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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:22:17 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

What is the general concensus about a sub being used as a fuck toy or being turned into a slut for the dominant's enjoyment (as well as the submissive's pleasure)

Can it be possible that is a natural thing for a very loving dom to want do this to their submissive?



Yes it is done all the time and there can be domination without emotion.

To be a vehicle for My pleasure.

Objectifaction...a toy...a simple prop for My ammusement.

I have covered this in My profile before.

As long as it is within her consent then bring it on.

Be careful of what you wish for as I will bring it to you.

The subbie gets the pleasure of knowing she is not "responsible" for what is happening and can enjoy the ritual taboos of penetration and hedondistic pleasure.

Yes you can still care for someone and still do this to them.

It is an art that is aquired through the mindset realm of experienced pleasure.

So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:23:26 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

that is prolly the best part.


Yes indeed.

her spirit willing the body will follow for usage.

So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:24:30 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: spanklette

I am anything He wants me to be...a "fuck toy" or what have you. Generally, I am His little girl...but there are times when that just isn't what He desires. And, what Daddy wants, Daddy gets.


When ever...however...where ever....

her endentured servitude for My hedonistic pleasure

So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:25:57 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I'd be pretty upset if i wasn't used as a fuck toy - natural slut that i am


So how is one a "natural slut" as oposed to an "unnatural slut"?

Is there a special event that marks the passage of novice slut to supreme slut?

So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:28:18 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

As long as i am HIS slut, that is wonderful.  Master is very loving but very possessive.  He doesn't share with other males or dominant figures of either sex.  i am His property, not theirs, and thus for His eyes and enjoyment only....slave luci


So as his "property" you consent to be used as he deems correct?

Does that encompass rentaul usage?

Party favor?

Gang Banging?

Servicing others?

If he were to bring this "ownership" into true value and concerted effort?

So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:30:07 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: littleone35

My Master is very loving ans yes we make love but i am not as you so delicitaly put it fuckmeat.  I am his girl , his sweetheart, his littleone.  But not that  we are not into humilation.  For some it may not be humilation but in our case it would be.


So usage of hot verbage while being penetrated would be a limit of sorts for you?

I have refered to a local subbie I had sessions with as fuckmeat as that was exactly what she wanted....

she was like a rooster.....

any cock would do...
So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:31:49 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

it's a hell of a lot more fun doing things like that with someone I have feelings and a relationship with.


I am sure there is much felt in the physical sense with the old rod and piston action.

It is what is said during those times of usage that conveys and intensifies the mindset.

It is 95% mindset...the physical is the cherry on the top for the taking.

So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:33:34 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: WiseCracknSadist

Her body is mine to do with as I please. Whether it be a fuck toy or a lawn ornament. Mmmm public humiliation is delicous.


Staked out on the front lawn spread eagle is a great way to practice putting golf.

Makes for an amusing time for the guest to pass the time waiting for dinner.


So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:34:43 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: t3nth0usandv0lts

I don't get any enjoyment out of *forcing* a slave to be or act promiscuous, though; I'd rather just encourage them to give in to their natural desires. And if it isn't at least in part in her nature, why force it? It's more like theatre and less like letting loose, imo. There's more satisfaction all around when the desire is real.


Great insight...

It is all within

and within their consenting limits

So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:42:04 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: raevnn

Being 'used' in the manner of which you speak is probably one of the hottest things about being enslaved!


Servitude has its perks indeed.

Usage has its ruby in the dust

So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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RE: Being used as fuckmeat - 4/5/2007 5:45:11 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sweetbluerose

thankyou Annabelle, for the answer, i guess its my age and background in microbiology, that makes me nervous about it, and maybe its just that nerves. i think in a world without aids i would have loved to have been a true slut, but while i like sex almost more than anything else; i will continue to search for someone who won't share me and who will be careful where He plays as well.
i just was wondering how much of what the Doms say about sharing is talk and how much is real.


Very real.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_924028/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm

she knew the day was coming and coming sooner than she anticipated. 
 
http://www.collarchat.com/m_923442/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm
The breakdown of communication resulted in the breakdown of the relationship
 
It just takes some longer to get to the point on the path of their inner journey

Self awareness and exploration is the process of learning through life



So if you meet me
Have some courtesy
Have some sympathy, and some taste
Use all your well-learned politesse
Or I'll lay your soul to waste, um yeah
Pleased to meet you


Ross
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