tinytemptingone
Posts: 11
Joined: 5/26/2008 Status: offline
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New here and have enjoyed reading this thread. Switches are not rare, though I agree many do not label themselves as such. I've encountered quite a few who it's clear to me have a strong -other- side, though they seemed to be unware of it. And I can relate to that, it took me ten years to admit I had a sub side. My profile says I'm a sub, not b/c I'm ashamed of being a switch, but b/c I don't want to be unindated with messages from sub males. I have a part time sub, I'm looking for a dominant. Or I guess I should say, someone to dominate me. It has been my exprience that many dominants that do not switch a/o were never trained under a sub, don't "get" switches. BTW, back in the early bdsm days, a Master who did not train under a sub was considered a dilentantte (oh how times have changed). I've never switched with the same person, but I'd like to. I just haven't found that person. The idea that switches are inexprienced or ill informed and just haven't picked "sides" is ..well laughable to me. Some of us really can do both. I personally find I am a stronger sub and a softer domme for being a switch, and I see that as a good thing. tiny
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