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Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 5:50:57 PM   
minnetar


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Status: offline 		i am just curious as to why so many of the black Dom's profiles i see online state they are sadists.  Anyone care to explain?

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 6:04:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		The same reason most white doms are sadists. Most dominant people on a kink site are sadistic as well. Most submissive people on a kink site are either masochistic or enjoy being used for their partner's pleasure even if the activity doesn't in itself turn them on.


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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 6:17:40 PM   
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The same reason most white doms are sadists. Most dominant people on a kink site are sadistic as well. Most submissive people on a kink site are either masochistic or enjoy being used for their partner's pleasure even if the activity doesn't in itself turn them on.




thanks for the reply.  i am at a loss as i am not a masochist in the least.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 8:08:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Please keep in mind that sadism can mean different things to different people.
 
Some only associate it with the physical; others with emotional and psychological; and still others with the sensual. And then you have those who incorporate all aspects into one.
 
Also, you don't have to be a masochist to enjoy being with a sadist.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 8:12:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		That question is about as uninformed as asking, "Why are so many whites living a life of privilidge?"  Neither has any basis in validity, does it?  Or...?

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 8:16:13 PM   
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That question is about as uninformed as asking, "Why are so many whites living a life of privilidge?"  Neither has any basis in validity, does it?  Or...?

I really could not say. I have never seen an accurate survey that showed the numbers of white against black.
 
Personally, I don't hold either very high in accuracy simply because some who truly are sadistic don't list themselves as such; no matter what color their skin is.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 8:30:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		N4SD's point is probably the best answer:  your question is likely different from what you believe it to be.  Likely random deviation or misobservation.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 8:54:26 PM   
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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 9:57:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		most people who say they are "sadists" are more full of hot air then most of the others on line.


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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/26/2007 10:52:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL...so many??? where they at????????????  ohh ok..you said online...whew! I thought I'd missed the revolution or something!

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 1:15:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: minnetar

i am just curious as to why so many of the black Dom's profiles i see online state they are sadists.  Anyone care to explain?

minnetar


I am curious as to why so many white woman online state that they are submissive or slave
I am curious as to why so many state that they are masochists

Skin color and gender have nothing do with orientation; nor with personality  

Maybe you are just reading the wrong profiles.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 1:43:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: minnetar

i am just curious as to why so many of the black Dom's profiles i see online state they are sadists.  Anyone care to explain?

minnetar
Because they can...

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 2:38:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		i want to apologize for my stupid question.  i guess it was out of frustration as i was looking at black Dom profiles and that was what i seem to encounter on so many ones i was interested in and i am not masochist in the least.  Like i said it was stupid and i do apologize.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 2:52:59 PM   
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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 2:57:37 PM   
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The same reason most white doms are sadists. Most dominant people on a kink site are sadistic as well. Most submissive people on a kink site are either masochistic or enjoy being used for their partner's pleasure even if the activity doesn't in itself turn them on.




thanks for the reply.  i am at a loss as i am not a masochist in the least.

minnetar



Neither am I and neither is he. And it was just as hard finding a white nonsadistic dom as you appear to be having. You would not believe the number of idiots who sent emails saying they would train me to be a pain slut. It's never going to happen.

However I'm a bondage freak and from what I've observed there's a definite division between people who do bondage for it's own sake and people who want to hurry up and get the restrainsts over with to get to the 'fun' part. For me being tied up IS the fun part.

All you can do is say you want a sensualist not a sadist. But keep reading profiles and if you see someone who appeals, you email them.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 3:01:32 PM   
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Thanks Sir as i had 24 hours to think about it and realized how stupid it was.  It was out of frustration.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 3:02:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Celeste thank you for the kind words!!

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 3:17:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is funny because I seamed to of had just as hard of a time finding a truly sadistic Dom who was not afraid to make me hurt for him. That being said I don't really think it matters what side of the fence your on. Searching for a compatible partner is a difficult task for all involved.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 3:30:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can't address the profiles of black doms but I did read of a case of a White submissive woman who was warned by her fellow subbies not to visit a black dom in, IIRC, Colorado, they said he loved to beat White women. Well she went and ended up in the emergency room, at which a ER physician told her to "get help." In this particular case it appeared that racial hatred was at the root of this dom's dealing with White subs.
There are dangerous people of all races in the BDSM world, just think of Slavemaster a murderous piece of feces who was White.

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RE: Why so many Black Dom Sadists? - 4/27/2007 3:30:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks it is amusing - seems like we never find anything when we are looking.

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