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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/22/2007 3:43:10 PM

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Oh dear Lord...why would you revive this ridiculous thread?

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/22/2007 3:49:32 PM

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Oh dear Lord...why would you revive this ridiculous thread?

Because it's my thread and I can. Shame on the 2900 ridiculous people who read it not to mention the totally ridiculous 120 people who posted to it.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/22/2007 4:03:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: ErusDespicienta

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Oh dear Lord...why would you revive this ridiculous thread?

Because it's my thread and I can. Shame on the 2900 ridiculous people who read it not to mention the totally ridiculous 120 people who posted to it.

I guess it's also your prerogative to come across as obsessive, needy and whiny.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/22/2007 5:18:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: ErusDespicienta

5/7/2007 12:05:45 PM
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ORIGINAL: sugarbaby59

well its real nice when the submissive in question here has to find out on her own that her Dom that wants her to come live in a different country , has to put an ad on a dating site , and complain to people that dont even know her about the flowers he bought her
well if any one is interested i am that sub and the flowers he sent are on my profile pic on my profile page , since that time he has declined to talk to me about any of our problems so have fun on collar me Sir and i hope you find your greener pastures ............................the dumped subbbbbbbb

5/7/2007 12:05:45 PM

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5/22/2007 5:05:47 PM: well i have been talking to lhrider001 for over a month now and , things are looking up, i feel we get along very well , and we have loads in common , he has a wonderful heart and knows how to accept a person for whom they are, i am hoping one day very soon to meet him and to have this relationship grow into something wonderful
thank you Ryder Sir for being who You ,
Your lilone .

Well sugarbaby_59 aka dazzzlinnn , 5/22/2007 minus the "over a month" means that you were on collarme prior to 4/22/2007 a long time before I was. How very interesting. I'm sure lhrider001 knows all about the flowers. hahahaha.

*Puts on My Ms. Holmes detective costume* (yes chia occasionally I think of scenes on My own...tiring I'll stick to stealing your ideas)*

Elementary My dear Watson, that's how she found the thread in the first place.

Didn't anyone really wonder how in the world she found that thread if she wasn't a collarme member? I sorta came to that conclusion after she fired off. But, the revelation of yet another character is well diabolical. This is better than the Bold and The Beautiful. Wouldn't it just be great if Rider turned out to be Erus' long dead evil twin brother????????????

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/22/2007 5:29:54 PM

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Im sitting here stressing over the design of some pressed flower art Im making for Him.
What's the old expression? Never look a gift horse in the mouth..

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/22/2007 11:10:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: ErusDespicienta

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Oh dear Lord...why would you revive this ridiculous thread?

Because it's my thread and I can. Shame on the 2900 ridiculous people who read it not to mention the totally ridiculous 120 people who posted to it.

"It's my party and I'll rezz the thread if I want to... "

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/24/2007 10:38:52 AM

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quote:ORIGINAL: ErusDespicienta "Because it's my thread and I can. Shame on the 2900 ridiculous people who read it not to mention the totally ridiculous 120 people who posted to it."

Well Erus, you didn't seem to think that the 120 people were ridiculous when we we're telling you what you wanted to hear , now that we think You are being obsessive, needy and whiny as Aileen68 nicely put it , now we are ridiculous for posting to your thread, i think you are the one that needs help, not that poor girl you drug through the mud, i am happy that she found someone that she can be happy with , maybe you need to get a life and stop dwelling on things.And you know maybe lhrider001 does know about you and the flowers , SO WHAT , get real
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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/24/2007 10:47:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Oh dear Lord...why would you revive this ridiculous thread?

Because it's my thread and I can. Shame on the 2900 ridiculous people who read it not to mention the totally ridiculous 120 people who posted to it.

I guess it's also your prerogative to come across as obsessive, needy and whiny.

The word "scorned" comes to my mind.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/24/2007 10:51:12 AM

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The reason I wanted to blow a fuse was because it seemed ungrateful to me and now I'm damn sure it was!
Didn't someone say " It's the thought that counts".
All I wanted to hear was ty for the flowers.

Thankyou E/everyone. .this has been very insightful.

Did I miss something? I thought you said she DID call and leave a vmail and say thank you several times and thanked you again? Although from My submissive, I would have wanted them to call Me first explain that there was an issue with the flowers and gotten My decision on what best to do. Especially someone seeking My collar.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/24/2007 12:41:49 PM

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Well I am on both sides with this one, I have had a Master send me flowers and I loved them so much I wouldnt have changed them for the world unless they arrived half dead or like one person said they couldnt reach the water or basically if something was wrong, but I would have talked to my Master told how much I appericiated them and then asked if it would be ok if I had them change this or that due to something being wrong as per my examples.
I think you should talk to her tell her what your thinking and how it made you feel and see what she say's there might be more to it then you think, but theres only one way to find out.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/24/2007 7:07:16 PM

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quote:ORIGINAL: ErusDespicienta "Because it's my thread and I can. Shame on the 2900 ridiculous people who read it not to mention the totally ridiculous 120 people who posted to it."

Well Erus, you didn't seem to think that the 120 people were ridiculous when we we're telling you what you wanted to hear , now that we think You are being obsessive, needy and whiny as Aileen68 nicely put it , now we are ridiculous for posting to your thread, i think you are the one that needs help, not that poor girl you drug through the mud, i am happy that she found someone that she can be happy with , maybe you need to get a life and stop dwelling on things.And you know maybe lhrider001 does know about you and the flowers , SO WHAT , get real
Britania

Ummmmmmm he's being sarcastic about the ridiculous. she said the thread was ridiculous. His point... if it were ridiculous why did 120 respond and does that make them ridiculous too. Were you on his side until you thought he called the posters ridiculous?

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/25/2007 2:35:45 AM

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I am pretty sure that the woman in question has well and truly moved on and it may be an idea for you to do the same.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/25/2007 4:12:14 AM

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ahem---grow up you two and take it off line---this sniveleing and sniping just shows how childish you both really are.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/26/2007 4:01:47 AM

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Ummmmmmm he's being sarcastic about the ridiculous. she said the thread was ridiculous. His point... if it were ridiculous why did 120 respond and does that make them ridiculous too. Were you on his side until you thought he called the posters ridiculous?

Let me quote this , just in case anyone else missed the point.

NefertariReborn it's a pleasure to meet you.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/26/2007 7:03:23 AM

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So, let's see...

You post looking for validation for your personal feelings...
And when the thread blows up ... everyone that posted is ridiculous?

okie dokie

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/26/2007 9:45:43 AM

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I seriosuly just grabbed a can of Pringles and a Milky Way and enjoyed the show.

Thank you, OP, for 7 pages of laughs.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 7/26/2007 9:52:49 AM

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I'm trying to resolve a problem before I blow a fuse and maybe I am wrong wanting to blow a fuse, so lets find out shall we !

I sent flowers to a submissive who wants my collar.( this is real time btw) It was her birthday today ( no I would never divulge a womans age but since it might be relevent between 45 and 55).

I chose the arrangement, with a vase, from a book with pictures and ordered them to be delivered to her office. They were delivered in a timely fashion .

She called me, left voice mail. that she had got them and how lovely they were. .ty. ty .ty. may I suck your cock Sir and all that good stuff. .I'm kidding on the BJ part. I made that up. .

I gave her a call back in my break,50 mins later, she told me she had called the florist and asked them to replace the flower arrangement because it was poorly arranged and she didn't like the vase. it was too boxy.or something, it wouldn't hold the flowers correctly. The florists. god bless them have replaced the arrangement and she is now happy. .BUT I am not!
I have not said anything to her as yet. I'm trying to engage brain before opening mouth.

I'm really curious to hear from anyone, who's interested, about what YOU would have done, how you would have handled the situation. Would you have done something different??

whatever happened to "it's the thought that counts"?

although most would think it's not manly for a guy to receive flowers, if i ever did get any, and the same situation occured (flowers and vase not right or whatever) i would rearrange the flowers myself, decorate the vase to spruce it up, but, otherwise, wouldn't go to the extremes this person did. i mean, this was a gift, except it as is and move on.

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