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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 12:05:45 PM

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well its real nice when the submissive in question here has to find out on her own that her Dom that wants her to come live in a different country , has to put an ad on a dating site , and complain to people that dont even know her about the flowers he bought her
well if any one is interested i am that sub and the flowers he sent are on my profile pic on my profile page , since that time he has declined to talk to me about any of our problems so have fun on collar me Sir and i hope you find your greener pastures ............................the dumped subbbbbbbb

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 12:14:00 PM

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and dont ever fucking call me again with your bullshit

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 12:38:28 PM

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oh the drama...I guess the communication issues were right on the money

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 12:52:21 PM

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communication well there was none , only what he wanted to comunicate , when it came to me all i did was wrong , nothing i did pleased Him so he can find His greener patures here ,while i look for my greener pastures which arent any, i have come to that conclusion , and maybe he will find his one that will tolerate being broken all the time , i cant tolerate everything i do as bad, and i get no praise for anything , so im done , and all you girls who commented on this post well you dont know the half of it , the flowers were beautiful it was the arrangement faulty and he is in a different country, i wanted His moneys worth to be given to me not some piece of shit that some florist asst thru together with no thought, i dint know he picked it out of a magazine but i know damn well he dint put alot of effort in it , my god it was a phone call for christs sakes and i have never been ungrateful for anyhting i got , he just dint like the fact i took the bull by the horns and corrected something on my own i guess im not supposed to be smart enough for that
WHATEVERRRRRRRRRR
im a horrible sub beat the hell out of me somebody

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 1:02:43 PM

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Nothing says "I kind of like you" like flowers from a catalog and nothing says "you suck" like returning them.
Just a bit of passive aggressiveness on both sides here.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 1:14:47 PM

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Is it a freakin' full moon around here?

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 1:17:47 PM

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May does have a blue moon. Maybe that's what's behind all of the drama lately.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 1:19:38 PM

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And it would explain the bizarre emails I'm getting on the otherside today.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 1:21:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Nothing says "I kind of like you" like flowers from a catalog and nothing says "you suck" like returning them.
Just a bit of passive aggressiveness on both sides here.

That made me laugh

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 1:26:37 PM

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Sugar--i don't see the picture of the flowers, maybe it is taking awhile to get approved since you just joined today. I am wondering how you heard about this thread, or are you a member under another name? Anyway dumping him sounds like the right thing to do since you two have a lot of issues. Good luck to you.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 2:01:35 PM

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Wow if i found out my Dom had a profile on a site and i did'nt know about it , i would think he is a lier and a cheat and he was trying to hide something from me
i think You are doing the right thing too sugar , better to know now than to find out to late , He sounds like a domineering man not a Dominant , best of luck to you sugar

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 2:10:57 PM

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I know nothing about the OP & this situation, but I think it is unfair to assume that because someone has a profile here they are automatically seeking another.
My dom hasn't a profile here, as far as I know he has never even been onto this site. He didn't know I was here for ages, simply because I am not using this place to hook up with anyone.
It isn't a case of lying or cheating with me & it probably isn't for many others.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 2:12:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Nothing says "I kind of like you" like flowers from a catalog and nothing says "you suck" like returning them.
Just a bit of passive aggressiveness on both sides here.

Just when I thought the threads were getting a bit dull........

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 3:10:25 PM

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Wow if i found out my Dom had a profile on a site and i did'nt know about it , i would think he is a lier and a cheat and he was trying to hide something from me
i think You are doing the right thing too sugar , better to know now than to find out to late , He sounds like a domineering man not a Dominant , best of luck to you sugar

Awww jesus I hate when they have MPD too.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 3:27:55 PM

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I sent flowers to a submissive who wants my collar.( this is real time btw) It was her birthday today ( no I would never divulge a womans age but since it might be relevent between 45 and 55).

Well this is interesting isn't it ? I thought this thread died a long time ago.

Setting the record straight. . I AM NOT sugars Dom. and she was NOT COLLARED. .

She was completely aware that my status was Single and available.
..and yes she saw that in writing weeks ago. . yes there is a communication problem and no, it isn't my problem.

Finally I would appreciate it if this thread would stick to the point. I asked the question ~~

"I'm really curious to hear from anyone, who's interested, about what YOU would have done, how YOU would have handled the situation. Would you have done something different??

Any other business on this thread is entirely inappropiate, belongs somewhere else and anyone who disgregards this would have to be at best considered a very poor communicator and a trouble maker.

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 3:28:40 PM

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i dont know what you are trying to do but if you need to put yourself on a dating site then You are notinterested in pursuing anything with me............. and you were hiding it from me so that tells me all i need to know ,you said in your post here that you were gonna give it one more chance but you are not giving me a chance everytime you log into that site.and You have done nothing but lie to me the past three days every time You have logged in here ............ and you always find fault with me, in everything i do ,i dont know what it is you want (name removed), but i really amstarting to feel like itisnt me as hard as i have been trying and you said in your forum i am not learning well if i am not learning and this is what you feel thenmaybe i will never learn but now i feel like you are looking for someone better and if that is the case i will bow out cause im not gonna be just hanging around hoping to get thrown a bone and i feel like all i am doing now is for noughtpacking all this stuff trying to sell everything cause that is what You wanted i am doing it all for you and then you go put an add on a dating site to meet womenand then you air the flowers thing in public to get answers from submissives why dint you ask other Masters how they would have handled it i think you would have gotten a better view from other men , all the submissives did was cut me down and they dont even know meso now you decide...... do you want me or do You not i really need to know , i wait for your reply Sir oh and before you say i am single i have the right to join a dating site then maybe you ought to tell the person you have hangingon the side......... that you know loves you very much ..........the truth about it not hide it from her to let her find out on her own ............i love You and You dont even see it ,...... so if You think You can do better tell me to go take a hike and i will sugarbabyPS
listen when the grass aint greener on the other side and you cant find one to put up with your degrading and belittling the way you do cause no one is gonna be purrfect for you you just gave up the one woman who would have been there thru thick and thin but you wont communicate with her ...........its easier for you to toss them out when they are broken if that is what you want then dont call me cause i wont be your other kirilee waiting with bated breath to hope one day you love me you either do or you dont and thats the bottom line and i dont feel you love me at all be well (name removed) and i hope you find what youre searching for you had her and let her walk cause you DONT know how to tell the truth you always have to hide something and make it look like the other person is at fault well you need to look in the mirror at yourself and look at your own faults instead of pointing everyone elses out

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 3:32:14 PM

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and You are such a lier to make Yourself always look good
pffftttttttt look at yourself for once

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 3:34:18 PM

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and i was collared too You took the collar from me and told me that i was still in training and i would get the collar back when i improved the bottom line is we were having a RT LDR untill today when i caught You lieing to me

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 3:36:12 PM

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Bluuuuuue Mooooooonnnnnn,
You saw me standing alooooooonnnnnne
Without a dream in my heaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrt,
Without a love of my oooowwwwwwnnnn.....

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RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive - 5/7/2007 3:47:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: ErusDespicienta

Given the reaction to this post and the authenticity of the feeling of the responders I'd like to share with you the results.

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This is a real time relationship. we've been together almost a year,
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. I know in my heart , just as in the other instances of this, it is not her lack of appreciation but the way she expresses appreciation and her communication that lacks.

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My heart tells me this is really a good person
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So my problem now is to decide. .Will this ever get better? I don't know. I have my doubts but I have a lot of time and emotion invested in this and I'm going to give it one more shot.

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It could be a lot worse.. she could be a liar and a cheater
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well it seems you have contradicted yourself ErusDespicienta those were you're own words that You were a RT LDR with her for almost a yr so who is telling the truth here , You dont have to have a collar on someone to be their Dom ,

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