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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 5:43:02 PM

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Mine doesn't say dom. It says submissive.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 5:55:29 PM

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Mine doesn't say dom. It says submissive.

Which is nice and totally irrelevant given i was talking to mysoginist chap and not you sweetie.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 5:58:51 PM

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Oh... well if you look in the bottom right corner of your post it says "In reply to tamaka". If you want to reply to a specific person, you need to be on that person's post and reply from there.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 6:18:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

Oh... well if you look in the bottom right corner of your post it says "In reply to tamaka". If you want to reply to a specific person, you need to be on that person's post and reply from there.

Hmm you are correct. Wierd quote system, however the principle point remains valid.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 7:12:54 PM

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There are women who are happily married or partnered and thus are obviously "relationship material" who still get bombarded with hundreds of messages from men in different states and different countries who just want help with jerking off. That's not my fault. I'm talking about literally hundreds of messages, since last summer, even though my profile specifically stated that I was only looking for local people. The problem is that these wankers think they are being "respectful" by sitting there with a hard on and typing "Mistress" and capitalized "You" to every random Domme on the globe.

(Didn't hit reply, just leaving a comment.)

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 7:32:43 PM

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I literally just now got this message from some asshole in Illinois:

"Learned Miss Lisahow are You may i have the pleasure to serve You hope to be Your best slave .... will never upset You Miss Lisa Hope to hear from You Regards slave"

Seriously, these guys can piss right off. I am not free interactive online porn, or any kind of online porn. I'm sick and tired of it. I'm not anybody's Mistress, at least not yet, and I'm not here to help guys jerk their dicks. They need to stop. If they want online entertainment they should contact a pro and pay for it.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 7:33:12 PM

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Tamaka, thanks for telling the truth. Unlike some other women here who keep lying and claiming 99 percent of men are evil.

Who here is claiming that?

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Welcome to PoliticSpace! If you came here expecting meaningful BDSM discussions, boy are you in the wrong place.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 8:12:00 PM

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You can even tell that it's bad copy paste that he didn't even bother to fix.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 9:05:36 PM

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Just a quicky

Lisa, with a profile like yours as its just one big rant against men, do you truly think a quality person who is looking for a real relationship would be interested?

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 9:12:19 PM

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How is that relevant since I just changed my profile a few days ago and I'm talking about hundreds of messages since last summer?

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 9:22:58 PM

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Your profile has been the same since you started posting here which was a week or two ago.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 9:29:45 PM

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How is that relevant since I just changed my profile a few days ago and I'm talking about hundreds of messages since last summer?

If could be wrong, but if you put yourself out there as a female domme, people are going to view you as a sexually aggressive woman. Right or wrong, that is the image that a female domme has. In a way, the image of a female domme kind of almost dehumanizes you (not you in particular, just generally) and makes one think of you as a deliverer of sexual fantasy.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 9:53:28 PM

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1. She's a feminist
2. She's a female supremacist that hangs in female supremacist groups that condone male genocide.
3. She has a very bitter and prejudice attitude against men.

Is this what you would consider as relationship material?

Not to mention, being a feminist, it's hypocritical how she's supposed to be about equality and yet thinks it's the man's job to initiate contact.

If a man was a MRA, a male supremacist who hang in male supremacist groups that condoned female genocide, and was generally very prejudiced against women, nearly everyone would be ridiculing him if he came here whining about not having luck.

Yet Lisa gets away with all of this because she's a woman.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 10:00:27 PM

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These accusations are hysterical!

Yeah, the stuff that sub women get in their inbox is even worse than what we get. Not buying it.

I'm not particularly attached to labels. If not licking the sweat off your balls makes me a feminist then I guess I'm a feminist. I'm not involved in any organized political effort of any kind and I don't particularly like the extreme SJW types, either right or left.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 10:03:59 PM

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I never said that I don't get any quality messages. I said that it's maybe one percent, which is one out of every hundred. My experience is very similar to that of most other women on these sites, whether Domme or sub. I have been here since last summer.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 10:09:47 PM

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Except feminists, we all know that men and women are different. That's why there are more female prostitutes than male prostitutes, that's why females get raped far more often than males, that's why men are generally more eager than women for sexual experiences. But men are expected to act like women or else we are oppressors and simply wrong. Men aren't women and never will be.

From saying this, men are more likely to fuck or play with women who they would never want a relationship with. Not every male but it's a common male thing. Women are less likely to fuck or play with men who they would never have a relationship with. They do exist though.

The only reason why Lisa seems to be only getting males who just want to play is because male's aren't seeing her as relationship material.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 10:11:32 PM

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The problem is that guys are looking at porn and looking at pro dommes, and then they come here and think that "Dommes" are the same thing except free. The fact that these sites link to porn and vice versa is something that doesn't help matters.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 10:14:46 PM

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The problem is that guys are looking at porn and looking at pro dommes, and then they come here and think that "Dommes" are the same thing except free. The fact that these sites link to porn and vice versa is something that doesn't help matters.

And what's wrong with that? Just because men aren't acting like women, they are wrong?

Just because men are seeking something different to you that doesn't mean they're wrong. Men are entitled to their needs/wants too.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 11:17:19 PM

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And what's wrong with that? Just because men aren't acting like women, they are wrong?

Just because men are seeking something different to you that doesn't mean they're wrong. Men are entitled to their needs/wants too.

She isn't talking about men, shes talking about subs with porn based expectations. And thats exactly the same for 50 shades fantasist female subs. Whether its porn or pros that trigger it the 'I want x done to me cos I saw it on the interwebz/paid for it' and you're one of them because you are Dom(me) so you must do it is the issue. Fuck all to do with gender.

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RE: Dommes - 3/16/2017 11:22:12 PM

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And what's wrong with that? Just because men aren't acting like women, they are wrong?

Just because men are seeking something different to you that doesn't mean they're wrong. Men are entitled to their needs/wants too.

She isn't talking about men, shes talking about subs with porn based expectations. And thats exactly the same for 50 shades fantasist female subs. Whether its porn or pros that trigger it the 'I want x done to me cos I saw it on the interwebz/paid for it' and you're one of them because you are Dom(me) so you must do it is the issue. Fuck all to do with gender.

So what's the real problem again when someone likes ideas from what they see in porn and wants to try?

Are you trying to say that they aren't entitled to seek what you're not seeking?

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