chiaThePet
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ORIGINAL: Eldritchdancer
Good day, forum readers. I had a conversation with a few friends this week and something they asked me was profound enough for me to ponder it. And, as I like to think with other people, I figured I'd post this to the Forums. I'm not posting this to the Ask a Mistress/Master area because it affects us as a whole, by perception. I ask that people not send flames, as this is a legitimate query from some folks who are relatively new and seeking answers. The question I was asked is:
"If a Dominant, be they male or female, demands tribute to meet with them at all... how are they different from a prostitute/giggilo? In both cases you are giving something of value just for the pleasure of their company."
That one threw me for a loop. I'd never thought of it that way, really, as I don't ask for tribute. I LOVE meeting new people. So, I thought I'd put it out to the forums to discuss, rationally, so I can show the thread to the questioners.
Master Darkmoon
P.S.
As a side note, this is my 25th posting, so I lost my Vanilla Cone. lol (well, I thought I'd lose my cone)
Dear Master Darkmoon,
As with most subjects here, it is defined within the context of individual
thinking. Some do, some don't, some will, some won't. What i find most
interesting is the fact that not once in your OP, did you mention the
exchange of anything sexual in nature for tribute. Yet like horses out
of the gate, everyone's a whore and a prostitute, flashing flesh and
body parts for that dastardly dinero, the root of all evil, (though some
feel deeply it is a certain political party, pick one) ever tainting the human
race's oh so innocent approach to satisfy their wanton desires. Poor
submissives everywhere are viewed as pathetic little weaklings with
absolutely no understanding as to what it is they do when offering a
tribute, or letter, or rose, or cadillac to one whom they choose to do so.
(a voluntary tribute defined as something given, done, or said to show
gratitude, respect, honor, or praise)
Do we all not offer tribute all day long to the Gods of our needs and
desires? Want it? That'll be 5.99 plus tax. (a forced tribute) And yes,
one could define corporate entities as the biggest whores around, but
we enjoy them, work for them, and profit ourselves from them. Would
that not make us just another whore in the big house? Why must we
always find fault within the ranks, when they are beating at the door
thrusting spears of judgement from without? What is it they say about
a house divided? i know, i am not you, and you are not me, and
sometimes we feel differently. There is no book of rules by which we
must all abide, well, actually there might be depending on one's beliefs,
but i won't even venture into that one, God forbid! We are a whole lot
different, we are a whole lot the same, the same, the same, the same.
Each and every relationship is unique unto itself, defined by the boundries
or extentions of those involved, their needs and desires addressed within
the parameters of said relationship. If it works, excellent! No matter the
individual application which keeps such alive and thriving, be it tribute,
denial of tribute, or simply letting a boy stand on your balcony, naked
to the world, arms outstretched, shouting, "i'm kink of the world!". What
does it really matter to me if they find this scenerio works for them?
What does it matter if he chooses to give Her money, flowers, parfume,
or a dozen eggs to do so? Unless he holds you at gunpoint to accompany
him in such, forcing you to do the same, it does not change you one bit.
"Oh but it reflects on the whole enchilada, some will say." In my journey
as a submissive, i have seen things i have never imagined in my wildest
dreams, the enchilada containing some ingredients which quite frankly
shock me sometimes. But if it works for them, doesn't hurt those involved,
and is not illegal, it is their enchilada to consume. i will not resort to simple
name calling because from high atop my soap box, it is unexceptable to
my oh so superior beliefs to allow such. Who said this was about sex?
Does it have to be about sex? Why do we automatically apply it as money
for sex? Simply because others say so? Simply because the word "whore"
rolls so smoothly off the tongue and covers the bases nicely? Well, on
behalf of all the Beautiful Ladies here, i do so apologize for the loose
and misuse of nasty little labels which offend and pretend to solve the query.
Some of you will recognize me from earlier posts concerning the fact that i
am a boy of Dearest Mystress at MystressWorld. (i heard that groan, and
i know who you are, doesn't matter) Mystress does require tribute, or tuition,
or whatever one wants to call it, does help to weed out some players,
and shows a boy is serious about his desire to learn. Frankly, i spend more
at $tarbucks$ than Mystress requires to enroll under Her study program.
Am i paying for sex? Hope not, because that's not why i am there, and not
why i have been Her boy there for two years. There is a wonderful exchange
of lesson subject between true need boys and the Glorious Dommes
whom graciously share of Themselves with us. i am not being held at gunpoint
to open my wallet, and i would like to think that i am intelligent enough to
make decisions concerning my own needs and my own earned money.
Fact of the matter is, i am offering freely for something which has enlightened
and expanded my horizons, and in the course of, i have been privileged to
have had some tremendous conversations with extremely intellectual Women,
a much richer and better understanding for doing such. It is a goal at
MystressWorld, that a Domme and boy will find that elusive connection,
but it is never implied that i will pay for certain favors, when and if i should
be fortunate enough to meet one of the Wonderful, Beautiful Women whom
i have shared with there. Call these Women "whores"? <SLAP> Not on
my watch! Simple is as simple does, simply. Rise above the mediocre and
mundane "everything fits all" answer, expand your mind beyond it's limits of
half empty applications, because the subject may just not be about what one
thinks it is at all. Please don't define my love, adoration, devotion, or purpose
by insulting those whom i find stunningly beautiful of mind and soul.
With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)
< Message edited by chiaThePet -- 5/11/2007 3:50:46 PM >
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