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ORIGINAL: igor2003 Pro-Dommes don't solicite their clients for the most part it's be referal and reference they're the ones who are solicited. Don't solicit their clients? Now I am certain that in 'some' instances a referral or reference may be the rule for a 'seasoned' domme, but one browse thru Collarme.com will more than amply prove this theory flatly incorrect. quote:
Igor2003 wrote: WHat I see here is a bunch of bull fed into by some media idea of what Pro-Dommes do...how many of you actually know a Pro? Actually, I know several. While I personally do not have a problem with "Pro Dommes" I find it woefully irresponsible that some would compare this service to that of a professional (doctor, lawyer, sex therapist). For starters, the latter are in some way, shape or form sanctioned, certified or have met legal and state competency tests to offer their services. No such standards exist for a Pro Domme-- meaning that one could attend a few munches, do a bit of reading, and begin demanding handsome tributes for their services. Regardless of experience, there is simply no legitimacy to this argument. I will concede that Pro Dommes do indeed provide a service, and the fees decided upon between the potential submissive and their domme/master, are the interplay between what one is willing to pay, and what one feels their services are worth. Because there is no regulating body (I'm not proposing one) what one feels their services are worth can often be the subject of debate. quote:
Igor2003 wrote: Actually, i do know a pro-Domme. We've gone to lunch together, we've gone to a nightclub together, and we've exchanged many phone calls. But we never did do a "scene" together. I know very well what pro-Dommes do. They run a business. They exchange a service for a fee (regardless of what the fee consists of or how large or small the "fee" is.) Like any business, they can "reserve the right to refuse service to anyone". And as i said in my first post on this thread, i have absolutely no problem what-so-ever with pro-domination. Regardless of who solicets whom it is still, in the end, a business deal, making it vastly different from purely social interactions. You can't compare oranges to apples. The original post was a question of what posters here thought about Pro Dommes and their relation (if any) to prostitution. For most, BDSM is indeed a part of our sexuality (I think anyone who denies such a thing is either asexual or a liar). Like sex, we either engage in it for business or pleasure (or in the case of heterosexuals for procreation). To categorize sexual relations as purely sexual intercourse especially when we're dealing with such highly sexed people, is being purposefully ambiguous. This is an 'adult related' site for a reason. Michael
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