igor2003
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I keep reading where the ladies (OR gentleman) that require a tribute say it seperates the game players from the serious submissives. Honestly, i can't see how this could work, at least not in the way they say. To me, requiring a tribute could only ATTRACT the game players. A sub sees a profile (or learns in conversation) that a dom/me requires a tribute, so he/she contacts that dominant and agrees to give/pay whatever the tribute is. He/she meets the dominant, and gives them the tribute At that point the sub has fulfilled their part of the contract, and now it is the dominants turn. Assuming the dominant is honorable they then give the submissive a session, after which they both have fulfilled their part of the contract and the submissive goes his/her merry way. No strings. Just pay the price, play the game and go home. On the "other" side is the submissive that is looking for something more serious and long lasting. When they see "tribute required" it looks like one of two things to them, either it is a business deal or a scam, neither of which is the kind of thing they are looking for so they keep looking. That is not to say that some serious subs won't pay-to-play just to be able to fulfill their need to submit. Admittedly, this is all only my opinion based on my own experience, but in reading the posts i do believe that a lot of other subs have similar feelings. Not everyone will see it this way, and everyone is entitled to their opinion. In answer to the OP, in my own opinion anyone that REQUIERS a tribute (assuming it is not a scam) is looking to make a business deal. I wouldn't call them a prostitute unless sex is involved, but giggilo, for those that say they are NOT pro, might be a good term since they require some type of compensation for their time. And just for the record, i have no problem what-so-ever with pro-domination. I think it definitely fills a need, They just need to call it what it is. If you REQUIRE a payment, no matter what term you use, then you are a pro.
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