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Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 1:28:29 PM

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I'm curious to know if other femdoms are attracted to bondage, fetishes, etc. in and of themselves, or generally only when associated with a relationship. I have a pretty big set of fetishes, and the main ones push my buttons when presented to me in any format, regardless of whether or not a femdom is present or a femdom theme is going on. In other words, I get really turned on when I see:

* An escape artist act
* A hero tied up in a tv show, even if the villian is a man
* Anything suggestive of breath control

I am even more distracted these days, so this was on my mind. I remember when I was a teenager, I used to browse the new Fall TV show selection trying to get an indication which show promised to have the most "guys tied up." That was pre-VCR days for me, and I would sit through mindless tv shows hoping for token bondage. Even as recently as a few years ago, I got uber-obsessed with X files ONLY because I wanted to see David D trussed up and gagged as much as possible. YUM!

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 1:36:51 PM

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AAkasha,

You sure do know how to make us think; for that I appreciate your posts.

It was the attraction of bondage and other such things that caused me to be interested in D/s. So yes, I get all hot and bothered when I see my triggers being displayed regardless if the femdom role is being taken. Seeing those triggers usually make me want to participate instead of just watch and when all I can do is watch (as in tv or movies), well then, I still gain enjoyment from it. I am a bit of a massochist myself, so, I think not having control over the visuals is a pleasant torment...lol.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 1:38:46 PM

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Torture scenes make me squishy. The new James Bond movie...at the end...oh my. Certain types of bondage scenes can do it for me too. As far as fetishes, leather in any context turns me on.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 1:40:59 PM

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I'm curious to know if other femdoms are attracted to bondage, fetishes, etc. in and of themselves, or generally only when associated with a relationship. I have a pretty big set of fetishes, and the main ones push my buttons when presented to me in any format, regardless of whether or not a femdom is present or a femdom theme is going on. In other words, I get really turned on when I see:

* An escape artist act
* A hero tied up in a tv show, even if the villian is a man
* Anything suggestive of breath control

I am even more distracted these days, so this was on my mind. I remember when I was a teenager, I used to browse the new Fall TV show selection trying to get an indication which show promised to have the most "guys tied up." That was pre-VCR days for me, and I would sit through mindless tv shows hoping for token bondage. Even as recently as a few years ago, I got uber-obsessed with X files ONLY because I wanted to see David D trussed up and gagged as much as possible. YUM!

Akasha

I'm definitely attracted to my fetishes in and of themselves. I think it's part of the reason I enjoy sports, or shows like you mentioned. I think I mentioned elsewhere the old Rocky and Bullwinkle shows where Snidely Whiplash would tie the little Tess Truehart(I think that was the name) to the tracks. Or Wonder Woman and her Lasso of Truth. Although personally I loved when Nicholas Lea and David Duchovney got into their brawls and poor little ratboy got all beat up. Yummm! I always got a bit "fidgety" when watching things like that!

Although the power exchange within a relationship just adds to it.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 1:58:22 PM

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oh sports...in general I like sports and there is something kinky about all of them. But ultimate fighting champions with CBT, blood, spanking, wrestling...what is not to love about that?

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 2:40:35 PM

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Gulliver’s travels was the thing that got me interested in dominating men!!!

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 2:58:42 PM

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Now, I just want to get a couple of boys and pit them in a wrestling match...lol. I'll leave out the details.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:04:22 PM

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No need to add in details...my mind is going already lol

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:12:51 PM

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Domin8, no, I like those kind of details!

Seriously, I have to agree. Certain bondage/male being kidnapped scenes will just drive Me wild. Interrogation scenes have a big pull. Sorry for the pun on that one, since anyone who's familiar with My posts should have already figured out that the hair pulling was going to be mentioned. There is just something too sexy about seeing a male's hair pulled from the back hard enough to force him to look at the ceiling.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:14:53 PM

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lol.

If you want the details LadyPact, mail me on the other side...let the boys wonder.

As far as the hair pulling, yep, yummy!

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:16:18 PM

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Domin8, no, I like those kind of details!

Seriously, I have to agree. Certain bondage/male being kidnapped scenes will just drive Me wild. Interrogation scenes have a big pull. Sorry for the pun on that one, since anyone who's familiar with My posts should have already figured out that the hair pulling was going to be mentioned. There is just something too sexy about seeing a male's hair pulled from the back hard enough to force him to look at the ceiling.

Happy to be kidnapped by you anytime, though may have to wait a while for my hair to grow longer first, lol.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:17:53 PM

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Domin8, no, I like those kind of details!

Seriously, I have to agree. Certain bondage/male being kidnapped scenes will just drive Me wild. Interrogation scenes have a big pull. Sorry for the pun on that one, since anyone who's familiar with My posts should have already figured out that the hair pulling was going to be mentioned. There is just something too sexy about seeing a male's hair pulled from the back hard enough to force him to look at the ceiling.

*perk* wow, oh yeah. I am with you on that one!! I have had a hair pulling fetish so long I had in my "non negotiable" physical criteria that guys needed to have hair long enough to pull.

Does anyone remember the Marc Singer interrogation scene from "V"??

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:23:18 PM

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Domin8, no, I like those kind of details!

Seriously, I have to agree. Certain bondage/male being kidnapped scenes will just drive Me wild. Interrogation scenes have a big pull. Sorry for the pun on that one, since anyone who's familiar with My posts should have already figured out that the hair pulling was going to be mentioned. There is just something too sexy about seeing a male's hair pulled from the back hard enough to force him to look at the ceiling.

*perk* wow, oh yeah. I am with you on that one!! I have had a hair pulling fetish so long I had in my "non negotiable" physical criteria that guys needed to have hair long enough to pull.

Does anyone remember the Marc Singer interrogation scene from "V"??

Akasha

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:24:28 PM

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oh sports...in general I like sports and there is something kinky about all of them. But ultimate fighting champions with CBT, blood, spanking, wrestling...what is not to love about that?

Ultimate Fighting Champions??? What is this sport you speak of with CBT and spanking??? How the hell have I missed this??? Tell all.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:26:23 PM

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Now, I just want to get a couple of boys and pit them in a wrestling match...lol. I'll leave out the details.

We demand details! I think they should be oiled to make them slippery. And Naked! yes, yes, definitely naked.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:27:53 PM

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Domin8, no, I like those kind of details!

Seriously, I have to agree. Certain bondage/male being kidnapped scenes will just drive Me wild. Interrogation scenes have a big pull. Sorry for the pun on that one, since anyone who's familiar with My posts should have already figured out that the hair pulling was going to be mentioned. There is just something too sexy about seeing a male's hair pulled from the back hard enough to force him to look at the ceiling.

*perk* wow, oh yeah. I am with you on that one!! I have had a hair pulling fetish so long I had in my "non negotiable" physical criteria that guys needed to have hair long enough to pull.

Does anyone remember the Marc Singer interrogation scene from "V"??

Akasha

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Hehehe..I thought I was the only one. I remember that had a big impact on me at the time. There are so many scenes from things that did that to me, but a few come to mind right now for some reason:

* David Duchovny in X files "Pine Bluff Variant" - kidnapped and hooded and eventually gets his wrists strapped down on the table so they can break his fingers. He says "you better put that hood back on me unless you don't mind seeing a grown man cry." I nearly fell out of my chair.

* Sean Connery in Goldfinger, my first exposure to spread eagled that stands out. "Do you expect me to talk?" Ohhh my.

* Leonardo DiCaprio held down to have a bullet taken out of his hand in "Total Eclipse." Worth the price of admission!

* Johnny Depp handcuffed. And singing. "Cry Baby."

HOT!!

Akasha

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:35:46 PM

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<LAUGHS>

Believe it or not, hair growing is a requirement. The boys will tell you. If there's any r/t potential, the question of "How do you feel about growing your hair" is bound to come up. If there is any physical requirement I have, it is hair long enough for pulling/stroking.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:39:55 PM

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Does anyone remember the Marc Singer interrogation scene from "V"??

Akasha

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Helllll yes LOL

The other one that stands out for me...."Identity" the scene where John Cusack is in a straightjacket type thing and tied down to a chair. Yeah. Um.

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:41:06 PM

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Hehehe..I thought I was the only one. I remember that had a big impact on me at the time. There are so many scenes from things that did that to me, but a few come to mind right now for some reason:

* David Duchovny in X files "Pine Bluff Variant" - kidnapped and hooded and eventually gets his wrists strapped down on the table so they can break his fingers. He says "you better put that hood back on me unless you don't mind seeing a grown man cry." I nearly fell out of my chair. For me it was more like...oh god please let him cry like a bitch.

* Sean Connery in Goldfinger, my first exposure to spread eagled that stands out. "Do you expect me to talk?" Ohhh my. mmmmm I do have to agree.

* Leonardo DiCaprio held down to have a bullet taken out of his hand in "Total Eclipse." Worth the price of admission! One moment while I jump to Netflix please.

* Johnny Depp handcuffed. And singing. "Cry Baby."

Tears are a big one for me personally thus my sig line. LOL Then there are predicament situations, leather and hoods, hair pulling...I could go on and on. There was a show/movie (damned if I can remember it) that had the two antagonists chained together and hanging from a warehouse ceiling. Of course they had to struggle to get free. OMG that was hot. My brain just kept hoping they wouldn't ever get free!

I wonder how many of us specifically arrange dates around situations like this...specific movies or shows we know will trigger our hot buttons. I know I do!

HOT!!

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RE: Femdom lust and fetishes - 5/14/2007 3:42:47 PM

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<LAUGHS>

Believe it or not, hair growing is a requirement. The boys will tell you. If there's any r/t potential, the question of "How do you feel about growing your hair" is bound to come up. If there is any physical requirement I have, it is hair long enough for pulling/stroking.

I thought I was the only one who did that! I've actually insisted that they grow their hair out to sufficient length for me to wrap my hands in it.

Aakasha...yet another fantastic thread here!

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