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The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 12:50:05 AM

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Just out of curiosity, how many of you have encountered subs who are looking for a new Mistress because their previous one moved to California or Europe? I swear, I've seen this line more times than I can count. Just thought it would be fun to discuss.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 12:57:21 AM

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Oh now I am looking forward to these posts!!

I agree there are so many who have been left behind. being in Australia - none of them ever seem to want to move here. *Chuckles*

I usually ask why did you get left behind - maybe they fibbing ( OHH My do people do that online??) but some of them do have good solid reasons.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 1:00:49 AM

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Wow, I never actually thought of it as being left behind. I sort of just assumed the "she moved to Europe" line was an attempt to give a legitimate reason why they are single and why I can't get references from the former. Hmm...could they have been telling the truth?

By the way, I'd move to Australia!

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 1:32:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

Just out of curiosity, how many of you have encountered subs who are looking for a new Mistress because their previous one moved to California or Europe? I swear, I've seen this line more times than I can count. Just thought it would be fun to discuss.

Unless of course you live in California as I do. Then the former either moved to Europe, Canada or is no longer alive.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 2:36:18 AM

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It's a weather thing. Everywhere else sucks. It's going to rain every day here in Florida at 3:00 p.m. for the next month. Although, rain leaves me happy and longing for her voice.... But others hate it.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 3:23:22 AM

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not to change the subject but I sure hope it starts raining where I am in Florida.. We are still under severe drought conditions in my area & haven't seen any rain to speak of.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 3:34:20 AM

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I get at least 2 to 5 of those emails every week.

So curiosity got me one evening & I went into a UK chat room on a different site. I asked the room if their scene had a huge number of American Mistresses entering it since so many of the subs here in the States tell us that their previous owners had all moved there. A few of the UK Mistresses laughed & said there that was weird seeing that many of the subs there contact them telling their stories of woe since their previous owners have moved to America.

Wouldn't one think that there might be a site set up somewhere to work this out... some sort of Exchange Site... departing Mistresses could auction of their owned slaves to the Mistress entering the country.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 4:08:46 AM

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I'm deeply considering moving to California since apparently there are far more single males there than here on the East coast.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 4:09:46 AM

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I've wondered about that migration also! Just seems uncanny how all these Dommes tend to leave the country without their precious subs/slaves. And the ones that die leaving so many young slaves...... almost scares me!

When I ask how did the Domme die, the usual answer has been "taken by a drunk driver" but a few have told me that their Mistress died from cancer, suffered for many months while the slave waited hand & foot on them.

Of course, when we start exchanging emails they usually just vanish within a very short time or I find out that there never really was a Mistress to begin with.

One poor slave had a profile that said his Mistress died of cancer, when we chatted he told me that she was killed by a drunk driver and then we chatted on the phone and I found out that he is actually married--- oh, but his wife is dying of cancer and he wants me to relocate to him!

sheesh~~~~

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 4:29:19 AM

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My previous Domme was diagnosed with cancer, so decided to move to California..but on the way to the airport, she got hit and killed by a drunk driver.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 4:35:09 AM

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My previous Domme was diagnosed with cancer, so decided to move to California..but on the way to the airport, she got hit and killed by a drunk driver.

teehee--- Now I understand!!!

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 5:02:22 AM

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My previous Domme was diagnosed with cancer, so decided to move to California..but on the way to the airport, she got hit and killed by a drunk driver.

teehee--- Now I understand!!!

*winks*

Happens all the time around here - just last week there was a another tragic RTA involving a cancer-ridden Domme and a drunk driver. We even have a residential unit where bereaved submissives can go...it's a great place, clean and tidy as anything, though no one can ever make a decision - quite sad in a way.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 5:07:26 AM

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Maybe they are all moving to Europe as the Submissives here are so cute

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 5:07:36 AM

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most of mine move abroad just before they meet me!!

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 5:36:11 AM

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I am thanking My lucky stars that this is one scenario I have not had happen----

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 6:31:19 AM

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Just out of curiosity, for those submissives who's previous Mistress DID move away would it be better to not mention having served at all, or to tell the truth and be thought a lier? Many people believe that omission is as bad as a lie, but in this instance if a sub tells the truth, apparently many potential Mistresses will label him a lier and move on.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:16:50 AM

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Gee, just got this picture of a great herd moving through the Sarengetti,
exploding clouds of dust reaching ever skyward, thunderous echoes
of mighty hoofs striking fear in the hearts of creatures big and small,
then i opened my eyes and realized it's just another "what can we
find wrong with the submissives" chapter in the book of "why am i alone?"

Mmmmmm, nothing like a hot cup of coffee and the morning views.

Quick boys form a circle, herd em up, move em out, ye hah!

Born to serve, chia* (the pet)

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:24:23 AM

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I actually get a lot from subs whose mistresses have passed away. A few that have relocated. I dont necessarily think they are all liars, but it does make me a little more cautious. After all, if the mistress left and the relationship was that fantastic beforehand... why didnt he go with her?

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:29:28 AM

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My previous Domme was diagnosed with cancer, so decided to move to California..but on the way to the airport, she got hit and killed by a drunk driver.

LoL, I get these girls everyday like this, "mum" is dead, dad is near death, they are stuck in the UK
or Africa somewhere. And of course their last Master died suddenly too.
What is the name off that residentel ward ??? I know the "girls" are some asshole in Nigeria trying
to scam a few thousand bucks for a ticket, but what are the "males" after? same thing?

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:32:21 AM

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Just out of curiosity, for those submissives who's previous Mistress DID move away would it be better to not mention having served at all, or to tell the truth and be thought a liar? Many people believe that omission is as bad as a lie, but in this instance if a sub tells the truth, apparently many potential Mistresses will label him a liar and move on.

Igor, you have never seen My inbox here. It is cluttered with submissives with the wildest stories of submission and sacrifice - until I ask for verification of minor details and then the stories change suddenly. I always assume someone is telling the truth until I get to the stage where we begin discussing details and they don't have any answers.

If a slave has cared for a woman who is dying from cancer he will immediately be able to answer a few basic questions about the skill required to do so. He would also be able to tell Me where she died and where she is interred. Honestly, I would think that he'd at least remember her name (guys, if you are going to lie, at least give us credit for being perceptive and lie WELL - LOL)

If his Mistress moved to another location, why are they not still in touch unless there is more to the story? Did the woman just disappear off the face of the planet? Do they not have phones, email, and postal service where She moved to? I'd think that if this were an honest to god relationship where the people actually cared about each other and interacted with each other, that the parting wouldn't be a total 100% break unless there was a BREAK-UP.

C'mon, you can infer that we are unfair in our approach to these stories, but do you ever spare one thought to all the "submissives" who actually DO lie and therefore screw it up for the honest ones?

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