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How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/2/2007 10:09:36 PM

MzMia

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Okay I am taking a big risk here, and I am not trying to start
another friggin fat thread.
Thus said, I am in the process of buying a bathing suit and getting
ready for a long, hot summer and many fun times in the pool.
Of course, I want/need to lose at least 10-15 pounds to feel more comfortable
in my bathing suit.
I wonder if it would be easier, IF I was a submissive and had a Master to help,
make and exert control over what I eat.

How many Masters {men and women} are able to enforce and control their
submissives weight and influence their dietary habits?
Thank you in advance, now let me eat a few more chips and find a cold brew.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/2/2007 10:25:57 PM

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Valyraen is helping me lose weight but (and for me this is the big deal) it's a decision we made together and for many reasons, not just aesthetics.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/2/2007 10:46:13 PM

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Im very interested in this topic myself. I need to loose about 15 or 20 myself. I have found too that I find those Dom's who are physically fit the most attractive( not just physically, but mentally as well) and want to gleen from them. I want to be sculpted and beautiful. I want to be able to give that gift to my Dom some day. I like the idea of a Dom taking me and sculpting me into what pleases him.

Thanks for the opportunity to be here and learn from you all,
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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/2/2007 10:55:42 PM

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Good luck to you and Valyraen!, Aquaticsub you are lucky to have him.

octavia, you are so sweet, we are glad you are joining us here.
*maybe I need a Dom to help me lose a few pounds.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/2/2007 11:03:19 PM

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*grins evily* Hey, you could give a male master the "I dommed a domme" bragging rights in exchange for help with weight loss!

*ducks the rotten tomatos*

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/2/2007 11:12:55 PM

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LOL, not throwing any tomatoes.
Actually, he can Dominant me and then, I will help him explore his submissive side.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/2/2007 11:31:00 PM

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I am a Professional Dominatrix and 24/7 lifestyler with my husband who is also a Traditional Master in the feilds. I wanted to share my thoughts on this subject. My slave whome was grossly obese when i first met him was denied by a few Mistress"s just because of his size, being Traditional size didnt worry me but what did was his mental state, and his heath threatening physical size , as well as the neglect of his sub side as this wasnt being addressed. He had an imbalance of 3 things, mental, physical and spiritual all of these things had to be addressed and be a known factor to me, to make a wholelistic desion on his training and self disipline applied to his life. Firstly the disipline, soft and a regime acheiveable for him a very simple method. He had to ring me constantly at a certin time, his lazyness was certinally there, and i had to prompt him to keep him on target it wasnt because he didnt want to submit but his old habits were holding him back and had to be broken gently.When i aministered my disipline because he didnt do as requested it was another simple method over the knee big and all as he was and then after that the phsycological as to why he found comfort in eating and then we addressed that, his eating habits were changed as well as the reasons why he had to eat this way. As a Traditional Mistress i have a duty of care to my slaves to bring out the best, not in what they can do just for me but in their submission in and throughout their normal daily lives, submission is a gift to the dominant as is a dominant a gift to the submissive, hence a beautiful union. My update on you all about my slave is this he has lost in 2 and a half months 3 stone, he did weight in at 270lb plus, he is still on his weight reduction method that i have designed for him taking into account all of his physical ailments at the time and his attributes, which he now happily does, he rings me every night without fail, he does a slow Isametric passive exercise that i have designed for him and he started this this week. He has changed in his physical size , his pallor , his demure, his self esteem is improving as is his dress sence and communication skills at work , and in private these have excelled to the stage where in my reward system i am throwing him a party to show my pleasure at all of the above. His submission, his beauty is my reward.......Mistress Mercia

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/2/2007 11:37:58 PM

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What a wonderful and inspiring story Mercia!
This is a real success story, thank you for sharing!

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 12:20:58 AM

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Diet and exercise are high on my list of priorities with a slave. I do all the shopping and meal planning, taking care to tailor her meals in advance. Her exercises are picked only a day in advance, and are designed for a full body workout, alternating between upper and lower body and including a brisk cardiovascular daily workout. I had my pet cover her exercise and diet regimen in detail in our journal, but the description above covers the basics of it.

The health benefits and increased self esteem are good for her, and I have the pleasure of exerting control over her exercises and the added bonus of owning a nicely sculpted piece of arm candy.

Owner of slave L

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 12:52:36 AM

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I don't have a slave at this time, but for the past three months I've been pushing myself more and more towards physical fitness. I've been feeling much better, both physically and about my image. Any sub under my control would find herself facing the same kind of training. Though granted she'd also have some more curious exercises to undergo.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 7:15:07 AM

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Thank you to the Masters and Mistress who have replied. You give me hope of finding someone like you who will look past the extra pounds to the sub within and who would be there to assist me in creating a healthier body for both myself and them.
I *am* going to the gym and trying to eat better, but without the encouragement of another it is far too easy to find reasons not to go or to slip into bad eating habits.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 7:17:20 AM

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Hi,

My owner does. It is much easier for -me- to keep weight off because he does. He controls what I eat and the portion sizes. Junk food is not allowed in the house. I never carry cash on me(only company credit cards, so he knows exactly what gets spent and where) so I can't sneak junk food at work either. I have an approved feed list for breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks. It is low carb/low fat in origin.

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

Okay I am taking a big risk here, and I am not trying to start
another friggin fat thread.
Thus said, I am in the process of buying a bathing suit and getting
ready for a long, hot summer and many fun times in the pool.
Of course, I want/need to lose at least 10-15 pounds to feel more comfortable
in my bathing suit.
I wonder if it would be easier, IF I was a submissive and had a Master to help,
make and exert control over what I eat.
How many Masters {men and women} are able to enforce and control their
submissives weight and influence their dietary habits?
Thank you in advance, now let me eat a few more chips and find a cold brew.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 8:38:22 AM

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Well if one believes, as I do, in TOTAL Power Control then the answer is a YES. However, I have noticed that many people here may say that they believe that, but when push comes to shove their definition of TPE is far different than mine. At the present time I have two who are undergoing way different controls. One is a young girl who was (with her first Master) able to loose 100 lbs! That broke up and now with me she has lost another 40 lbs and is on target to anywhere between four to eight pounds per month till she gets down to a weight commensurate with her height. I have promised her that after she keeps her desired weight for a year or so that we will take her to a plastic surgeon for she has lots of loose skin.

The second case is a woman who weighed 140 when I met her a number of years ago and has gradually slimed down to a mere 100. I am force feeding her to make her gain weight. This case is far harder than the previous one for I have to tie her down after each meal and gag her too to make sure that she does not upchuck her food. Actually in some ways I hate this for her obsession with being think is forcing me to do things with her even when I don't feel like it and so the line between Master/slave gets a bit blurred.

So there you have it, the short and sweet answer is yes one can do it.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 8:46:10 AM

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I don't know...I guess it works for some but for me...I have to WANT to lose in order to be fully successful. Sure, encouragement is helpful, but weight is one of those things I think each person has to do for him or herself.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 8:59:27 AM

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of course!

how can you have any pudding if you don't eat your meat!!!!

Dominus Sancti,

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 9:23:09 AM

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my Master has a fairly rigid weight standard for me that must be maintained. although i've never been overweight and tend to fluctuate between slim-avg, he would like to very much keep it that way. He will not tolerate an overweight slave, nor will he tolerate a significantly underweight slave. my diet itself is not strict, but portion control is enforced. basically, i eat one half of what he eats (and he eats no more than the medically accepted average). He also developed a fitness regimen for me that i can do at home, incorporating cardio and free weight training. there is a time set aside 5 days out of the week for exercise.

i am so grateful to have a Master who 1. cares so much about my general physical well-being, and 2. has such high standards. knowing that he refuses to settle and will not claim or keep a slave who does not meet certain physical standards has actually been a boost to my self-esteem.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 9:23:48 AM

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LOL, BrutalMasterOne---I need you!!!
You are a very,very bad man--and I love it!

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 9:39:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia
How many Masters {men and women} are able to enforce and control their
submissives weight and influence their dietary habits?

I have contracted a "Weight Loss Contract" with slaves before that have detailed their diet and exercise regimen...if there is interest, I could be persuaded to hunt it down and post it.

That said, I have just recently lost about 25lbs myself, going on a diet program with my slave. We started the program together and I have found it is much easier for me to maintain control knowing that failing would not just mean failing myself, but failing my commitment to my slave.

I think a dominant should be able to control themselves before taking control of another, and physical fitness is just one aspect of control.

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 9:51:20 AM

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I don't see the big deal about weight control.Anyone can lose weight and keep it off ,not major secret how to do it or the need for a dom standing over you counting every calorie that you just ate.Just push away from the table leave some on your plate and in the first place take a smaller portion.Eat more veggies,drink more water and to to walk 30 minutes a day,be structured and the weight will so pass away...bounty

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RE: How many Dominants enforce weight control? - 6/3/2007 9:54:57 AM

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quote:

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I think a dominant should be able to control themselves before taking control of another, and physical fitness is just one aspect of control.

Taggard

Yes! yes yes yes!!!!! You know... its amazing how many people really don't "get it."

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