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ORIGINAL: MzMia
How many Masters {men and women} are able to enforce and control their submissives weight and influence their dietary habits?

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

There it is in a nut shell.they must WANT to lose wright..bounty

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty




I do look forward to having a Master/Husband who would encourage me to work out more and to eat healither, I am already in good shape, but if its something we do together or as a family then its more realistic, then it becomes an 'us' thing and not onesided.

I even got the curent top-type person in my life to compermise, I limit my soda intake anyways and I have been slowly working out more and more, yet, he is in great shape and getting in better, as long as I am healthy thats what matters, yet, his encouragement of 'try using weights while you are working out your legs' or  'try to drink cranberry juice instead of soda' or even the most subtle, 'if I didn't like what I see I would not look.' Good enough motivation for me. My goal is 12 hours a week working out in some fashion {including yoga}, right now, I have the motivation; he is controlling my weight, nope, its getting me back to being healither and to toning up. Positive encouragement works wonders.

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

Okay I am taking a big risk here, and I am not trying to start
another friggin fat thread.
 
However...... *laughs*

Thus said, I am in the process of buying a bathing suit and getting
ready for a long, hot summer and many fun times in the pool.
Of course, I want/need to lose at least 10-15 pounds to feel more comfortable
in my bathing suit.
I wonder if it would be easier, IF I was a submissive and had a Master to help,
make and exert control over what I eat.
How many Masters {men and women} are able to enforce and control their
submissives weight and influence their dietary habits?
Thank you in advance, now let me eat a few more chips and find a cold brew.

I would fully expect a woman submitting to me to follow a reasonably healthy lifestyle. That could include keeping track of her weight, having bloodwork done annually, eating well and getting some exercise. It doesn't mean she'd be expected to be an anorexic wreck or Miss Fitness USA contestant, though.

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ORIGINAL: SirKitty

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

There it is in a nut shell.they must WANT to lose wright..bounty

Hello BountyHunter,

But everyone in America WANTS to lose weight, (or do something to glorify YOUTH and not be a loser).

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ORIGINAL: Faramir

I don't ever talk about or engage in "weight control," "loosing weight" or anything that uses weight as a metric.  I think that is unhealthy, unproductive, and reflects an enfrnachisement in the sick rhetoric we have produced around our bodies and our health. 

The more someone talks and thinks in terms of "weight," "loosing pounds" and "dieting," the farther they move from health, and the physical beauty that springs from health.  I don't believe in conspiracies, but it almost makes you want to think there is one, a conspiracy of the "weigth loss industry" to make people sick, and hate their bodies in their sickness.

I have "enforced" health within a relationship before, but I would really say it was more like coaching, inculcating and modelling.  Health means functional, strong bodies, and a modality for eating that encompasses the rela purpose of food: to fuel us and to be a pleasure.  Food is wonderful--we all deserve to be fed, to be fed well, and to take pleasure in our food.  Once we turn away from the sickness of dieting, the sick, horrible self-loathing of denial, and instead eat joyfully, we can let go of the maladaptions around eating.  We can stop gorging, sneaking, starving, purging, junking, and start eating.

It's such a pleasure to see someone stop being sick, and start being healthy.  To train their bodies to be strong and powerful, and to eat with pleasure and purpose, and to be healthy. 

The impulse and desire to look good, to want to have a healthy, attractive body is good and wholesome.  We should have healthy, attractive bodies that reflect our wholeness and strength.  Form follows function, and once a person stops weighing themselves, and counting calories, and doing portion control, and all the sick, sick, ultimately suicidal tropes of the denial/loss culture, they can start to make their bodies healthy.

And once you are healthy, once you have made your body functionally powerful, you will find that your form reflects it, and you can stop denying, and permit yourself to be ok.

We were made to run, jump, twist, squat down, lift up, push and pull, and once that is pursued, you are on the road to health and beauty.