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RE: The term "Old guard" - 12/25/2010 4:58:08 PM   
hausboy


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

"old guard" was gay men drinking and fucking in bars, pissing on each other in back rooms and what killed it was contests, titles and the modern trappings of "leather".

Best writup about it is found in a book written by a leatherman in the late 1960s and published in early 1970s called The Leatherman's Handbook. The modern sanitized version of "old guard" makes it seem like something noble and all about formal rituals and all sorts of other modern trappings.

One thing it very much lacks is the silly fantasy of Gor and only someone desperate to try and generate status out of thin air and wrap themselves in some mythical history.


Yes, Michael, there was plenty of pissing, fucking, fisting, poppers and back alley posturing.  Some of my mentors in leather lived during those times, and the stories were buried with them.  But they also did talk about the subculture of men for which leather meant more than just a new raunchy way to get off.  Was the entire leather community like that? Of course not.  The "Mr. Bensons" were a fantasy.  But your "dismissal" of what I consider to be an important part of my (and your) history is not an accurate portrait either.

Title contests are a whole other topic, and while I personally believe they have outlived their usefulness--the community has proved itself to be quite adept at charitable fundraising and education, two of the key purposes titleholders served for many years, I would argue that the internet is far greater the culprit for the decline of the "glory days."  I don't believe Larry Townsend put the blame of the decline of the leather community on the shoulders of the sash bashes.

Today any troll with a credit card can buy themselves a whip, call themselves a Master, and "cybertop" slaves on the web. (I have not, and still do not, understand the whole "cyberplay" thing.)  I can't stand seeing tourists in the dungeons, and I don't like how "visible" the leatherworld is.   I've been in the leather community for just over 20 years--a drop in the bucket compared to many of my friends--and I was astonished at how the BDSM community changed once internet, cell phones and chat rooms came into view.

Someone claiming to be the real "Old Guard" today--unless they are in their 70's...is obviously not. They are instead embracing the tenets of Old Guard, just as those who follow1950's households but are not of that era, but are following what that time represented.   Gor is fantasy.  The world which gave us the Old Guard did exist in the physical flesh, and wherher you agree with what it stood for or not, it is leather history. So give it the respect it deserves. 

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RE: The term "Old guard" - 12/25/2010 6:15:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hausboy
quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
"old guard" was gay men drinking and fucking in bars, pissing on each other in back rooms and what killed it was contests, titles and the modern trappings of "leather".

Best writup about it is found in a book written by a leatherman in the late 1960s and published in early 1970s called The Leatherman's Handbook. The modern sanitized version of "old guard" makes it seem like something noble and all about formal rituals and all sorts of other modern trappings.

One thing it very much lacks is the silly fantasy of Gor and only someone desperate to try and generate status out of thin air and wrap themselves in some mythical history.

Yes, Michael, there was plenty of pissing, fucking, fisting, poppers and back alley posturing.  Some of my mentors in leather lived during those times, and the stories were buried with them.  But they also did talk about the subculture of men for which leather meant more than just a new raunchy way to get off.  Was the entire leather community like that? Of course not.  The "Mr. Bensons" were a fantasy.  But your "dismissal" of what I consider to be an important part of my (and your) history is not an accurate portrait either.

Title contests are a whole other topic, and while I personally believe they have outlived their usefulness--the community has proved itself to be quite adept at charitable fundraising and education, two of the key purposes titleholders served for many years, I would argue that the internet is far greater the culprit for the decline of the "glory days."  I don't believe Larry Townsend put the blame of the decline of the leather community on the shoulders of the sash bashes.

Today any troll with a credit card can buy themselves a whip, call themselves a Master, and "cybertop" slaves on the web. (I have not, and still do not, understand the whole "cyberplay" thing.)  I can't stand seeing tourists in the dungeons, and I don't like how "visible" the leatherworld is.   I've been in the leather community for just over 20 years--a drop in the bucket compared to many of my friends--and I was astonished at how the BDSM community changed once internet, cell phones and chat rooms came into view.

Someone claiming to be the real "Old Guard" today--unless they are in their 70's...is obviously not. They are instead embracing the tenets of Old Guard, just as those who follow1950's households but are not of that era, but are following what that time represented.   Gor is fantasy.  The world which gave us the Old Guard did exist in the physical flesh, and wherher you agree with what it stood for or not, it is leather history. So give it the respect it deserves. 

THANKS, hausboy!  Thanks for a well-written summarization.  I haven't had the time to write all my thoughts down, but if I did have the time, it would read very much as you have written. (People have probably been wondering "When will LanceHughes weigh in?)

Wish that my house was better formed at this time.  You'd be invited in a flash!

I agree with every word except one.

I feel I'm one of the last Old Guard Masters, but am a youthful 60 years old, so I disagree with the phrase "unless they are in their 70's..."  LOL!  (Others have written "60s or 70s.")

Others have mentioned the devasting effect of AIDS on the Leather community.  I didn't see that in your well-written, trying-to-summarize-it-all post.  So, I'll just add that point into the "what happened" section and say, "Good job, boy!"

I'm so very, very glad you and I will get to meet face-to-face in a few weeks!
I now anticipate our meeting more than before!

< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 12/25/2010 6:22:28 PM >


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RE: The term "Old guard" - 12/25/2010 6:41:34 PM   
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Yes, Michael, there was plenty of pissing, fucking, fisting, poppers and back alley posturing.  Some of my mentors in leather lived during those times, and the stories were buried with them.  But they also did talk about the subculture of men for which leather meant more than just a new raunchy way to get off.  Was the entire leather community like that? Of course not.  The "Mr. Bensons" were a fantasy.  But your "dismissal" of what I consider to be an important part of my (and your) history is not an accurate portrait either.

Title contests are a whole other topic, and while I personally believe they have outlived their usefulness--the community has proved itself to be quite adept at charitable fundraising and education, two of the key purposes titleholders served for many years, I would argue that the internet is far greater the culprit for the decline of the "glory days."  I don't believe Larry Townsend put the blame of the decline of the leather community on the shoulders of the sash bashes.

Today any troll with a credit card can buy themselves a whip, call themselves a Master, and "cybertop" slaves on the web. (I have not, and still do not, understand the whole "cyberplay" thing.)  I can't stand seeing tourists in the dungeons, and I don't like how "visible" the leatherworld is.   I've been in the leather community for just over 20 years--a drop in the bucket compared to many of my friends--and I was astonished at how the BDSM community changed once internet, cell phones and chat rooms came into view.

Someone claiming to be the real "Old Guard" today--unless they are in their 70's...is obviously not. They are instead embracing the tenets of Old Guard, just as those who follow1950's households but are not of that era, but are following what that time represented.   Gor is fantasy.  The world which gave us the Old Guard did exist in the physical flesh, and wherher you agree with what it stood for or not, it is leather history. So give it the respect it deserves. 


I suppose we're on opposite sides of this, frederich.  It's precisely due to the promotion of education that such title runs have a greater place in our community than ever before.  Without them, and the events they are associated with, what's left?  The very same folks who populate the net who attempt to fool the new and the young.

You do realize that our generation is pretty much over.  Shoot, if I weren't such a fool from a computer technology standpoint, I probably wouldn't even belong to it, Myself.  Have you ever sat back and thought to yourself how confusing it all must be?  If there was no visible leather community, how would folks know where to find the good information?  Those tourists that you speak of, I give them more credit than people who just create accounts on sites like this or just surf the web.  In a sense, we were tourists once, too.

You have to have some compromise in Michael's case.  Not all of his experiences with leather folks have been positive, so I can't blame him for his perspective.  He's not quite so cynical in real life.  Not in all cases.


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RE: The term "Old guard" - 12/25/2010 10:13:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hausboy

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

"old guard" was gay men drinking and fucking in bars, pissing on each other in back rooms and what killed it was contests, titles and the modern trappings of "leather".

Best writup about it is found in a book written by a leatherman in the late 1960s and published in early 1970s called The Leatherman's Handbook. The modern sanitized version of "old guard" makes it seem like something noble and all about formal rituals and all sorts of other modern trappings.



Yes, Michael, there was plenty of pissing, fucking, fisting, poppers and back alley posturing.  Some of my mentors in leather lived during those times, and the stories were buried with them.  But they also did talk about the subculture of men for which leather meant more than just a new raunchy way to get off.  Was the entire leather community like that? Of course not.  The "Mr. Bensons" were a fantasy.  But your "dismissal" of what I consider to be an important part of my (and your) history is not an accurate portrait either.



In short, its just like today, lots of idiots and a hand full of decent people, no better no worse. Frankly, as fucked up as the scene is today, I still think we are emotionally healthier on average that the scene in the "good ole days".

And just because I see the "old days" with truth rather than overly rose collared glasses, in no way means I don't respect those guys, I would have more in common with them than most of those who follow leather, claim to love old guard, and the rest.

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RE: The term "Old guard" - 12/25/2010 11:21:25 PM   
LadyPact


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Let Me inhale deeply and get out a big, long "Ahhhhhhh" because this place just wouldn't be nearly as fun without a good debate about different perspectives about leather.

It's not about seeing the subject through rose colored glasses.  At the same time, I don't want folks seeing the leather community through muck colored ones, either.  Like any other group of people, we've got good examples and bad examples.  I'll even admit that the bad examples tend to make a more lasting impression because lousy people suck no matter what they call themselves.  Still shouldn't mean that the good ones should just be swept under the rug.


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RE: The term "Old guard" - 12/26/2010 8:02:04 AM   
hausboy


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I suppose we're on opposite sides of this, frederich.  It's precisely due to the promotion of education that such title runs have a greater place in our community than ever before.  Without them, and the events they are associated with, what's left?  The very same folks who populate the net who attempt to fool the new and the young.

You do realize that our generation is pretty much over.  Shoot, if I weren't such a fool from a computer technology standpoint, I probably wouldn't even belong to it, Myself.  Have you ever sat back and thought to yourself how confusing it all must be?  If there was no visible leather community, how would folks know where to find the good information?  Those tourists that you speak of, I give them more credit than people who just create accounts on sites like this or just surf the web.  In a sense, we were tourists once, too.

You have to have some compromise in Michael's case.  Not all of his experiences with leather folks have been positive, so I can't blame him for his perspective.  He's not quite so cynical in real life.  Not in all cases.



I do understand your point--and just as we all bring our baggage to the forum in posts, there's my two carry-ons.  Here's my cards on the table--I'm a former titleholder (dual titles) and community educator.  I do agree that it's important to continue to educate one another about safety techniques, communication and such. At some point I just soured on the "let's make ourselves acceptable to the vanilla world movement."   What I loved about the title contests was the amount of charitable fundraising they did (do), but I soured on those too and dropped from the whole circuit after my title year from my own bad experiences.

So, truthfully, you're right---not quite fair to put down the "institution" of contests based on my own experience.  But I recall one event a few years back--they used to recognize all titleholders by bringing them up onstage.  By the time they were done, there were maybe 20 people left in the audience--usually partners/spouses of titleholders. Sometimes I just felt like--who are we really reaching here?

We were all novices once.  We used the term "tourist" to describe people who weren't into the leather scene, but found their way into a dungeon/play party and behaved like they were cruise ship passengers visiting some heathen tribe.  Even though everyone was required to read the house rules, the tourists were the ones who seemed to believe the rules didn't apply to them since they weren't "leather"....and often got bounced for bad behavior.

As for the internet--on the plus side, I'm sure it helps those "trapped" in towns where they can't find others, and allows them information access so that they don't feel alone or like a freak.  I'll buy that as a plus. But I also hate what the electronic age has done to communication.

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RE: The term "Old guard" - 12/26/2010 8:09:48 AM   
hausboy


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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes




I feel I'm one of the last Old Guard Masters, but am a youthful 60 years old, so I disagree with the phrase "unless they are in their 70's..."  LOL!  (Others have written "60s or 70s.")

Others have mentioned the devasting effect of AIDS on the Leather community.  I didn't see that in your well-written, trying-to-summarize-it-all post.  So, I'll just add that point into the "what happened" section and say, "Good job, boy!"

I'm so very, very glad you and I will get to meet face-to-face in a few weeks!
I now anticipate our meeting more than before!


Hausboy responds:
Whoops! Mea Culpa.  Absolutely--I'll remove the proverbial foot from my mouth on the age thing! 

And I only briefly alluded to it, but you're absolutely right.  AIDS destroyed the leather community.  It claimed entirely too many beautiful people, too soon.  I also saw drugs and alcohol destroy the lives of some very talented and good people--also gone long before their time.


< Message edited by hausboy -- 12/26/2010 8:10:43 AM >

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