thetammyjo
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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo [quote How you live, not a problem for me and I would be the first feminist to defend your choice. How you raise the next generation is a concern for the entire community because you create the next generation of citizens and as citizens we impact each other for better or worse. The "you" here isn't directed at an individual on this site but toward the video clip and the idea that we pass on sexist (racist or anything else) ideas and expectations to our offspring. That is the scariest post I have read on here in a long time. So, if I am understanding your position correctly, the "community" has a stake in how I raise my child? And what happens if the "community" is unhappy with my choices in child-rearing? Do they then take my child and instill in him the correct attitudes? How would they do that, exactly, without destroying any kind of familial bond between parents and children? "Well, young citizen, your parents are not instilling the correct values. Your ever-powerful and infallible government will now teach you the correct way to think. Until you can admit that what your parents did (teaching you that men, or whites, or christinas are superior) was abusive and wrong, you will not see them again, OK?" And I imagine that the offending parents would have to pass some kind of tolerance and diversity training to prove that they were capable of having the children returned and raised correctly? The training center should have the latest in medical, pharmacological and coercive techniques to insure that the parents truly BELIEVE that the community is right, and are not just faking it to get to see their kids again. Keep your hands off my kids, lady. I will raise my children as I see fit. As long as I am not abusive to them, I have the freedom to instill whatever values I see fit. And I don't believe that teaching children to be intolerant, racist or sexist to be abuse. I personally do not teach them to be racist, but I do teach them that the husband and father is the leader of the family. And I DO teach them to be intolerant of idiotic ideas, whether they be religious or political. Once you start saying that the community (and does that mean the neighborhood, the city, the county, the state, the federal government?) has an obligation or duty to teach children the politically correct attitudes, you destroy the integrity of the family, you usurp the parents' authority, and it is a short trip from there to re-education centers and mandatory child-rearing laws. Wow you sure are taking my comments personally. I think you are also reading a lot into them. Are you saying that community doesn't matter? That future citizens are unimportant to communities? That everything that happens in the "family home" is someone separate from what happens in the world around it? That's sadly and exceedingly naive. It also completely undermines your above idea that it would be ok for someone to step in if you are abusing your children. Who do you think determines that if not the community around you? The community you live in (whether or not you want to believe you are part of it) has a deep effect on your family and on you. You and your family in turn will have an effect on it. To believe otherwise is simply a fantasy.
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