robertolapiedra
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ORIGINAL: MzMia What is too young to be a submissive? I wonder about men in their 40's/50's/60's taking up with these tender young women in their early 20's. They are so young and impressionable, especially if they are only 18. Would you want your daughter 19, moving in and becoming a slave to a man of 50? Let's hear it. Hello MzMia. I personally like women near their forties. I like younger women, older women but not in the context of a relationship, any type of relationship. The real question is why a young eighteen year old wants to be with a 50-60...100 year old. Being 54, I resent these 50+ numbers. In other cultures, 10-15 years difference in age difference when one is very young, is acceptable (16-18). Some cultures push it to 20 years difference without setting off the "age alarm". This is what goes on in the "majority" of cultures. I wish "youth" oriented cultures would get this: we are a minority on this planet. Based on this, I wonder why the focus on the alleged "predation" on the "innocence" (?!!) of youth wanting a "deviant" lifestyle? If the young one is 18, and one day she wants to sub to a 38 year old, is it any better than 50? I wonder what goes on in the 12 years of difference that would make a 50 yer old more of a "threat" than when he/she was 38 and in a relationship with an 18 year old? When you are 18, and being taken advantage by an 19 year old, it is ok? No, it is definitely not "ok". At 50? "same" thing, not worse. I am a father, if I had a relationship with a 29 year old, would it be ok? My daughter is that age. When I'm 75, if I am in a relationship with a 50 year old, it is ok? after all, it is a quarter century difference! And it still would be with someone the same age as my oldest daughter. Why is it in these scenarios, it always concerns the 18 year old "innocent" female submissive"? does the "18 year old domme over a 50 year old" even exist? Why does it seem so "impossible" that a 18 year old could be the one who is "taking advantage" over the 50 year old? I find this thread maybe has six thingies going all at once. In my humble opinion, 18 year old kinky girls are not "that innocent" in the first place. When you get older, it does not mean you are becoming predatory. When you are young, it does not mean you are a "goodie two shoes". But, when you have great age difference between the "mature" and the twenties? Automatic red flags? "Would you want your daughter 19, moving in and becoming the slave to a man of 50?" No, but if she was the "domme"... well ok! (In "reality", my daughter is the dominant in her relationship, she is the boss). But, it would still be none of my business. Prejudice is prejudice, even when it is a majoritiy view that suits "me". Peer "validation" of prejudice is bull shit. It used to be sex (same sex), religion, race warranted "validation" openly. We still have to work on "age", I find. I mean "work"! Is anyone here "really" looking for a "social convention" concerning legal age difference? In this lifestyle? Seems a bit "vanilla" to me. Just an opinion. RL.
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