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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/25/2007 11:37:48 AM

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It just doesnt make sense... that's all..

The justification is that pro-dommes use is that they think they should get paid because it is her time, her stuff, and her experience... A male dom aslo gives his time, his stuff, and his experience yet you never see male doms on here complain about dead-beat female subs.

Im not going to go as far as say it is prostitution.... It's just plain greed.

Dont beat around the bush. If you are after money...fine. But dont try to justify it becaue no one is going to believe that crap. You think it is payment for a "service?" Let me ask you this....are you paying taxes off those earnings? I'm willing to bet the vast majority of pro-dommes never report their earnings from this. The IRS would have a field day if they knew about this stuff. Oh...."it's a gift?" Since when is demanding compensation for a providing a "service" considered a "gift?"

I mean can we please just for a minute call a duck a duck?

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/25/2007 11:51:05 AM

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I mean can we please just for a minute call a duck a duck?

Can we please just for a minute call a whiner a whiner?

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/25/2007 12:09:10 PM

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Like it or not, It is a form of prostitution.

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/25/2007 12:13:25 PM

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Now that we are all informed of the concept, what have we learned from this?

LOL...........

Y'all need to just give this shit up. I gotta guess we could have feature films on our profiles if the space to piss and moan about tributes in threads was removed.

And it don't change nothing. Live in the world you find yourself in. Sandbox is big enough for everybody, you don't do tribute? Ain't no law against that.

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/25/2007 12:17:09 PM

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*yawn*

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/25/2007 1:25:31 PM

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It just doesnt make sense... that's all..

The justification is that pro-dommes use is that they think they should get paid because it is her time, her stuff, and her experience... A male dom aslo gives his time, his stuff, and his experience yet you never see male doms on here complain about dead-beat female subs.

Im not going to go as far as say it is prostitution.... It's just plain greed.

Dont beat around the bush. If you are after money...fine. But dont try to justify it becaue no one is going to believe that crap. You think it is payment for a "service?" Let me ask you this....are you paying taxes off those earnings? I'm willing to bet the vast majority of pro-dommes never report their earnings from this. The IRS would have a field day if they knew about this stuff. Oh...."it's a gift?" Since when is demanding compensation for a providing a "service" considered a "gift?"

I mean can we please just for a minute call a duck a duck?

RFL and agreeing with stef about the whiner being a whiner.....but I have a solution for you, you listening? If the male doms don't seem like that to you, and the females are (hell I know I would charge you just to have to listen to ya, but then.....) just switch up and ask a male dom to beat your ass....bet you he would want to charge your whiny ass too, but then again, try it and see, and make sure you let us know!!!!!

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/25/2007 1:33:44 PM

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Desirable subs will not have trouble finding femdom partners and not paying them. Desirable subs also have more opportunities to date and locate open minded women to introduce kink to. Every time I have met a sub with his act together, he has no complaints that you hear so much around here.

The less desirable a sub, the more likely he will have to pay for it. Sadly, some subs are so undesirable, even pros won't take them as clients.

So when I see guys here complaining that they are bitter that they have to pay, I realize that they have to pay for a reason. You don't see quality subs who are attractive and have a good attitude on here complaining about having to pay. They are out there having all the fun.

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/25/2007 4:07:35 PM

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I don't know either... you owe me $1.25 for that reply. All major credit cards & paypal accepted

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/25/2007 7:08:20 PM

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Too many flakes .....need to see who is serious and who is just playing online.!!!

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/26/2007 5:57:38 AM

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Desirable subs will not have trouble finding femdom partners and not paying them. Desirable subs also have more opportunities to date and locate open minded women to introduce kink to. Every time I have met a sub with his act together, he has no complaints that you hear so much around here.

The less desirable a sub, the more likely he will have to pay for it. Sadly, some subs are so undesirable, even pros won't take them as clients.

So when I see guys here complaining that they are bitter that they have to pay, I realize that they have to pay for a reason. You don't see quality subs who are attractive and have a good attitude on here complaining about having to pay. They are out there having all the fun.

Akasha

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/26/2007 6:31:45 AM

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It is the job of the sub to make sure that all needs of his/her Dominant are met and attended to. Period. If that is financial, then so be it. I know of several female subs that work so that their Dom's can go back to school, sit at home and watch foot ball, what ever. So I ask...wheres the fight for their cause? Do you hear them bitch and complain? I havent heard word one from any of them. And I dont think I ever will.
It is in a womans nature to be more giving than it is in the nature of a man to give even a little. True male subs are impossible to find.

Yes, asking for tribute is a way of weeding out the flakes.
But, In reality, even under the exterior of Female Supremacy is a woman wanting to know that she will be taken care of. That just being near her is enough of a pleasure and enough of joy that she will be treated as a Queen. You want to bitch about having to pay, heres a lil secret for you, Financial Domination is on the rise. Men want to give that control to women, they realize that as the actual weaker sex that they are given to impulse buying and spending trends that need control. Also for a man to give up control of their money is much harder than it is for a woman. In times gone past it was nothing for a woman to give all of her money to a man, be he Dom, or what have you...But men as subs want to limit the control they give, then say that they are into TPE...not likely.

Honest to God, knowing that subs want to bitch about giving ALL control to their Domme's makes most of us, well me anyway, hesitant to take any form of control.

Male Doms expect women to give over Mind Body and Soul, to bend and break to do the smallest things, from licking feet to anal sex, the most humiliating tasks that they can come up with, which is fine all well and good. Because that is what fem submissives want. I dont hear you whining about that? Wheres the complaint for the women that never have a kind word said to them, yet get ass raped about 100 times a day? Wheres the pleading for their cause?

My advice? 1) Get a job. 2) Realize that if you want to bitch about the amount of control you give, decide that you may in fact be a switch and not a sub/slave. 3) Know that a woman expects to be taken care of, Even in a vanilla relationship...and 4) Get over it. You made the choice to be a sub. You may sit back and say well...I knew since I was 2 that I wanted a woman in control over me...Obviously you want to limit that and there by only limit yourself.

Oh yes and 5) Understand that one persons kink may not be your kink and you can negotiate your terms and you always have the CHOICE to walk away. This life is about choices.

But then there is always some one in the bunch that has to bitch because they didnt get what they want, which in general means they didnt follow thru...they met some Domme that they just couldnt be with out and when she said...Give Me this or Get Me that...He said....wait...I cant...and when she said...well...then..go on...He wanted to resort to the lowest form of insult he could find..."Well youre nothing more than a hooker"

Typical. Men see sex as a weapon and use the term prostitution to try and get what they want...lame. Really.

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/26/2007 7:08:29 AM

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i for one love giving money in tribute, for me its part of the whole package. that doesnt neccesarily mean a pro domme. i need to provide for her.

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/26/2007 8:50:15 AM

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i for one love giving money in tribute, for me its part of the whole package. that doesnt neccesarily mean a pro domme. i need to provide for her.

good attiude!

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 10/26/2007 8:51:57 AM

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i for one love giving money in tribute, for me its part of the whole package. that doesnt neccesarily mean a pro domme. i need to provide for her.

good attiude!

thankyou!

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 1/19/2008 9:21:10 PM

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OK, here's the Libertarian answer: Dommes charge because they can, and because the subs are willing to pay. If male doms were in high demand, and female subs were in plentiful supply and willing to be dominated by just about any male who called himself a dom, then male doms would be able to charge for their "services" too.

The original question in this forum makes no more sense than asking why doctors charge, or why they charge so much more than hair stylists. They do it because people (or, actually in the case of doctors, insurance companies) are willing to pay them that much.

Anyone who is able and willing to provide a service for which other people are willing to pay, has every right to charge a fee. If a domme is asking for too much money and providing a service that isn't worth that much to enough people, then she'll have to lower her rates or go out of business. That's the way it works, and that's the way it's supposed to work.

If you don't want to pay the domme, then don't. No one is forcing you.

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 1/19/2008 9:54:54 PM

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well if you're desperate enough to want someone so badly that you're willing to pay for it, more power to you. otherwise, look elsewhere. i've never asked for "tribute". for those who are into that, enjoy!

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 1/19/2008 10:01:12 PM

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Finally someone that is logical.... thank you ...I am always amazed at the complaints when it is so easy to just say NO

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 1/21/2008 8:39:38 PM

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well if you're desperate enough to want someone so badly that you're willing to pay for it, more power to you. otherwise, look elsewhere. i've never asked for "tribute". for those who are into that, enjoy!

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Wow, I know this topic has been beaten to death (no pun intended) but I have to speak up here. I do not see believe that choosing to pay a tribute or seek out a ProDomme shows desperation nor should it be taken in a negative light. I adore each and every one of my subs that show their appreciation to me via tribute. I do not do what I do out of need for money, but I do need the tribute to pay for time, expenses, travel, etc. Persons seek out Pro's to serve because they have a specific need and I cater to this whole heartedly and in now way look down on my subs nor see them as desperate. I have a personal connection with all that I allow to serve me and would call each and every one a dear friend. You may ask do I ask for tribute from my friends, yes I do. Maybe not monitary, but I do expect them all to show me appreciation for my training them as well. My subs enjoy doing things for me and showing their appreciation in such ways.

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 1/22/2008 10:06:01 PM

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It shows you are serious about serving ... establishing a form of control... and Why wouldnt you want too?

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RE: why do MISTRESSES ask for tributes ? - 1/23/2008 11:08:31 AM

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It just doesnt make sense... that's all..

The justification is that pro-dommes use is that they think they should get paid because it is her time, her stuff, and her experience... A male dom aslo gives his time, his stuff, and his experience yet you never see male doms on here complain about dead-beat female subs.

Im not going to go as far as say it is prostitution.... It's just plain greed.

I mean can we please just for a minute call a duck a duck?

Incentives: Booty, Money, etc..

What's there to complain about? Male doms don't complain much because usually they "do" receive something back for all their time, experience and stuff: her vagina. :)

However, one may hear a complaint or two from a male dom if, after giving all his time, stuff and experience to her, she simply thanks him and walks out the door.
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