Owner4SexSlave
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Ummmm.. Shared how? Shared in the same room as your master? Loaned out to some stranger for a week? Basically this enters the area of swinging more less. Even swinging don't swing with every tom, dick and jayne there is. Well sure you'll probally grow from this experience! However, you just might grow in directions your Master is not expecting you to, to the point of leaving his ass. Then again it could bring you two closer together. Both cases are something both you and him should explore mentally before doing this. Hell, nobody on this message board is able to give you the true insight you need about this. Basically, some people's kinks are not others. What is good for somebody may not good for everybody. In terms of the growth aspects, this is a question you should be asking him. Sharing and swinging can be an activity where people can grow from it, however it can also quickly be a bitter poison to the relationship. If your master is the one who said you would grow from it, ask him how. If he can't come up with a honest answer that makes sense, then chances are he's full of shit and has not given any honest thought to how it will help you grow. I could sit here and tell you my thoughts about how this activity would help you grow, but this is my mindset, my thoughts and not his. I vote you should put him to the acid test, and ask him this question about how it will help you grow. If you get back a mysterious answer full of bullshit, without a straight answer. I would really think twice about your Masters thought process and how experienced your master really is.
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