GhitaAmati
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~FR~ I saw someone mention something up there about understand the "your kink may not be my kink" thing, but still gave the advice not to do it. The same post made mention about sometimes fantasies should be realized if they cant be realized safely. I truly believe it is possible to participate in gun play safely. Sure there are risks, but there are risks in sky diving and driving on a saturday night around 2am when the bars empty. You gather all the knowledge you can possible gather, you take all precautions you possibly can, and unlike sky diving and driving, you actually CAN control all the factors. On the road you cant control what some drunk idiot is going to do behind the wheel, but in your bedroom you can. It is possible to get a stageprop weapon, it is possible to "demill" an actual weapon, it is possible to not use any ammo at all, or to use demilled ammo as well. We do not engage in gun play, I have one time in a previous relationship and as I stated before, trust me it was not very risk aware and a good part of the reason the realtionship is no longer. I have in my home over 50 firearms. Anytime I was to take one out to do anything with, whether it is to shoot an animal that is destroying my garden or attacking my livestock, or to go to the range for target practice, or down to the VFW for a turkey shoot, or out into the woods to hunt, or just for routine maintenance and cleaning. The very first thing I am going to do is take it apart and check to see if it s loaded, and what its loaded with. The instant someone else hands me a firearm of theirs, even if they state adamently that they already unloaded it, Im going to check to verify that myself. Before I fire any weapon I am going to be damn sure whats in the chanber, make sure nothing that isnt supposed to be in there is, and make sure the correct type of ammo is. Im gonna pretty damn sure what position the safety is in, and Im gonna be damn sure of not only what Im aiming at, but whats behind what Im aiming at....All of these things and more are basic common sense (and yet not so common) rules for handling a weapon. Im not going to throw all that knowlede and habit out the window because Im using a weapon in bed instead of the woods. Anyone who doesnt have the knowledge and common sense to use any weapon safetly, should not be handling it at all. I believe whole heartedly that this type of play can be done safely, and I also applaud anyone considering it as a fantasy to go out and search for any and all knowledge and training they can possibly get. The more knowledge they gain, the more they are goingn to realize either how to do it safetly, or that unless they can do it safelty, its a fantasy that needs to be shelved. Most of what has been discussed on this thread is about guns and whether they can be made safe or not....I think it also needs to be dicussed more thoroughly excatly how much of a mind fuck this can be. A few others have made comments about mentally not being able to handle a situation like this. During something like this, you better damn well know your partner, and be willing to stop at any signs of a problem. Fight or flight fear can really take a person by surprise, and lead to all sorts of reactions you werent expecting.
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I said I was a submissive, I never said I was a GOOD submissive. Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as far as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good. ~Woody Allen
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