LadyLynx
Posts: 1098
Joined: 7/24/2007 Status: offline
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I write to subs male and female consistantly. Some reply back, alot don't some are nice, some are snarky. (had this one young lady, who listed as 'bisexual' inform me that she wasn't attracted to women, then threatened to curse me. huh all I said was 'Blessed Be') youngsubgeoff, your young, finding someone that suits your needs and wants takes time. it all depends on your criteria.( Boy I am sure getting alot of milage outta that word this week, and all having to do with roughly the same topic!) like where are you looking,monogamus,polyamourous, bisexual (you or her.)sadist, etc etc. the list could go on and on. And alot of times, the more you add to it, the harder it can be to find a good match. My Advice to you is: Hook up with your local community if you have one. even if you have to drive a ways. Most bdsm communities have munches, classes/workshops,public play parties, and other such events. While internet can be a good place to look, it only goes so far. Widen your horizons, be respectful of others, (when going to a munch or play party find out what rules if any that you need to know!) Good Luck!
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Our community maybe openminded as a whole, but it is still made up of individuals who bring in their own opinions,baggage and agendas! Known as SwitchWitch in my local community,and on IRC Bondage. I also go by the nic SwitchWitch on MDS.
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