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RE: "service" - 10/31/2007 4:33:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MystressDream

It is the relationship that is important to most of us, not the orgasm.


Conversely, it is the relationship that is most important to the malesub, not the service. We are basically reinforcing each others point.

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I add my voice to those Mistress's who are sick of the "I am a sexslave only. I am an expert at giving oral satisfaction". Sorry.... but few "sex slaves" can accomplish much more than what we already have available in a nightstand.


Bonding to one's Mistress is the goal of malesub. Also, a man wants a woman who values intimacy over chores.

One might argue that sex is about connectedness, not orgasm. Hence, the device in your drawer is not directly comparable to a human partner. An orgasm can be bonding too, as opposed to just an individual experience of pleasure.

A guy usually feels closer to a woman based on physical intimacy as opposed to raking her leaves. The former in no way excludes the later, but its a sad world to think intimacy is bartered for service and visa versa. That pretty much throws connectedness out the window.

< Message edited by cloudboy -- 10/31/2007 4:44:02 PM >

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