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ORIGINAL: RaynaSub

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ORIGINAL: Petronius

Lots of people, Dom and sub both, have their dungeons located in NeverNeverLand.

I agree with Petronius on this one.
Reality is not what many people seek around here.

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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

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ORIGINAL: InnocentYoungSub

I'm ugly, I'm fat, i'm short, I don't have very much money at all, no car...

But I got high hopes. ;)

LOL.

Someday I'll be hot shit...someday.

Somewhere on the planet is a short, chubby, rather plain but very economical Domina who likes public transport and She will rock your world. You two will be crazy about eachother.  There's someone for everyone :)

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ORIGINAL: RaynaSub

I agree, but technically there is no rule book stating that people
can't create new profiles to state their opinions.

It may not be what you would do, but we are all free to do as we like on here.
We are free to do good things, bad things, and things others may not agree with.
It does not bother me, if someone wants to create a new profile every day to state
a new opinion.
It is their right and not much of my concern.

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle


 
They seek a guy who’s handsome, healthy and successful in vanilla life, yet is absolutely submissive behind closed doors. 
 
He will dedicate his body, mind and soul to her pleasure, comfort and happiness and make absolutely no demands, have no expectations, no specific desires of his own.  Yet he’s not a doormat.
 
He’s strong, secure in himself, intelligent and has a sense of humor, yet is not a SAM and he knows his place at her feet.  And he never "tops from the bottom."
 
He’s able and eager to support her in the lifestyle to which she is or wishes to become accustomed.  He has pictures on his profile, or sends them in his first letter, even though many of them don’t.  He writes a detailed, non copy/pasted letter of introduction to each domina he contacts, even though most of them never respond.  He never mentions what his kinks are in this letter, because he knows it’s “all about her” even though he has no clue as to what hers are from her profile.  Where he finds the time to do this while being successful and driven in his business life, I don’t know.
 

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ORIGINAL: MissAndry
I know what I'm looking for.
I also have faith that Im strong enough in myself, that even if what I want does not exist, I will at least have the pleasure of knowing I have never settled for anything less than what I really wanted.

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ORIGINAL: Bloodrose88

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle


 
They seek a guy who’s handsome, healthy and successful in vanilla life, yet is absolutely submissive behind closed doors. 
 
He will dedicate his body, mind and soul to her pleasure, comfort and happiness and make absolutely no demands, have no expectations, no specific desires of his own.  Yet he’s not a doormat.
 
He’s strong, secure in himself, intelligent and has a sense of humor, yet is not a SAM and he knows his place at her feet.  And he never "tops from the bottom."
 
He’s able and eager to support her in the lifestyle to which she is or wishes to become accustomed.  He has pictures on his profile, or sends them in his first letter, even though many of them don’t.  He writes a detailed, non copy/pasted letter of introduction to each domina he contacts, even though most of them never respond.  He never mentions what his kinks are in this letter, because he knows it’s “all about her” even though he has no clue as to what hers are from her profile.  Where he finds the time to do this while being successful and driven in his business life, I don’t know.
 

Hmm, well, if I were to change the [he] to [she]....
I am relatively attractive, healthy and definitely on my way to success in life.  I am definitely submissive...
For the right Domme, I would dedicate my soul, body and mind.  She would always come first.  And yet I am no doormat.
I am strong, secure in myself, intelligent, with a definite sense of humor.  I am not a SAM; I know my place.
I have several pictures in my profile.  I always write custom letters, telling a potential Domme about myself and commenting on things I found interesting in her profile.  I don't tell her my kinks...if she wants to know, she will ask.

OMG!  I am the perfect submissive, and I didn't even realize it until this point!  Hurrah for me!

Btw, I will give you lessons if you want :)

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ORIGINAL: ineedotk
I've seen this term used before.  What is a "SAM"?

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ORIGINAL: MissyRane
just in case you're wondering then I'm the girl everybody's been looking for and the ones who don't want me simply have a bad taste! but anyhow that's just my opinion  so who's the lucky guy everybody's looking for? come on don't be shy, stand up! staaand up!
..i am so full of shit..my bad

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HarryVanWinkle
<<<<<<<< SAM= Smart Assed Masochist.  In the dictionary you'll see that picture over there beside the term.

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

I think most of the women who post on collarme are looking for submissive husbands that have good incomes, and who can support them. They are quite traditional except that they want to be the boss of the house -- and when you think about it, that's nothing unusual except for the spankings. Most women are the boss anyway. It's not easy finding a mistress who is into NSA, but I have found a few at Craigslist. It takes some work though.

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ORIGINAL: hammerthrower

Wow.

I appreciate the fact that you took Statistics 101, but your number are truly baseless. It's so futile to pursue this approach.

But I'll tell you what:

Take your little calculator, and go browse the posts for dominant women. Then do the same for submissive men. Take note of the disparities.

Then, crunch us some numbers about the ratios of available dominant women to available submissive men.

Post those for us, with your analyses.

No one's ever really done a formal study on this, so it may shed some light on why the topic is so bitterly fought over, and why there's so much resentment in the community over this.

I'm sure your well-performed study will reveal that the women can afford to be picky: they are assuming that, if there's SO many available men, why not wait for the best to rise to the top.

That vein of thought tends to prove that they are all looking for the same guy.

See what you can come up with.

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba
I think most of the women who post on collarme are looking for submissive husbands that have good incomes, and who can support them. They are quite traditional except that they want to be the boss of the house -- and when you think about it, that's nothing unusual except for the spankings. Most women are the boss anyway. It's not easy finding a mistress who is into NSA, but I have found a few at Craigslist. It takes some work though.

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OK, now for the bad news. I am married and have to keep all of this discreet. If that's OK with you then we have something to talk about. Being a submissive is a need of mine that can't be satisfied within the confines of my present relationship.
I do want to find someone for more than just a one timer, but of course we must keep our relationship private and discreet.

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle


They seek a guy who’s handsome, healthy and successful in vanilla life, yet is absolutely submissive behind closed doors.

He will dedicate his body, mind and soul to her pleasure, comfort and happiness and make absolutely no demands, have no expectations, no specific desires of his own. Yet he’s not a doormat.

He’s strong, secure in himself, intelligent and has a sense of humor, yet is not a SAM and he knows his place at her feet. And he never "tops from the bottom."

He’s able and eager to support her in the lifestyle to which she is or wishes to become accustomed. He has pictures on his profile, or sends them in his first letter, even though many of them don’t. He writes a detailed, non copy/pasted letter of introduction to each domina he contacts, even though most of them never respond. He never mentions what his kinks are in this letter, because he knows it’s “all about her” even though he has no clue as to what hers are from her profile. Where he finds the time to do this while being successful and driven in his business life, I don’t know.