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Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 12:40:16 AM

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Having read hundreds of profiles belonging to dominant women here, it seems like half of them have been copied and pasted from one another.

They seek a guy who’s handsome, healthy and successful in vanilla life, yet is absolutely submissive behind closed doors.

He will dedicate his body, mind and soul to her pleasure, comfort and happiness and make absolutely no demands, have no expectations, no specific desires of his own. Yet he’s not a doormat.

He’s strong, secure in himself, intelligent and has a sense of humor, yet is not a SAM and he knows his place at her feet. And he never "tops from the bottom."

He’s able and eager to support her in the lifestyle to which she is or wishes to become accustomed. He has pictures on his profile, or sends them in his first letter, even though many of them don’t. He writes a detailed, non copy/pasted letter of introduction to each domina he contacts, even though most of them never respond. He never mentions what his kinks are in this letter, because he knows it’s “all about her” even though he has no clue as to what hers are from her profile. Where he finds the time to do this while being successful and driven in his business life, I don’t know.

I hate to be the one to tell you this, Ladies, but of all the submissive men I know, only one even comes close to this. And he’s already taken.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 12:52:35 AM

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so the purpose of your post is what?

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 12:58:46 AM

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So that maybe some will realize how unrealistic their expectations are.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 1:00:46 AM

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Hmmmmmmmmmmm and yet all Dommes on here are inundated with emails from subs/slaves every day.

I hate to be the one to tell you this, Ladies, but of all the submissive men I know, only one even comes close to this. And he’s already taken.

You must be very popular, to know so many submissive men. Almost all of them in fact. Lucky you.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 1:04:10 AM

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So that maybe some will realize how unrealistic their expatations are.

Thanks, but I have zero faith that your premise is even remotely true for all Dommes and would seriously ponder why I would take advice from someone who's sole purpose in posting is to spread their bitterness.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 1:08:20 AM

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Is it just me, or this is a combination of dramatization, scammers, and resonable expectations all mixed up into one? I mean...If you make things general enough, you'll hit most profiles.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 1:24:48 AM

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Thanks, but I have zero faith that your premise is even remotely true for all Dommes and would seriously ponder why I would take advice from someone who's sole purpose in posting is to spread their bitterness.

First, I never said anything about it being remotely true for all dominas. I said, "it seems like half of them," speaking only of those who have profiles on this site. I'll admit the "half" was slightly exagerated. But only slightly.

Second, your profile doesn't look at all like those I was writing of, so I wasn't "advising" you. What about my post makes you so bitter?

Third, I'm not in the least bit bitter. I'm... amused... at the differences I see between people in the real life community, of which I am an active member, and those in the so called, "online community," many of whom I am convinced are spending their lives hiding behind their computers, searching for something they are unlikely ever to find.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 1:26:50 AM

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Is this not the topic of your post? Dominas ALL looking for the exact same guy.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 1:31:42 AM

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Is this not the topic of your post? Dominas ALL looking for the exact same guy.

Well, actually, it was Dominas all (lower case, not bold, not underlined) looking for the exact same guy. And it certainly wasn't ALL Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. I refer you again to the first sentence of the OP.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 2:14:57 AM

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I refer you to the title of the thread, cut and pasted, so no mistakes:

Ask a Mistress >> Dominas all looking for the exact same guy.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 4:26:42 AM

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Either you're gloating or you're being a dick, neither one is very attractive.

I can't say your generalization applies. Try again, would you?

On second though, never mind.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 5:05:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

I refer you to the title of the thread, cut and pasted, so no mistakes:

Ask a Mistress >> Dominas all looking for the exact same guy.

OMG i never realised this..... The queue forms to the right

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 5:11:44 AM

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So do you think that Dommes in the r/t scene are attracted to ugly, sickly, dumb, broke guys who are only dedicated to themselves and their own kinks and grunt as a means of introducing themselves?

I think there's more than one person around here who needs to get real....

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 5:17:53 AM

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So do you think that Dommes in the r/t scene are attracted to ugly, sickly, dumb, broke guys who are only dedicated to themselves and their own kinks and grunt as a means of introducing themselves?

I think there's more than one person around here who needs to get real....

lol-- that isn't what I am attracted to but that sure is a lot of what messages me!

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 6:16:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: laurell3
Is this not the topic of your post? Dominas ALL looking for the exact same guy.

Well, actually, it was Dominas all (lower case, not bold, not underlined) looking for the exact same guy. And it certainly wasn't ALL Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. I refer you again to the first sentence of the OP.

Ok Clinton, the semantics game doesn't change what is in writing, which is what you typed. I think you're intelligent enough to see the issue and I'm not going to argue with you about it. For me personally, you are dead wrong.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 6:23:53 AM

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So that maybe some will realize how unrealistic their expectations are.

That's what you think...

Diane

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 6:33:49 AM

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Perved My profile lately?

There are thousands of profiles on collarme...you can not simply make assumptions from a few. And how long did it take you to perv "hundreds"???

And besides...so what if a Domina has expectations, if that's what She wants then darn it, that's what She wants!

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 6:39:28 AM

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hmmm Ok, let me see if I understand this. You enter the Ask a Mistress forum and make a blanket statement about ALL Dominant women that is unflattering and then are baffled as to why they would be offended.

Perhaps you are not as bright as you think.

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 7:01:49 AM

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I quess you haven't looked at my profile then because everything you have said, not one of those things is in my profile.

SM

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RE: Dominas all looking for the exact same guy. - 10/27/2007 7:39:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

So that maybe some will realize how unrealistic their expatations are.

Thanks, but I have zero faith that your premise is even remotely true for all Dommes and would seriously ponder why I would take advice from someone who's sole purpose in posting is to spread their bitterness.

Oh, I didn't take it as bitterness, I was chuckling right along with him :)

Actually, he left out the part for those looking for a free live in handy man or care giver.

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