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RE: Finding A Mistress - 1/8/2006 10:45:55 AM

veronicaofML

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Where does it say that a Domme cant be courteous.....

Respect and good manners begets respect and good manners.
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where does it say? no where...........BUT since "I" am old school...a generation that grew up with the ideal...do your job and dont ask for a pat on the back for it...
by your picture...i'd say I am old enough to be your grandfather...doesnt look like you are old enough to be dry behind the ears yet..let alone old enough to shave..\

just like MY generation grew up with respect your elders...and if ya dont have enough sense to do THAT I'll damned sure teach ya respect for your betters...out behind the barn.

manners differ from place to place.
MY clan kinsmen...burping is a compliment to the cook...but SOME snotty people think it is rude...SOOOOOOO
when ya discuss manners...make sure ya know who's front porch you are standing on before ya open yer mouth...

take care

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RE: Finding A Mistress - 1/8/2006 12:53:43 PM

seaturtle50

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Hello All,

I do not really have any more of an opinion to offer on this but was moved to say to TiNeedsHousboy, that from your written word, you seem to be an entirely attractive Woman.

Thank you

Michael

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RE: Finding A Mistress - 1/9/2006 4:27:31 AM

Oumae

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Dave, there are some good munches and events near you, you can find a list of them on informedconsent.co.uk

I'd advise you to go to them and get known as someone genuinely looking and am sure you'll make friends who will help you along the way.

Oumae

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RE: Finding A Mistress - 1/9/2006 7:01:30 AM

MsCece2u

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Boy talking about this post running a gamut of emotions and discussions. But to give My opinion on the topic. Like another Domme mentioned I have sent notes to both Dominants and submissives if I spent some time trolling the profiles if something caught My eye or attention. However I always feel that if a submissive makes the initial contact I can tell if he or she actually read My profile which is always undergoing changes and improvements as I discover more about Me on a daily basis.

If you truly want to find your One then look at yourself and see where you can improve. Are you willing to take classes or learn things that She needs or desires. Is your profile and email exchanges well written and thought provoking or is it all about you and what you need. Think about it.

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RE: Finding A Mistress - 11/30/2006 2:19:33 PM

pinkkeith

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After reading over this topic: http://www.collarchat.com/m_704495/tm.htm I don't know if I want to respond to any profile. Just kidding.

I use to feel the same way, that I should sit back and wait for the dom/me to find me. Yet, like another poster said, there is a difference between being submissive and being passive. As I grown a little wiser and gained more confidence in myself, I do approach others more so then I use to. Once I can get my own profile written and prepared to a point where I'm proud of it and if I find someone else's profile that moves me, I'll respond to it.

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RE: Finding A Mistress - 12/3/2006 1:57:44 PM

skiesel93

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To tell my truth, here is what I think you submissive men who are anguished over not finding a female dominant should do. Find local play parties within 50 miles of where you live, and go to them. You can practice being social in a BDSM environment, meet actual real dominant ladies, and even ask one if they would like to play with you, isn't that great?!!? They will usually say yes if they are not busy!! They too understand the disproportionality between dommes and subs! Feel wanted! Feel valued! Feel like a human being, not like one of the wretched masses! Treat others with respect and thoughtfulness and be treated the same in return! You can do these things and that is far from what you can do online! Get into the COMMUNITY and meet real people, and get to be a real person, and be known and understood as a person not only a sub! There is strength and beauty in numbers. It will be much easier to get the relationship you need if you do this.

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