AquaticSub
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Throughout this entire thread you have gotten very annoyed when questioned. When I was discussing puppy slaves v. slaves with others you immediately jumped in putting words in my mouth and saying that you didn't realize how "absurd" such a thing was. When people questioned the effectiveness of your punishment, you started on a rant about how we were calling it "brutal". When people disagreed with you about relationships, you said that anyone who doesn't know anything about TPE (obviously us) shouldn't comment - even though you admitted you are very new to them.
Considering most of these questions could have been answered if the inquirer simply took the time to read through my posts and maybe, just maybe, take a little time to think about it for themselves, yes..I do tend to get a little bit annoyed.
Nobody was asking you questions in those cases. I was discussing puppy slaves v. slaves with another person and you immediately decided we were calling pupply slaves absurd. Your punishment was evidently not effective as it did not get you the behavior you wanted nor does it seem to have taught her anything. Nobody had called your punishment brutal, you decided we thought that because we didn't agree with your course of action.
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Case in point; the puppy vs slave fiasco. Seeing how those of you who questioned the effectiveness of the punishment were the same who suggested I do exactly what I did do, I think I had plenty of reason to be annoyed there as well. "if she acts in a manner displeasing to you, ignore her" Me: so I put her in a corner and ignored her. Could I have ignored her without placing her in the corner? certainly.
You don't have to put someone in a corner to ignore them. You ignore them by doing just that - ignoring them. Pick up a book, play a game or go on a walk.
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However, seeing as she was acting out because she didn't want to wake up, leaving her in bed and ignoring her so that she could fall right back to sleep isn't going to teach her a damn thing either, is it? No, that would be rewarding her for bad behavior, which you've already pointed out to be a bad idea.
Ignoring her wouldn't be rewarding her. Rewarding her would have been getting her out of the bed and making her service you. Punishment doesn't have to be immediate with people, one way a puppy slave is easier than a real puppy. If we were in your situation and he wanted to punish me, Valyraen would let me go back to sleep and wake up on my own time. When I got up, I would find that he was busy and would not interact with me easily. He would not accept service from me either until we discussed what had happened and he felt I had learned something.
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As for asking people who aren't familiar with TPE not to comment on a TPE relationship..what's wrong with that? Do I ask a duck about the affairs of a camel?
No, but you were very clearly saying "Those who have given advice and disagree don't know a damn thing about TPE because I know what TPE is, this is what it is and if you don't agree with that, you don't know what you are talking about".
< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 11/27/2007 10:10:42 AM >
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