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Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 11:37:54 AM   
MistressDoMe


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A Mistress that specializes in using strap-on's says she does not have sex with her subs.

Hello!
Strap on sex is sex folks.
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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:07:07 PM   
Wickad


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A strap on does not have to penetrate, nor even stimulate, the person wearing it.  As this person, in this case, is me, I do not feel that I am having sex with someone.  I'm sure the person on the other end percieves this action as sexual and a form of 'having sex' but that has not been my perception of the same experience.

Of course, people's opinions vary on how they choose to look at sex.

Wickad

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:12:27 PM   
MistressDoMe


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Status: offline 		Of course, like Bill Clinton said, "I did not have sex with that woman!".

People have many definitions of sex.

But in most states, inserting any object into someone else buttocks is considered a sexual act.

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:19:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDoMe

I just stated this on another thread here.
A Mistress that specializes in using strap-on's says she does not have sex with her subs.

Hello!
Strap on sex is sex folks.


This.  I agree with this.

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:29:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Wickad

I disagree!

A strap on does not have to penetrate, nor even stimulate, the person wearing it.  As this person, in this case, is me, I do not feel that I am having sex with someone.  I'm sure the person on the other end percieves this action as sexual and a form of 'having sex' but that has not been my perception of the same experience.

Of course, people's opinions vary on how they choose to look at sex.

Wickad


If you aren't having mind blowing orgasms when you fuck a man in the ass, you need to get a better harness! I wouldn't be fucking a man in the ass with my strap on unless it was giving me both a mental rush and a physical one. It's incredibly erotic.  Whether or not it's sex, I don't care.  I know I can't get pregnant from it, and I also don't have much chance of getting a sexually transmitted disease.  Therefore, I put it in a highly desirable category.

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:29:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDoMe

I just stated this on another thread here.
A Mistress that specializes in using strap-on's says she does not have sex with her subs.

Hello!
Strap on sex is sex folks.



and a great and wonderful kind of sex as well!

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:38:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Wickad

I disagree!

A strap on does not have to penetrate, nor even stimulate, the person wearing it.  As this person, in this case, is me, I do not feel that I am having sex with someone.  I'm sure the person on the other end percieves this action as sexual and a form of 'having sex' but that has not been my perception of the same experience.

Of course, people's opinions vary on how they choose to look at sex.

Wickad


Wickad,
I recognize that each dynamic is different, so I suppose in part, it depends on what you're getting from the experience.  Many Mistresses get quite turned on during strap-on play and mine normally reaches at least one orgasm while penetrating me.  I'd say we're definitely having a form of sex that's quite intimate and arousing for both of us.  I think it's unfortunate that you don't find it to be a sexual act.  Based on my experience, it seems to me that for whatever reason, you're missing out on something that can be quite enjoyable between two partners.
 
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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:40:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDoMe

I just stated this on another thread here.
A Mistress that specializes in using strap-on's says she does not have sex with her subs.

Hello!
Strap on sex is sex folks.



Not according to a judge here in San Francisco. In 2001 I was busted for prostitution doing
my Pro Domme thing. I was doing a undercover cop with a strapon (I did him 6 times before
I was arrested)
The judge asked if I had sex with the officer for money? I told no I did not have sex with him.
I did tell him I was training the officer with a huge strapon.

To make a long story short, the judge dropped all the charges and ruled that strapon training
was not sex.


Diane

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:43:36 PM   
MistressDoMe


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Status: offline 		That is an interesting story, you HAD to be in San Francisco.
San Francisco? Well they have there own ways of living.
Go to most OTHER states and see what the judge will say.
: )
To most of us strap-on sex, is still sex.

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:49:25 PM   
DianeB269


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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:52:03 PM   
MistressDoMe


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people to pay taxes.

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:52:21 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		My only experience with strap-ons was with a woman doing me with one.

I can honestly say it seemed like sex.

(P.S. although it was not as much fun as a real cock!)

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 12:54:00 PM   
MistressDoMe


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My only experience with strap-ons was with a woman doing me with one.

I can honestly say it seemed like sex.

(P.S. although it was not as much fun as a real cock!)


I think most of us agree it is certainly a sexual act.
They have some really life like ones available these days, some can be as
much fun as a real penis.

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 3:23:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDoMe

That is an interesting story, you HAD to be in San Francisco.
San Francisco? Well they have there own ways of living.
Go to most OTHER states and see what the judge will say.
: )
To most of us strap-on sex, is still sex.


You may speak for yourself, but I don't think you can speak for "most of us". A lot of people define sex to mean coitus, and nothing short of that. A lot of other people are less rigid in their definition, but they wouldn't draw the line in the same place that you do.

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 3:56:48 PM   
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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 3:59:16 PM   
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But, 2 weeks later the IRS was knocking on my door asking for money.

Diane


taxes! yes, if they can't get you one way, they will get you another way.

did the undercover guy happen to mention why he waited until the 6th time before he tried to get You for prostitution?....lol

something tells me he did love what You were doing!

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 4:05:12 PM   
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... I was doing a undercover cop with a strapon (I did him 6 times before
I was arrested) ...



Loved this detail!




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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 4:08:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Misstoyou


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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

... I was doing a undercover cop with a strapon (I did him 6 times before
I was arrested) ...



Loved this detail!


Apparently not as undercover as he thought; seems his ass was hanging out there--- and Diane was his backup!!!!!!!

Officeress Diane says "I'm gonna BUST your ass!!!!!"

Ron(ne)




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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 4:39:33 PM   
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But, 2 weeks later the IRS was knocking on my door asking for money.

Diane


taxes! yes, if they can't get you one way, they will get you another way.

did the undercover guy happen to mention why he waited until the 6th time before he tried to get You for prostitution?....lol

something tells me he did love what You were doing!




I know he was loving it. I always wondered why he didn't bust me the first time.


Diane

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RE: Strap on sex is sex folks - 12/2/2007 4:41:26 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Misstoyou


quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

... I was doing a undercover cop with a strapon (I did him 6 times before
I was arrested) ...



Loved this detail!


Apparently not as undercover as he thought; seems his ass was hanging out there--- and Diane was his backup!!!!!!!

Officeress Diane says "I'm gonna BUST your ass!!!!!"

Ron(ne)





You always come back with the best replies..


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