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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 3/31/2007 2:00:31 PM

MzMia

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RealOne, this is by far one of THE funniest CM stories I have ever read.
LOLOLOL
HAHAHAHAHHA

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 3/31/2007 2:15:51 PM

DianeB269

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The best one was, You should be happy a 32 year old male is sending a message to
a 51 year old female. That was his reply when I rejected his offer.

hahahahaha

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 3/31/2007 2:18:32 PM

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One told Me I was overweight. ( Like I didn't know that!)
I asked him what he thought the BBW in My profile meant?
I think a lot of subs thinks it just means Big, Beautiful Woman -that is still well proportioned!

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 3/31/2007 2:25:06 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

RealOne, this is by far one of THE funniest CM stories I have ever read.
LOLOLOL
HAHAHAHAHHA

Interestingly enough, a while back on CM a SF sub told me an extremely similar story about a visit from the Domme for the weekend: the not-clicking, the not matching up to the picture, the no sexual chemistry and no sex, how he filled the time graciously being a tour guide, and his bewilderment at her outrage about not him not wanting to do it again.

Moral of the story, the submissives who interest me should be GLAD I make them meet me at Starbucks.

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 3/31/2007 2:34:36 PM

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Urrgh!

I once met a Dom for dinner... and he just kept talking and talking about himself and it was so dull.. but I felt I should at least give him the evening. We then went for coffee at a cool little spot which has couches and mix matched chairs, etc... We sat a a couch with some espresso and he started up again... and I actually fell asleep... like snoring, out cold, had to be woken up asleep.

Not the best impression to make on a Dom.

hehe

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 3/31/2007 3:28:54 PM

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Hmm... I do believe this is the first time I have posted to this forum!

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 3/31/2007 4:33:37 PM

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I've been rejected several times by different Dommes (for being too young, for having short hair, for not wanting to play with males....etc), but it essentially comes down to a mark of class in how you let it effect you.
I am not avidly seeking someone to spend the rest of my life with, so my heart is far from shattered at receiving a "No thanks" email. Instead, I simply write back thanking the Domme for her time, and wishing her good luck in her search. Then I search some more...no big deal.
My favorite thing, though, is when I get messages from foreign male submissives. First of all, I am not "willing to relocate" so asking to serve as my personal 24/7 slave just isn't going to work. Also...lesbian. Guys are a no no, except as friends. And thirdly and most important...I am a sub! What would I do with a sub of my own? The only thing I could think of would be to make them go shopping with me....
Honestly. Sheesh!
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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 3/31/2007 5:50:41 PM

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Most have been very respectful. However, a few have been VERY persistant asking why, pleading or leave a few curse words. I always say something like take good care of yourself and good luck in your search. Or thank you for letting me know I made the right choice. For some reason that pisses them off more. Then I politely block them.

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 3/31/2007 7:48:33 PM

MzMia

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nice ass MsPleasure, you better hide from the azzmaster!

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 4/1/2007 12:16:35 AM

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Well, you turned me down once some time ago, and I said thank you and moved on. Not sure why people have to make such a big deal out of it.

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 4/21/2007 7:11:59 PM

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So now the Domme has been throughly impressed with your approach. You have changed her mind by calling her names. She decides to accept your invitation and gives you the names of a few motels in the area. A meeting is set up, a room is booked and paid for. She asks if you want to play. You agree and she tells you to remove your clothes, you think this was easy. She slowly slips leather cuffs on your wrists and ankles, a leather collar is placed around your neck, she offers you a gag. you start to get erect. She places a broom stick as a spreader bar between your ankles, and attachs the cuffs to a necktie. You don't understand an old necktie but what the hell. She leads you to the closet door and attachs the necktie to the clothes hook on the backside of the door, forcing you to stand on your tip toes. You start to sweat just a bit as you see her lay her whip, crop, flogger and slapper on the table near by. She asks if you're ready, you can only nod as the gag prevents any words from coming out intelligently. She slowly drags her fingernails down your chest, you are starting to enjoy this, you think to yourself, she isn't so bad. She stand directly in front of you making eye contact with you. "Now we have a problem, I don't like being called names by someone who is supposed to be submissive". She proceeds to beat you nine ways to Sunday. Not just your ass but thighs, you turn as much as you can with your ankles hobbled to escape the blows. All this does is offer her a different area to strike You try to scream but nothing comes out because the gag is preventing it. You are crying because she beat you to inflict pain not pleasure. Finally, she tires, lucky you. She goes in to the bathroom, you hear water running, she returns looking beautiful. You watch as she collects her toys and places them in her bag. She collects her belongings, puts her coat on. You wonder what is next. You watch as she heads to the door to leave, fear comes over you. You try to say "wait, what about me" nothing that comes out sounds as you intended, just another unintelligent stream of grunts. She looks back and smiles sweetly and says "remember I'm a B*tch" and it hits you what has happened to you. You watch in silence as she picks up the sign that she places on the doorknob. The sign says ~please do not disturb~. "I'm sure the maid will enjoy this sight tomorrow", She says as she pulls the door behind her.~~~~~~~
Moral of the story, be careful what you wish for.
LOL

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 4/21/2007 9:03:19 PM

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Nice story, not nice to call Dommes names.

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 4/22/2007 2:07:28 AM

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One time a local switch wrote to me. I wrote back and politely declined because I am not seeking a switch and because our interests were very incompatible. He sent me back a totally hateful, uncalled for response and I ended up blocking him.

A few months later, I met him at a real time event. I clearly remembered him from his photo and name, but he had never seen a photo of me and didn't make the connection that I was the one he had sent the hateful e-mail to. He was just as sweet as could be, wanted to wait on me, etc. I got to talking to him and mentioned our earlier exchange online. He turned red as a beet and apologized profusely.

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 4/22/2007 2:37:03 AM

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your short hair is really really hot, hold out for a Domme that likes it.
(and if you lived closer i would go shopping with you....end up doing that with every female i know anyway i love Antique malls)

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RE: Worst rejection reactions -- subs, what NOT to do - 4/22/2007 6:34:50 AM

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I can definitely say that recently I got the reaction of a lifetime on here from a "True slave"...
Him and I had only been talking for around a week. He was looking for total slavery, no rights, no opinions, giving all of his posessions up, ect. The only problem is that he was very impatient. If it took me too long to type, he would get huffy, and say "Well, I guess you're not interested then."
I finally had enough, and told him that it wasn't going to work because he was rude, arrogant, and obviously not something I wanted living in my home. He exploded! "I can't believe I've wasted so much time on someone who doesn't even want to learn from me!" and "You're not even real" and "You just can't handle how close we're getting to you accepting me" and, finally, when I asked him to remove me from his messenger, "Gladly, you pretentious bitch!"
Oh, how unlucky I am to not have something that valuable as mine...lmao

Wow. That sounds so familiar. It really annoys me when someone IMs after a 20-second lag to say something that implies I've kept them waiting too long. I HATE the buzz in YM; this ain't no dry cleaners! Don't ring the bell because you feel like I should be standing by waiting to give you service. I have a life, a job, friends, and probably at least two other incoming IMs. (Plus, my sounds are muted so I never hear the buzz anyway. I just see it whenever I come back to the window.)

And some people just can't understand that acting like a self-centered ass is not a good way to find the Domme of their dreams. Of course, these are the ones who won't accept correction. And like a self-centered ass, they always find a reason why it's not their fault that they're being "kicked to the curb" once again.

Yep, I have quite a few stories, but I'll try to preserve the end of my fingertips. They usually involve subs whose reaction to rejection is so angry and bitter that they provide the last and most concrete bit of proof that they would not be suitable.

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