Daddysredhead
Posts: 23574
Joined: 11/6/2005 From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia Status: offline
|
As many others have said, talking to the gentleman you are involved with is the best place to start. A collar means different things to different people. What it means for the two of you may not be the same as it does to someone else. If it's something serious, means a commitment, has a symbolic meaning, or is just for fashion... you need to find out what that is. If it's something that you both can live with, accept it. If it isn't, then have him put it away until you are both on the same page. Just my 2 cents. (small typo)
< Message edited by Daddysredhead -- 12/31/2007 4:35:45 PM >
_____________________________
Founding Member, Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's Do not challenge me to a battle of wits & come to fight unarmed. Are you really that stupid? ~ Bless your heart 13th doughnut
|