AAkasha
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ORIGINAL: Baaric Hi Akasha, I'm not really sure how to respond to what you're saying. You've obviously has some bad "sissies" in your life, but is this really any different from bad subs in general? Why does me liking to wear women's clothes fit me in a different ilk then the rest of the subs out there? I'm honestly curious not trying to be snarky. Shouldn't all subs makes things interesting to their potential partners regardless of whether it's crossdressing or not? Isn't a selfish sub a selfish sub? Doesn't changing my profile to lead you to believe I'm something I'm not, just as bad, if not worse, than being that self centered sissy? I think I fall somewhere between the extremes you talk about. I like dressing up, yes like it, and do it willingly, but I also share my affection and appreciation to the Domme's in my life. I like women's clothes, on me or on my partner, it doesn't really matter, I just like them. Personally I'd spend the money a nice dress for my partner before I bought me another maid uniform, but ideally I'd do both. I do enjoy dressing up at home, but have no inclination to go out in public dressed up. So I'd probably be kicking and screaming (or is that begging and whining) before going into public. And while crossdressing is far from a "do it everyday" thing for me, it's also something I have to have in my partner. I want her to enjoy seeing me dressed. Shouldn't I look for something who likes me as I am? Would a sadist be happy with someone who didn't like pain? Would someone into heavy bondage be happy with someone who's only into scarfs? I know BDSM is all about negotiating and any relationship is about compromise. Maybe I'm not the one you're talking to, I can't imagine not involving and sharing my fetishes/kinks with my partner. I would be just as happy going to the store with my partner and shopping for her, and then grab a thing or two for me, as I would with just shopping for me. For me it's really all about the clothes, women just have the damn coolest clothes Guess that's part of why I'm drawn toward fashion photography as well. Plus i know there's a lot of things I can't wear that would look sooo much better on her I read the boards from time to time, I'm mostly a lurker, I know there's a lot of resentment for sissies out there, some of it stems from the selfishness aspect, some of it is for general dislike, some of it is from the find it degrading side of things. I've also seen the profiles on here that are looking for 24/7 sissies, I've even seen a profile that wanted to completely transform their males sub, they were looking for a wife. So I know there are people out there who like them. I don't know if I had a real point to make here or not, sorry ... I just felt I had to respond. Owen You don't really sound like the type of submissive that I am addressing in this thread. There are so many threads where femdoms have talked about what the frustrations they have with sissies are, so I don't want to turn this into that kind of thread. I've encountered many types of subs in my years enjoying domination, and while there are varying levels of selfishiness, it happens most commonly with sissies. Sure, there are selfish subs of all kinds, but an unselfish sissy seems to be the exception rather than the norm. This is addressed in many other threads. Akasha
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