gorgeous1
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My Master was 21 when I met him. I was 23. I was the FIRST person he ever laid a riding crop to. I had never had a riding crop taken to me. We were both Kink Virgins. So, I suppose my answer to you would be this: A 21 year old can certainly be a Master, as long as he understands a few basic concepts. 1. When he is "in role" he is responsible for the safety of his slave, and that should be his number one priority...PROTECT THE PROPERTY (his play-mate's physical and mental well-being). 2. BE a sponge. Learn, learn, learn! Read as many books as they can find, and find a mentor if they can. 3. Don't let ego and pride get the best of them. Don't be afraid to take constructive criticism/feedback, even if it's from their submissive. That's all my master had to offer when I met him...a willingness to listen and learn, and a cheap cheap pair of nipple clamps and a riding crop. I thought he was hot shit, and I still do after 11 years. So, to all you young whipper snappers out there dying to find out exactly what it would look like to see your red handprint on somebody's ass, act like you know everything, but listen and learn as if you know nothing. Find a submissive with no experience so that just the mere sight of a crop or collar makes them wet, and BINGO! You've got magic and chemistry! As long as you make decisions that keep you both physically and mentally safe, YOU CAN'T GO WRONG. Forget all the bullshit about age and experience...find a newbie who's as new as yourself...grab hands, hold on tight, and walk down this kinky path together- learn to trust one another enough to communicate EVERYTHING and you will both find fulfillment and a freedom you never knew existed. I know that sounds hoakey, but it's true.
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Wife/property of CapnSpankins...and loving every minute of it! Visit my juicy blog http://www.kinkycrafts.info/gorgeous-blog/gblog.php for updates on my slave training!
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