BlackPhx
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Think I will toss in ..ummm oOOOo I got 1.56 in pennies!!! WoW! There is always going to be a question of Nature verses Nurture. There are always going to be children on the playground who are leaders or followers. They are very easy to identify. Look for the one who everyone is following. Look for the nurturers, the imaginative, the bossy. No not the bullies, the bossy, they are totally different people. You can see the Doms and Subs forming up even in kindergarten. Not sexually, personality wise. Some 5-10% of these children know what they are going to grow up to be, they have the course of their lives already set out. whether, Dancer, Vet, Policeman, Fireman, Doctor or Nurse, they already know what they want to do and few of those children let anything stand in their way of achieving it. Perhaps 1% of these children will kink sexually and grow up to be Msaters, Mistress's, etc. So why do I pick out the Nurturer's and not just the Bossy? Because when all is said and done, that is what Master's and Mistresses do. They nurture. In their hands submissives and slaves grow. They see the potential behind the needs, wants, desires and fear and help it to blossom. It is a two way street, for the sub/slave as well is a nurturer. They help the Master et. al to become the best they can be as well, if everything is right. We know they have feet of clay, that they are not without fault, doubts, days when they want to pull the covers over their heads and hide and love them anyway, with all our hearts. We place our lives in their hands the way nothing else outside of a child can and give them our faith and trust. They accept us with all our baggage and needs, and we do the same. Is there an age in which a Master becomes a Master? No. No more than there is one in which a submissive becomes one. They may not have found BDSM by the time they are 21 or even 40, but that does not stop them from being what they are. Master of their fate and leaders of others. They may never kink, may never have need for sadism, Bondage, and all the other things that make up this life choice, but they are out there at every age, taking the (un)wounded under their wings, nurturing them, leading them, guiding. They still stand as Firemen, Doctors, Nurses, Police, et. al. everyday heros who take the safety and well being of others as a personal responsibility and challenge. That doesn't mean that all of them are or are not Dominants. It means they are people with a strong sense of responsibility for others and they show up at every age in the book and make their mark on the world. You only have to be 25 to run for a political position, 35 to run for President of this country. You can be Queen/King at any age in countries with a monarchy. Priest, Minister, Nun at 20, fight and die for your country at 18 or become a Police Officer/Firefighter at 18. One doctor I had didn't look old enough to shave, he was 23 and liscensed. If I can place my life and those of my loved ones in their hands, then I recognize that any one of them is also capable of learning to swing a whip, responsibly use a paddle, or Master another human being. At any age. It is the person not the years, that counts. Master is 39, 40 in March, I am 55 as of a week ago. He is my Master and has earned that right despite all that i am older than him. poenkitten
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