sexyred1
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I find this whole thread to be ridiculously sexist and inflammatory. But I am not surprised by any of the comments here, it is fairly predictable what has been said. No, women are not born to be bitches, just like we are all not born to be super intelligent, rocket scientists, race car drivers, etc. I think it is myopic to cite low self esteem, wired in genetics, jealousy and competition as reasons for being a bitch. Perhaps those women who YOU think are bitchy, are just confident, honest, blunt and somewhat confrontational when their opinions differ with yours? I have heard women called bitches who I thought were hysterically funny, while others thought them sarcastic bitches. It also bears mentioning that any woman who possesses strength of character, strong beliefs and a healthy ego is bound to intimidate lots of people, so they run to the safe haven of the word "bitch". When men in business pull rank, they are leaders, when women do it, you hear, What a bitch! Like others have said, I find it a compliment simply because I know when I am being bitchy and for what reason and none of them have to do with insecurity, jealousy or genetic programming. And it has nothing to do with control issues. In fact, most bitches are perfectly in control. Sometimes it is just fun, but god forbid any of you actually admit it; that would be too honest.
< Message edited by sexyred1 -- 2/5/2008 4:55:41 PM >
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