LaTigresse
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Personally I think it stems from immaturity and lack of example from mothers/teachers/etc. I've even seen a great deal of encouragement from men in this behaviour. When I really give it some serious thought, I seem most of it as being very passive agressive in a way. Rather than taking the high ground, clearly defining our needs and expectations without any emotional drama, we find it easier to play the old, learned, games. In past generations women had to maintain a certain demeanor, we were raised to "behave like little ladies". I think that mindset contributed to less than admirable ways of coping with issues. I think we can all logically see how archaic that thought process, is but there is still some underlying sense of "how we should be" that is more subconscious and controlling of our behaviour than we would like to admit. I think many women then, overcompensate, often out of some unrealized guilt. That's where I see alot of the "I am woman hear me roar" type of stuff that just makes me sit back and think....."well alrighty then!" and upsets women that don't want to roar and men that want to roar louder. It is my fervid hope that in one or two more generations most of that will have been overtaken by a new conscious and subconscious mindset. That to be strong, and still a woman, we don't have to go down those familiar yet negative paths.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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