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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:42:15 PM

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:43:21 PM

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You see these goddesses and princessess so often you'd think commoners were a dying breed, yet you don't see any gods or kings. Yes, I'm sure they exist, I just haven't seen them yet.

As a submissive female i can tell you they really do exist and im pretty sure in just the same numbers as the princesses do.

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Using your dominance as a trade is also something only females seem to have gotten around to, and I do believe it takes an unhealthy amount of ego to believe that you are entitled to money for abusing someone.

Again i know plenty of pro doms and doms who demand tribute. Not only a female trait.

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Female submissives are completely safe from having insults directed at them from just looking through profiles. Calling someone a "worthless pig" isn't exactly a way to show sincere interest in someone.

We are not perfectly safe from this happening. I have had it happen a number of times.

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For some reason, dominant women ..well, they seem to be on average among the less attractive.

They do. I have seen many a stunning female dom on here and in r/l.

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Character, however, is easier to talk about. After all, who needs a good personality when you get all the cute subbies you want with a bad one?

Same could be said about Doms.

In fact every fault you have picked with dommes could be said about doms.
To some the faults you have listed may even be qualities.
There must be some decent dommes out there even by your standards otherwise surely you would not switch?

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:43:32 PM

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I love generalizations.... Yes I agree "Balance is important" but saying "Only among females is it common to claim to be of divine or noble blood. You see these goddesses and princessess so often you'd think commoners were a dying breed, yet you don't see any gods or kings."

You should see my in box.. and some of the people I have come across.

Unless you start shuffling around the males looking for love.. you are not going to find these types who think they are the greatest thing since they put the pocket in the pita.

Being Bi... I have seen both sides.

The potential for idiots and jerks is equal on both sides.

You also have the pros who look for money on the female side, and the quickie sex only use you, and toss you types on the male side... it is about equal. (if you ask me)

any one who spouts off that Doms suck.. Dommes suck... Men suck... Females suck... Cats suck.. Dogs suck... or what have you.... generaly just have sour grapes.. need thier nappies changed and will eventualy get over it.. or be a sad little person for a long long time.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:43:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA
you actually liked his post? Always I knew you were another misogynist.

both you so called "men" are just AFRAID of women.

you hate what you fear.

He was complimenting the post I made. Were you aware of this, and you are saying I am a misogynist?

Genuinely interested in a reply.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:43:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA

you actually liked his post? Always I knew you were another misogynist.

both you so called "men" are just AFRAID of women.

you hate what you fear.

Perhaps when your done projecting your own bitterness toward the male race, you will realize that Skully was actually trying to be a bit funny.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:44:15 PM

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uhmm.. yes, your perception is flawed -- this site isn't the whole of female dominants.. and sorry, in this case, your age really has bearing here... I don't often say that... but it does...

you certainly sound like you hate women, how's your relationship with your mother?

I love women. It's just popular to call anyone who doesn't follow the "right" views of the genders a misogynist. So effective method to enforce political values it's scary.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:46:37 PM

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What is it about women who are comfortable in their dominance and their sexuality that causes you to blow her off completely, Aestus?

I have yet to see that, I'm afraid.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:46:44 PM

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Ever discuss something with someone who is only discussing becasue they are waiting to have someone pat them on the head and tell them they are right to be annoyed and they re still a good boy?
OP, I am not going to validate your feelings. You can say the same thing about the male subs, the male doms, the fem subs...
YOU happen to be male and picking on females this thread. Do a search to see how many ther are about how horrible the male domes are, how bad the male subs can be...
What you see as undesirable traits might be desireable to others. I am poly, which means your undesireable "disloyalty" is a very happy situation in my family. You personally might not like what you are finding, but you are making a sweeping judgement about an entire group of people based on reading profiles. How many female dominants do you know face to face? Have you actually tried to get to know any? Be careful, you might meet someone who changes your mind even if they have a few of your undesireable traits.

And honestly, if the quality of people here is so low... why are you still here?
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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:47:25 PM

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uhmm.. yes, your perception is flawed -- this site isn't the whole of female dominants.. and sorry, in this case, your age really has bearing here... I don't often say that... but it does...

you certainly sound like you hate women, how's your relationship with your mother?

I love women. It's just popular to call anyone who doesn't follow the "right" views of the genders a misogynist. So effective method to enforce political values it's scary.

I happen to think a lot of female dominants suck just as much as a lot of male dominants.

In fact, there is a lot of people that suck.

However, taking a handful of bad experiences and transforming it into an absolute for an entire gender based on nothing more than stereotypes and generalizations is a sin against logic itself.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:49:11 PM

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:49:59 PM

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You don't have to think highly of Dommes its not a requirement in life. We all make judgements, generalizations and have our own point of views. I've met some Dom/mes I'm not impressed with,yes that said Dom/mes meaning male Doms as well. I've also met some subs/slaves/switches that I wasn't impressed with either. So it all boils down to the individual, at least with me it does.

Others seem to like to lump people into one nifty pile so its easier to judge them without the trouble of actually having to put some thought into that judgement call. All Dommes are this..all Male Doms are this...all Fem subs are this..etc.. You get the idea.

Is it normal? No I don't think so, not for the enlightened, but for the uninformed yes I've seen quite a bit.

BTW great way to draw attention to your profile.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:53:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: missturbation
In fact every fault you have picked with dommes could be said about doms.

Of course, I never suggested otherwise. But from my experience, it's what I listed in much more common in female dominants.

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To some the faults you have listed may even be qualities.

Yes, I'm not the judge of what are to be considered faults and what are to be considered qualities. What I'm saying is that to me, they are faults. I'd accept an argument suggesting that it's all my fault for not accepting them as qualities.

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There must be some decent dommes out there even by your standards otherwise surely you would not switch?

I do certainly hope so. But for now, it's my only appreciation of the idea of female dominance that keeps me from dedicating myself to female submission.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:53:43 PM

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Ahhhhh, I love a good, old fashioned mock.

18 years old, from Norway but with unbelievably precise English language skills, joined today and makes his first post today on an inflamatory subject?

I'm thinking it's either someone we already know having fun, or someone who got kicked off the boards and again, is having fun. C'mon ladies and fella's, you KNOW this is a put on!!!

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:56:54 PM

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To answer your question, OP. No, it's not normal.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 6:58:34 PM

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I do certainly hope so. But for now, it's my only appreciation of the idea of female dominance that keeps me from dedicating myself to female submission.

Just out of curiosity what is your 'idea' of a female dominant?

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 7:01:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lashra
Others seem to like to lump people into one nifty pile so its easier to judge them without the trouble of actually having to put some thought into that judgement call. All Dommes are this..all Male Doms are this...all Fem subs are this..etc.. You get the idea.

Oh, trust me, I put alot of thought into judging people. Saying that I put too much thought into it would be an excellent argument.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 7:03:35 PM

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This thread might offend some people, but don't worry about it, it'll make you stronger. If it's unbearable, you could always try the technique of mocking me in order to ease this feeling; it's supposed to be very effective.
It is! Also, it entertains me while I'm supposed to be studying for exams.

Now, to the point. I'm among those who supports the idea of women in charge.

-Ego: Only among females is it common to claim to be of divine or noble blood. Yes, but males are more apt to declare themselves LORD MASTER DOMLY PANTS! I think the title of Mistress is a bit more common. My girl calls me Lynx when we play, and the domme I do sessions with occasionally goes by Mistress.

I do believe it takes an unhealthy amount of ego to believe that you are entitled to money for abusing someone. It takes an equally unhealthy amount to think that you deserve a woman to be your little fetish object and ram things up your ass for free.

Of course, it's possible to already have a over-inflated ego by the time you discover this site, and then rejoice in finally finding a community where it's accepted to be so self-absorbed. I'm fricking amazing.

Cuckolding, for example, is an activity I've never seen a maledom/femsub equivalent of. You haven't been on these boards very long. There's several threads about it.

Female submissives are completely safe from having insults directed at them from just looking through profiles. I should let you browse my email one day.

Calling someone a "worthless pig" isn't exactly a way to show sincere interest in someone. Some guys are into that, some aren't. I usually don't call anyone worthless, I don't think it's healthy, but some love the "dirty dirty slut!" harmless talk.

For some reason, dominant women ..well, they seem to be on average among the less attractive. Could be that they grow insecure, and therefore find the dominant role to be an escape from this, without realizing how unhealthy it is. Why is it that only fat women are fat, but fat guys are "Husky" and "Robust"?

Are there horribly rude, obnoxious femme dommes in this lifestyle? Probably, although I haven't personally met any of them face to face. It's probably best not to judge a group of people based on what you see on the internet- it's a lot different once you leave the basement.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 7:05:16 PM

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 7:05:54 PM

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you KNOW this is a put on!!!

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Ahhhhh, I love a good, old fashioned mock.

18 years old, from Norway but with unbelievably precise English language skills, joined today and makes his first post today on an inflamatory subject?

I'm thinking it's either someone we already know having fun, or someone who got kicked off the boards and again, is having fun. C'mon ladies and fella's, you KNOW this is a put on!!!

This isn't the first thread I made on this board, but none of you know me. Consider me a man of no importance. I have no need for an identity. Which is a bit of the reason I deleted my old account and started a new one, a post history helps establish an identity. It's not me I intended for us to discuss. And thanks for the compliment regarding my English skills, by the way.

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RE: Is it normal to be annoyed by the majority of femal... - 6/10/2008 7:08:23 PM

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Consider me a man of no importance.

Okay.

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