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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 7:56:09 AM

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However, insisting on having your own money available at any moment is simply a refusal to actually submit.

Would you rather have a woman submit to you because she is trapped and can't leave because she has no access to her money?

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 8:03:53 AM

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It's more appropriate for an imported slave like softness to get a monthly stipend which is deposited in her name in an account for her use in case she is suddenly released. However, insisting on having your own money available at any moment is simply a refusal to actually submit.

With all due respect, Katy if you read the -whole- post ... It doesn't sound that way at all. Taking one sentence out of context just to prove your point is rather underhanded. Good thing I went back to read.

He is saying that it makes sense to give the slave a montly stipend to use in case something of that nature should occur but thats just it. He's -giving- it to the slave. The slave isn't -demanding- it for herself. Which makes accepting that stipend a submissive act in and of itself.

I think an intelligent, self-preserving submissive or slave would seek out a dominant who has just such a plan for a montly stipend. That way she doesn't have to make demands for her own safety. She already knows he's got her safety and well-being in mind. It builds greater confidence in the dominant as well. If he's making plans to have the submissive taken care of in the event that things go wrong, it makes it easier for things to go right.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 8:05:05 AM

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Him: I make a 7 figure income
Iand have significant assets, so you can feel safe emigrating out the country with me.

Uhhhh, seriously.....

men who make 7 figure incomes are generally NOT going to be hanging out on this site asking 50 year old women from Cleveland to move into their mansions.

multimillionaires have access to beautiful women (model looks, L.A. 10's), with and without intelligence. it's a buyer's market, so to speak.

(and if you think for one moment that those women won't do some fairly freaky stuff to stay in that lifestyle...think again. money is the great motivator.)

so the whole basis of this thread, while cute...is simply laughable.
calgon.....take me away!!!

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 8:46:38 AM

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Taking one sentence out of context just to prove your point is rather underhanded.

Cool. I think this is the first time I've ever been called underhanded. I like it!

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 9:07:24 AM

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Ahhh modernday girls. Suze Orman would be applauding you all right now. Lets face it, the size of a bank acct. shouldn't be a deciding factor. What matters is the size of his heart. (Or whip) It only makes sense to make sure our futures (and the um's) are secure. A job is the best way to do that. It has nothing to do with submission, its about sanity.
You will need-
A savings acct.
Life insurance if theres um's
Health insurance
Vehicle insurance
Student loans/debt pymts(?)
College for ums.
Even if you dont work you will still have bills and or responsibilities. Be realistic.

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ORIGINAL: DarkVictory

It's more appropriate for an imported slave like softness to get a monthly stipend which is deposited in her name in an account for her use in case she is suddenly released. However, insisting on having your own money available at any moment is simply a refusal to actually submit.

He is saying that it makes sense to give the slave a montly stipend to use in case something of that nature should occur but thats just it. He's -giving- it to the slave. The slave isn't -demanding- it for herself. Which makes accepting that stipend a submissive act in and of itself.

I think an intelligent, self-preserving submissive or slave would seek out a dominant who has just such a plan for a montly stipend. That way she doesn't have to make demands for her own safety. She already knows he's got her safety and well-being in mind. It builds greater confidence in the dominant as well. If he's making plans to have the submissive taken care of in the event that things go wrong, it makes it easier for things to go right.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 9:23:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

Him: I make a 7 figure income
Iand have significant assets, so you can feel safe emigrating out the country with me.

Uhhhh, seriously.....

men who make 7 figure incomes are generally NOT going to be hanging out on this site asking 50 year old women from Cleveland to move into their mansions.

multimillionaires have access to beautiful women (model looks, L.A. 10's), with and without intelligence. it's a buyer's market, so to speak.

(and if you think for one moment that those women won't do some fairly freaky stuff to stay in that lifestyle...think again. money is the great motivator.)

so the whole basis of this thread, while cute...is simply laughable.
calgon.....take me away!!!

Well, there's that too ...

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 9:29:56 AM

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men who make 7 figure incomes are generally NOT going to be hanging out on this site asking 50 year old women from Cleveland to move into their mansions.

multimillionaires have access to beautiful women (model looks, L.A. 10's), with and without intelligence. it's a buyer's market, so to speak.

You might be surprised, both at the variety of people who use this site, and at the variety of tastes they have.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 9:44:35 AM

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Uhhhh, seriously.....

men who make 7 figure incomes are generally NOT going to be hanging out on this site asking 50 year old women from Cleveland to move into their mansions.

multimillionaires have access to beautiful women (model looks, L.A. 10's), with and without intelligence. it's a buyer's market, so to speak.

Not all men want a show piece hanging off their arms ...some actually want a real woman who is actually willing to submit to them near their own age that they can relate to....please give at least most Doms some credit for not being so shallow. My first dom owns 3 companies when i went on a 3 business/pleasure trip with him he landed 2 contracted worth over 7 million, I ended up assisting him as he needed files changed from CAD to PDF for a presentation , my reward for assisting and to celebrate was a trip to the casino and $500 for me to blow there, he was 50 then and I was 48 and I am by no means a model ... In the past year he is not the only one that has taken an interest in me. One in California was interested as well was offering to fly back and forth including trip for me, I am in Ontario , he was also willing to buy a house temporarily here inorder for us to spend more time together while keeping his home in CA now he did not state his income but it is likely safe to assume managing a large chain of international hotels probably pays pretty good. He wanted me to give up my job and move to him but I prefer to finish working till I am retired inorder to collect my pension...he was not prepared to wait that long .. So wealthy doms are out there that are looking for 50 years olds and it does not mean because they have money they can buy them ... at least this one is not for sale

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 10:01:50 AM

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I consider myself wealthy. I have my health, my toys.... and a filthy little cum crazy slut that begs me to use her in any way that I please. What more can a man want?

CD

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 10:11:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001
One in California was interested as well was offering to fly back and forth including trip for me, I am in Ontario , he was also willing to buy a house temporarily here inorder for us to spend more time together while keeping his home in CA now he did not state his income but it is likely safe to assume managing a large chain of international hotels probably pays pretty good. He wanted me to give up my job and move to him but I prefer to finish working till I am retired inorder to collect my pension...he was not prepared to wait that long .. So wealthy doms are out there that are looking for 50 years olds and it does not mean because they have money they can buy them ... at least this one is not for sale

*grins* send him my way ;)

(j/k... kinda...lol)

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 10:14:39 AM

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well of course all the wealthiest doms can be found on CM. It's completely *FREE* and the wealthy being grasping and all they could surely never resist CM.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 10:19:57 AM

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Men wanting beautiful women is no more shallow than women wanting men with a nice comfortable lifestyle.
They go hand in hand.

I didn't say ALL...i said GENERALLY....

the number of supposed millionaires on this site is astounding. even more astounding is how quick they are to let every potential love interest and play partner know just exactly how much money is in the bank....before EVER meeting in person!

sorry...i'm not buying it.
in my experience, IN GENERAL, men with money don't throw it around with such abandon to strangers.

p.s. i could afford to buy you a first class ticket to l.a. and put you up in a nice hotel suite this weekend, take you to some really nice restaurants, etc etc. That still doesn't make me a millionaire.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 10:28:13 AM

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I consider myself wealthy. I have my health, my toys.... and a filthy little cum crazy slut that begs me to use her in any way that I please. What more can a man want?

CD

So true ... there is more than one way to measure wealth

happiness/fulfillement and being able to make ends meet is worth a heck of alot more than having lots of dollars being able to buying brief periods of fun but not fulfilled.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 11:30:06 AM

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There are men, women and couples on this site who are worth more than a million dollars.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 11:37:49 AM

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There are men, women and couples on this site who are worth more than a million dollars.

I'm priceless!

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 11:38:35 AM

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There are men, women and couples on this site who are worth more than a million dollars.

I'm priceless!

we all are

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 11:52:29 AM

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I have a price:

my price is being loved for the person I am, with all my foibles and quirks, all my moments of neediness, my temper and stubborness. My price is being valued despite my failings, and having the knowledge that regardless of all of the above.. I'm wanted.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 1:29:54 PM

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However, insisting on having your own money available at any moment is simply a refusal to actually submit.

Would you rather have a woman submit to you because she is trapped and can't leave because she has no access to her money?

It is not necessary to decide such a thing is negative, to take it to such an extreme.
His post actually pointed out how there was a pot of cash being put aside so that she *isn't* trapped, that she *can* leave and *would* have access to money.
She is submitting because she chooses to. A feature of that submission is it is no longer a case of "her" money and "His" money ... but all His money, some of which He gives her the use of.

Once/if/when the relationship came to an end, there would be a bank account in her name with funds for her to re-start her life away from the relationship.

So actually He was making the point that money wouldn't need to be a factor in *if* she submitted ... merely a feature of *how* she submitted.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 1:35:21 PM

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There are men, women and couples on this site who are worth more than a million dollars.

I'm priceless!

we all are

Yes, I agree. Poor English on my part. I hope my point was understood.

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RE: The 'Problem' of the Wealthy Dom - 7/3/2008 2:01:48 PM

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we all are

Where's my change

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