NihilusZero
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Joined: 9/10/2008 From: Nashville, TN Status: offline
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Despite the fact that your tone may be met with many "rolleyes" responses, there is a truth hidden in your words. There are two situations that come into my mind: If you are speaking of subs who do not display specific subservience just via private message and interaction on this site, I think the assessment is askew. I support tact as a general rule of thumb, but a message received from a self-titled 'Dom' on the site should not automatically need to be responded to in overt reverence (e.g. the sub titling the Dom , etc. or immediately yielding to whatever weird task the stranger has asked at the outset). Now...on the other hand, everyone's view of D/s can be a little bit different and there are (it appears to me) plenty of subs who don't realize they only want to be role-play subs or part-time (at their convenience) subs who perhaps word their views without having taken thorough introspection (to be fair, this is true of some Doms also). I make personal mention of this in my bio because I'm not fond (in the least) of subs who have this willful reservation to be 'bratty' if they want; as if it's some reservoir of symbolic 'independence' they should get the right to brandish at will for no reason (usually in lieu of having a more sensible means of asserting themselves). And then, of course, you have the eternal debate between the 'trigger subs' and the 'natural subs'...where the former are looking to be submissive only if encountering a certain level of 'strength of dominance' from another (e.g. most often, these describe their submission as a "gift"), rather than having subservience be an inherent characteristic to their persona. And, lastly, despite the aversion of many to use titles to help inform (because some people appear to have an innate fear of being 'categorized'), I think you will find those more wholly in tune with a greater level of surrender describing themselves as 'slaves' as opposed to 'subs'.
< Message edited by NihilusZero -- 10/1/2008 7:24:41 PM >
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