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Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 12:59:43 PM

xxxKellyxxx

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From spanking or any other type of punishment.

I cry so easliy its unreal. A dom i see every now and then loves it. Eeeek!

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 1:37:27 PM

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 2:14:09 PM

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I don't know if master likes it but he certainly tolerates it. Not from punishment, but from arguments/misunderstandings, I've been crying a lot lately (not even because it makes sense, but just because I can't stop myself from crying for no reason).

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 2:16:50 PM

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I love it when it's genuine.

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 3:03:28 PM

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Only when it's caused by my hand.

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 3:14:16 PM

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Master loves it when i cry and he can comfort and protect me...... mmmmm.... remembering warm tears....

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 3:28:40 PM

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I'd better get to like it, we recently hit the menapause

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 3:58:31 PM

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Tears are hot... when they're an indication we've reached a place that we both wanted to go. If you cry a lot, OP -- well, I'm one of those eeeky doms your red flags warned you about. Cuz all I can say is Yum.

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 4:03:04 PM

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It depends on...why

I just cried that I was not 25 when I perved you =L=

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 4:09:52 PM

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I like it when its an expression of their feelings over their dispointment in their actions towards or in response to what I have said.

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 4:39:58 PM

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In a word

NO

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 7:42:52 PM

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dacryphilia

Pretty common. He isn't a sadist so doesn't get off from tears from pain, but if he gets me to an emotional catharsis he likes that a lot. He likes seeing me so open and vulnerable that my emotions come that freely.

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/6/2008 11:29:34 PM

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I like hearing my slave scream and whimper when I am spanking her.

However, when she is being punished, pleasure is not the object of the exercise. My goal is to correct her attitude, not generate a flood of tears. If the punishment produces a catharsis that moves the correction along, that is an excellent outcome, but tears in and of themselves are of no consequence.

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/7/2008 10:37:05 AM

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It depends.

When she's crying tears of joy, or tears because she's in subspace, yes.
Otherwise, no....

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/7/2008 10:57:35 AM

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Like others have said... it depends... I've been with subs that crying is a normal outlet for them when processing what they are going through. In most cases they have known this and let me know before it happened so I knew it was okay. If I don't know and they begin to cry and I can't figure out why then I will usually try to find out if there is something wrong. As I've played with those that have had rough pasts I am cautious about stepping on emotional landmines.

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/7/2008 11:02:02 AM

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It depends on why she's crying.
If it's an emotional reaction to something in life that is genuinely troubling her, then no. I don't want to see My little girl in tears.
I will hold her and let her cry, dry her tears, talk to her and comfort her until she's finished.
If it's a release during a punishment for something she did that was wrong, I'll continue with the punishment firmly and comfort her as much as is needed when I'm done. My little girl rarely needs punishment, which suits Me fine. She's a good girl and that's the way I want her. But when it does happen I hold firm to the punishment I've decided to give out. Then once it's over the issue is forgotten, never to be mentioned again. It's now time to comfort her, console her and commend her for taking her punishment. (I will always end a punishment session on a positive.)
On the other hand...
If it's during a "play" session and she starts crying, (Provided it's not a genuine distress trigger I might have hit on) it only fuels the sadistic fire in Me to go further. When she cries during play, I want her to cry a thousand tears as I fuck her savagely. It is so hot to watch her go from a crying, sobbing mess to the lust-driven slut she is. To see her body betray her and watch her go from tears to arousal...Awesome!

So...That's My

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/7/2008 11:21:01 AM

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Tears turn me on. No matter what the reason. Call me a pervert.

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/7/2008 3:21:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: Cuffkinks

It depends on why she's crying.
If it's an emotional reaction to something in life that is genuinely troubling her, then no. I don't want to see My little girl in tears.
I will hold her and let her cry, dry her tears, talk to her and comfort her until she's finished.
If it's a release during a punishment for something she did that was wrong, I'll continue with the punishment firmly and comfort her as much as is needed when I'm done. My little girl rarely needs punishment, which suits Me fine. She's a good girl and that's the way I want her. But when it does happen I hold firm to the punishment I've decided to give out. Then once it's over the issue is forgotten, never to be mentioned again. It's now time to comfort her, console her and commend her for taking her punishment. (I will always end a punishment session on a positive.)
On the other hand...
If it's during a "play" session and she starts crying, (Provided it's not a genuine distress trigger I might have hit on) it only fuels the sadistic fire in Me to go further. When she cries during play, I want her to cry a thousand tears as I fuck her savagely. It is so hot to watch her go from a crying, sobbing mess to the lust-driven slut she is. To see her body betray her and watch her go from tears to arousal...Awesome!

So...That's My .

Sir,

My gut reaction to your post: "You are so f*cking hot!"

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/7/2008 3:49:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cuffkinks

It depends on why she's crying.
If it's an emotional reaction to something in life that is genuinely troubling her, then no. I don't want to see My little girl in tears.
I will hold her and let her cry, dry her tears, talk to her and comfort her until she's finished.
If it's a release during a punishment for something she did that was wrong, I'll continue with the punishment firmly and comfort her as much as is needed when I'm done. My little girl rarely needs punishment, which suits Me fine. She's a good girl and that's the way I want her. But when it does happen I hold firm to the punishment I've decided to give out. Then once it's over the issue is forgotten, never to be mentioned again. It's now time to comfort her, console her and commend her for taking her punishment. (I will always end a punishment session on a positive.)
On the other hand...
If it's during a "play" session and she starts crying, (Provided it's not a genuine distress trigger I might have hit on) it only fuels the sadistic fire in Me to go further. When she cries during play, I want her to cry a thousand tears as I fuck her savagely. It is so hot to watch her go from a crying, sobbing mess to the lust-driven slut she is. To see her body betray her and watch her go from tears to arousal...Awesome!

So...That's My .

ditto...that is really hot. pant pant pant...

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RE: Do you like it when your sub cries? - 10/7/2008 4:31:57 PM

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I like it when I cause it purposely. I do not care for it when it is accidental, or because he is upset or stressed.

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