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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:07:45 PM   
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Being pro-life means that you think the secular government shouldn't sanction feticide.

There are obviously ways to terminate a pregnancy without legal abortion. Women have done that for millenia. In fact, a pennyroyal concoction is a bit more dangerous, and really presses home the gravity of the choice you're making - kinda like being kicked out of a garden with no security. If you're following that analogy, that is.



I was going to stay out of this, I really was..but..you got me.

Yes women have taken ergot and other poisons for centuries to terminate a pregnancy. Know what it is called? Abortion.  It fact it is what the word was coined to cover..the taking of poisons to abort an infant at ANY STAGE. Sometimes it worked..Sometimes the Mother and Baby died, sometimes the baby was born and left out to die in the weather, snow, sleet, balmy summer eve, torrential rain, eaten by rats, dogs, pecked to death by crows..bye bye. THAT is a much crueler death in my opinion.

There are very few women who waltz into a clinic and have an abortion like they are going to have their nails or hair done.It is an agonizing choice that leaves scars on your heart and mind like nothing else can. At 55 I still hurt over the abortion that was ordered for me to rid me of my fathers "gift". Worse however would have been bringing it into the world..severely handicapped children weren't adopted back in those days and there was no way I could have cared for it and I would have killed to keep it away from my parents. What they did to me was bad enough.

Everyone has a right to life, but one would hope it would be a good life. Not one of starvation, torture, beating, drug addiction, abuse. So many have latched onto the "socialism" supposedly in the current campaign, but consider if you will..every UM that is born UNWANTED and abandoned to the foster care system will have have its care paid for, is an Um who will grow up on your dime, need medicaid, food, clothing, education housing all paid for by your taxes. There are just not enough Foster Homes, Adoptive parents and there is no way to force someone to take care of their own Um if it is unwanted. Few are the women who would be able to look at an Um who was the product of Rape, Incest, Abuse and hold them tight. I know in my tender years I could not have.

I don't agree with abortion as a means of birth control, but I support a woman's right to her body and to her right to make choices, even the hard ones. No one else knows if she is able to handle a child, and there are too many unwanted children already in this world.. Maybe some of the right to lifers should adopt all of them, before demanding that more are brought into the world unloved and unwanted. Better a quick death before birth than a slow torturous one afterward. We have too many children tortured to death yearly as it is by parents who don't want them.

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I was about to post this very same sentiment almost word for word. Thank you poenkitten for having the courage to share your life and your feelings.
I do not believe in my heart that abortion is ever a choice that is made callously and to suggest that it is a calculated murder and some how worse than all the indignities and horror so many unwanted children suffer every single day is asinine.

When all the pro-lifers agree to take in and provide sustenance and love and an education to every unwanted child then I will become a pro-lifer.
Until you've worked at childrens home or ranch and witnessed first hand the ugly cruelty of what really happens to children who were not wanted then all your moralizing is nothing but lip service.

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:14:32 PM   
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People jump on the abortion bandwagon for political reasons - they don't typically give a flying duck's fuck about it, and their moral indignation is usually faked. Abortion is a handy tool for monopolising all sorts of anti-progressive segments of society: same with creationism and any other 'important issue' that the right likes to bandy about to make their point.  

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:15:19 PM   
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I think the biggest problem I have with those who wish to 'teach women to keep their legs closed', is that they often neglect to teach men to keep their pants zipped.

If a man does not want an abortion to occur, he is just as responsible for not getting a woman pregnant to begin with.

Until we start prompting our doctors to 'fix' our boys, we should not remove safer ways for our girls to abort unwanted children.  Until we can prevent all rape and incest from occuring, certain men really have no say in what the woman chooses to do with her body or the fetus growing inside.

Those who conceive in loving relationships, or without education on birth control, should indeed put more consideration into their options.  However, I'm betting those individuals do that already.

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:16:21 PM   
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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:22:31 PM   
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People jump on the abortion bandwagon for political reasons - they don't typically give a flying duck's fuck about it, and their moral indignation is usually faked. Abortion is a handy tool for monopolising all sorts of anti-progressive segments of society: same with creationism and any other 'important issue' that the right likes to bandy about to make their point.  
You forgot the other wedge (non) issue:  the homos.

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:23:44 PM   
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...i've been saving this post for a while.......however, as we now have a poster who characterises abortion as stab stab sucky suck, and calls it feticide i figure it's time.

Pro-life people are anti-Christian. That's the hypothesis. Let me explain.

Way back in the Garden of Eden, God placed the Tree of Life and the Tree of Knowledge there and told Adam and Eve to leave them alone. Why? Why put them where Adam and Eve could get to them? i mean, God has the whole of creation to play with....so why put them where Adam and Eve can even get close? There's only one possible explanation that jibes with God not being an utter bastard. Free Will.
God doesn't want people to follow because they have no choice. He doesn't want people to worship Him blindly. It has to be a decision. There has to be Free Will.
Now the pro-life position, as it applies to changing legislation, removes choice. Removes the element of free will from the equation. That position seeks to do something that God Himself forebore to do. Remove the element of choice. This is clearly hubris.
Thus, my hypothesis runs, those that seek to change legislation to make abortion illegal are anti-Christian. They have forgotten the first principle.......free will.

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:23:58 PM   
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Since you believe abortion should be illegal, what do you propose as a solution to the increase in unwanted children which would be the result? According to adopt.org, there are more than 134,000 children in the US waiting to be adopted as it is.

Fix the adoption process.  Prospective adoptive parents often wait years.  The whole process is a mess from start to finish; it's costly, inefficient, and ineffective.


Are you saying you think your the first to come up with this idea??  You think "fixing" the adoption process will be a solution?How exactly would you fix it?Come on don't stick a flimsy band aid on the situation. What's your plan?

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:28:54 PM   
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All this adoption business... so that women become nothing more than incubators to provide a brood for rich barren couples... there was a rather nasty science fiction book by Margaret Atwood about it.

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:31:44 PM   
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When all the pro-lifers agree to take in and provide sustenance and love and an education to every unwanted child then I will become a pro-lifer.
Until you've worked at childrens home or ranch and witnessed first hand the ugly cruelty of what really happens to children who were not wanted then all your moralizing is nothing but lip service.


1. I don't think murdering homeless people should be legal, but that doesn't mean I'm going to go out and buy them a condo.

2. I've LIVED in multiple "childrens homes" and it is pretty shitty there. But if ANY of those children, myself included, thought that we would have been better off aborted we would have committed suicide. It's pretty shitty to tell anyone, much less a child, that their life is so horrible they would be better off dead.

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:32:58 PM   
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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:40:37 PM   
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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:41:55 PM   
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But if ANY of those children, myself included, thought that we would have been better off aborted we would have committed suicide. It's pretty shitty to tell anyone, much less a child, that their life is so horrible they would be better off dead.


Sorry, it's not about you or the other sprogs, it's about the mothers. Do you understand the difference, or does it bypass you completely?

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:44:27 PM   
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Pro-life doesn't remove choice, it removes one single choice.  There are still other choices.

i made sure to point out my hypothesis applied strictly to those Pro-Lifers who seek to change legislation. The choice involved is, at the first part of the decision tree, binary. Abortion or continue with the pregnancy.


I'm sorry that nobody, as far as I can see, addressed your OP about removing free will.  I had a feeling that would happen.  As soon as the word "abortion" is introduced, it doesn't seem to matter what the question is, it becomes a pro-choice vs. pro-life free-for-all.

What I meant was, changing legislation does not remove free will.  It only removes one choice, not all choices.  I don't see it as the binary tree that you describe.

When you remove all choices, then I see you removing free will.


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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:47:49 PM   
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but does it have to be down to only one option before its effecting free will Cali... take away abortion the mother has one choice till birth... carry the fetus to term.... upon birth they can either adopt or keep the child. so yes they have choices but before the actual birth they have no choices... unless you include back alley abortions

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:50:19 PM   
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When all the pro-lifers agree to take in and provide sustenance and love and an education to every unwanted child then I will become a pro-lifer.
Until you've worked at childrens home or ranch and witnessed first hand the ugly cruelty of what really happens to children who were not wanted then all your moralizing is nothing but lip service.


1. I don't think murdering homeless people should be legal, but that doesn't mean I'm going to go out and buy them a condo.

2. I've LIVED in multiple "childrens homes" and it is pretty shitty there. But if ANY of those children, myself included, thought that we would have been better off aborted we would have committed suicide. It's pretty shitty to tell anyone, much less a child, that their life is so horrible they would be better off dead.


Sure you have. And pretty shitty isn't exactly how I  bet many who did would describe it. No actually whats pretty shitty is all the children who were tortured, and beaten and raped who are now DEAD.
It's pretty shitty that it was better they lived through that horror so you could be self-righteous.
That makes perfect sense in your world right?


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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:52:56 PM   
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But if ANY of those children, myself included, thought that we would have been better off aborted we would have committed suicide. It's pretty shitty to tell anyone, much less a child, that their life is so horrible they would be better off dead.


Sorry, it's not about you or the other sprogs, it's about the mothers. Do you understand the difference, or does it bypass you completely?


It's very much about the sprogs. Either they are terminated, or they are given a chance at life. The mother (quite obviously) doesn't have to stick around, but even a motherless sprog is better off than a dead sprog.

Plenty of great people had less than stellar childhoods. Hell, if Barack Obama were conceived today, out of wedlock with a 17 year old single mother and a father married to someone else, what do you think his chance at life would be? What if Bill Clinton's mom decided that as a widow she would be unable to care for her unborn child and abortion was available?

I don't understand how you can say abortion is not about the fetuses being aborted, or the children who are saved from abortion.

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:53:00 PM   
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oh my goodness!
how can you predict the future of the unborn?  if the child is unwanted does that really mean they will become a murder, rape or incest victim? 

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:54:12 PM   
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Pro-life doesn't remove choice, it removes one single choice.  There are still other choices.

i made sure to point out my hypothesis applied strictly to those Pro-Lifers who seek to change legislation. The choice involved is, at the first part of the decision tree, binary. Abortion or continue with the pregnancy.


I'm sorry that nobody, as far as I can see, addressed your OP about removing free will.  I had a feeling that would happen.  As soon as the word "abortion" is introduced, it doesn't seem to matter what the question is, it becomes a pro-choice vs. pro-life free-for-all.

What I meant was, changing legislation does not remove free will.  It only removes one choice, not all choices.  I don't see it as the binary tree that you describe.

When you remove all choices, then I see you removing free will.


Cali



Your absolutely right and I apologize for getting off topic. It is about choice and free will and not the result of either.
Thanks Cali for bringing this back on topic.

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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:54:17 PM   
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I'm sorry that nobody, as far as I can see, addressed your OP about removing free will. 


I did.

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There are obviously ways to terminate a pregnancy without legal abortion. Women have done that for millenia. In fact, a pennyroyal concoction is a bit more dangerous, and really presses home the gravity of the choice you're making - kinda like being kicked out of a garden with no security. If you're following that analogy, that is.


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RE: Pro-life Anti-Christian - 10/27/2008 6:57:01 PM   
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Ok, CL.. so what you're saying... outlaw abortion.

Murder already is outlawed.  I am saying that the pretense of abortion being anything other than murder should be brought to a swift and permanent end.


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