Focus50 -> RE: Subspace (12/19/2005 3:25:27 AM)
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ORIGINAL: cravinspankin So i hear the term "subspace" often, but not entirely sure what this is I've experienced quite a bit of bdsm play over recent months... at least weekly, and love it. But while i've had different, intense reactions to it, i'm not sure i've achieved "subspace." Would someone please define it for me, in terms of what it is for You? I'm not gonna write 3 pages on what I think sub-space is but I'll give an example or two.... I have my own theory (based solely on being the one observing) that sub-space is what allows a sub to endure without feeling real pain or constraint etc and, indeed, creates the opposite effect in her mind via endorphins or whatever. The scariest thing about a sub who's "under", especially if she's laying down, is that she hardly seems to be alive. As long as she's not distressed or distracted, you really have to look carefully to see signs of her breathing such as chest movement. She can hardly talk and it sounds like gibberish when she tries anyway so I tend not to distract her by asking questions. Mind you, she'll swear blind she was talking normally.... lol The other thing is time.... I've had fem/subs hogtied for over 2 hours and once released, were convinced only a few minutes had passed despite any inevitable stiffness etc. "Lost" time is also true for me and Top-space as well. But I'm still aware of how long the time was, it's just that it feels surreal and just doesn't feel like it was that long. If you're really not sure you've been there, ask your partner what he/she saw. Focus.
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