missturbation
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Joined: 2/12/2006 From: another planet Status: offline
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If "I" love "you," and you love me, I can beat you, treat you badly, humiliate you to the point of feeling you are the lowest of the low. Because we "love" each other, it's all right. Not exactly. And thats not really what i said. I said a mixture of intent, consent, love and caring made it a whole different ball game. quote:
I am not saying there isn't some sense of pleasure, enjoyment, satisfaction, fulfillment, or whatever, out of it for each party involved. I believe there is. I'm just asking, is it right? For myself and Sir it is right. Whats right for me and Sir is not going to be right for everyone though. quote:
Y'all realize that if I had a BMW 550, really loved that vehicle, and took it out off-roading, whapped it with chains in the privacy of my own garage, scratched its paint, cut its interior leather, compromised its performance by sticking things where they don't belong, cussed and swore at it for now not being all it should be, and did minimal maintenance on it, Minimal maintenance would be key here for me. I need aftercare, be it self aftercare or given by Sir. A sub / Dom relationship is no different to your analogy in general, good maintenance is needed. Without good maintenance your toy is likely to break, thats why i said i do these things in a loving, caring, secure relationship where i get good maintenance. quote:
Why shouldn't someone on the outside have the right to be concerned? Of course you have a right to be concerned, show concern. However you have to accept at some point that there are people out there who wish to be treat like this, run their relationships this way. Just because it is not your way doesn't make it wrong. quote:
If the SPCA would cite me for being abusive if I did the same things to a dog or a horse, (which, if conditioned correctly would keep coming back) why is it OK to do it to a fellow human, simply because they comply? Informed consent. quote:
What little abuse I've gotten or witnessed in the real world has been enough. I don't need to bring it into my private life. Then don't. However when i am beaten black and blue, curled up on the floor sobbing i am fucking loving it and not being abused in any way.
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